I Can't Stop myself ...
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Hi Guys... This is the first/2nd day i'm here ... and i would like to share with you all some of my problems.
A normal day for me would be, right after school, after a bathe and everything after i reach home, I would IRC/ICQ until at night ... irc and icq because i'm waiting for someone i love to be online, and while waiting, i usually would play a MUD called Dawn Of Time. But the most important things are ... I can't Get myself to Study ! No matter how hard i try ... i can't concentrate on my homework or studies ... haI~ And These days ... i'm trying to resolve some problems with the girl i like ... and it's like i'm totally buzzed out to study ... i might be giving excuses but i never did study before in my life. ..
That's the reason why i dropped from sec 2 express to sec 3 normal.
Please tell me what i can do ... thank you all in advance ...
and btw .. you can email me @ [email protected] or ICQ me at 13535415 .. or even find me at IRC as AaroN^_^ .
Please THink about this and give me a reply, in icq or email, if it's not possible for you to reply here ...
*Self Intro*
I am a 16/m from hongkah secondary school.
CCA ( Head of Chess ) ( SPL (Head) of Scouts )
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Love is Full Of Difficulties and problems ... even if you like her, she might not like you and vice versa ... and even if you 2 like each other ... there are always problems ... But Never Give up ! -
Head of chess and even a scout....... well maybe u can try to be more actively involve in other things rather then to face the computer the whole day.
I know the addiction of what icq n esp IRC can do, but i also know very well that in the end, other than wasting a lot of time, u will achieve nothing playing IRC, that's one of the reason why i seldom play.
Anyway, guess its pretty easy for guys like yr age to be heavily engagged in irc n have crushes over some 'gers' in the channel. But then, how possible do you think that things might work out.
Again, other than yrself, no1 can help you....... maybe u can get out of yr house 2 do some reading else where so that here will be no computer ard to distract you.
Guess u r having Ns this yr and u should noe pretty well that without passing yr Ns, u can forget abt yr Os. U have already waste 1 yr, from express to normal, so u shouldn't waste another.
I believe u r a sensible guy, from some of the replies u gave actually can tell. So pls think, which is more important. And again, virtual love or love through IRC dun usually last........ so pls, get a life.......
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Love... can be such a distraction isn't it?
Delete of your IRC loh. Then cannot irc liao mah. Hehe
Now in secondary, how well you fare in your Os is going to affect your future. Do you want to be able to choose the course you like? Sometimes you need to decide what are the more important stuff that you should concentrate on first.
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"You teach me love in subtle lessons, but you are the student if you do not understand that a day will never dawn when you are not on my mind, night will never see a midnight hour with you not in my dreams, no other will ever be allowed into my heart, and I'll never love again if it isn't with you." -
Yup,your Os are going to make or break your future,so study hard for it and one it is over,you can move on to your other matters,hehee
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It's take a second to look at my makan,a minute to finish my burger and a lifetime to enjoy all the food i want
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Diablo 2 rockzzzzzz -
Look arron84z, an advice from the future teacher, think u did better heal her advice :pOriginally posted by Crysania:Love... can be such a distraction isn't it?
Delete of your IRC loh. Then cannot irc liao mah. Hehe Now in secondary, how well you fare in your Os is going to affect your future. Do you want to be able to choose the course you like? Sometimes you need to decide what are the more important stuff that you should concentrate on first.
Oh yah, btw, you will have a lot of chances for other gers when u r in JC or poly, depending on the course u take, heh....... -
Ya,even if JC or poly,you can't meet girls,then you can meet lotsa in your working life,but 1st must go thru 2 1/2 years of NS 1st lah,ahaha,but as long you dun join the SAF,then you sure to meet lotsa girls when you start working liaoz,hehehe
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It's take a second to look at my makan,a minute to finish my burger and a lifetime to enjoy all the food i want~~~
Diablo 2 rockzzzzzz -
do something tat diverts ya attention frm irc??like fer example..do a hobby...it takes time to stop yaself frm irc completely...or mabbee jus reduce e hrs ...mabbee u can try ircing later at night..say 11++..fewer pple den u wun be always tempted to chat wif pple in irc...tis way might helps u to get sick of irc??when theres nobody to tok to!!
no matter wat..STUDEES cums first!`
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<<<<KnOwLeDgE iS tHe AnTiDoTe To fEaR>>>> -
Er...dun need to tell the whole world mah. :pOriginally posted by Atti:Look arron84z, an advice from the future teacher, think u did better heal her advice :p
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"You teach me love in subtle lessons, but you are the student if you do not understand that a day will never dawn when you are not on my mind, night will never see a midnight hour with you not in my dreams, no other will ever be allowed into my heart, and I'll never love again if it isn't with you." -
Muahahahaha...everyone also know sia......LoLOriginally posted by Crysania:Er...dun need to tell the whole world mah. :p
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The Prince Of Darkness...
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Advice from someone trying to quit IRC too.. :pOriginally posted by ^YuKi^:do something tat diverts ya attention frm irc??like fer example..do a hobby...it takes time to stop yaself frm irc completely...or mabbee jus reduce e hrs ...mabbee u can try ircing later at night..say 11++..fewer pple den u wun be always tempted to chat wif pple in irc...tis way might helps u to get sick of irc??when theres nobody to tok to!!
no matter wat..STUDEES cums first!`
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The Prince Of Darkness...
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Well ... i know that i do like her alot ... i've been waiting 6 months for her ...
and everything ... there are some other things i would like to tell... but i guess i'd better not ...
Well .... Being addicted to irc ... i have been ircing since i am sec 2. And it's an everyday thing ... my hobbies ? Hmmz ... i've been so addicted to IRC/ICQ/Counterstrike/Dawn Of Time ... that i dont' have much time for other stuff ... all those listed above are sooooooo addictive ... I just can't bring myself to study... or even do my hw as it is ... I've tried going out with friends to do ... but we've ended up playing ... ahhhhhhh~
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wow...waited 6 months for a girl, everyday frm afternoon till night!!! Guess I really admire u for yr patience. You dun have any other means of contacting her? Like through the phone? Then won't have to wait for her on IRC everyday.
For me, think have the same situation...hehe
Also waiting for a girl on IRC, but not frm afternoon till night, juz 1 hr every nite, guess not too bad. Unlike U who hav waited 6 months for her, I waited 3 weeks already cannot Tahan...
Heard that its because her PC is spoilt, so guess have to wait till her PC is repaired b4 I can meet her again, but dunno when that day will be. Think she's not that cruel to make me wait that long. Too bad I dun have her other contact number other than her ICQ. Hope she can receive the message I sent her through ICQ. REally miss her a lot.
Think for u after waiting for 6 months, chances are quite slim...but anyway still wish u the best. Hope She'll not be so cruel to make u wait any longer. But again, not to forget, though u're addicted to much things, some things r certainly more imptortant than others. -
You can go ahead and eat meOriginally posted by aaron84z:Please tell me what i can do ... thank you all in advance ...
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Okay .. i'm taking away your Queen ... Checkmate !Originally posted by jliu:You can go ahead and eat me
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Yo aaron... hehe.. do i look familiar to u ??
hehe..
Hmm... looks like u r in a knotty situation here... c'mon larr.. how can HK SPL be troubled in such things..?? hehehe... U can handle a whole scout troop... sure u can handle a girl... ... and of course... ur school work.... okok.. enuff of crap lar.
I guess u r juz too used to goin on irc or playin games or not studyin after school...juz like myslef last time..
So... juz start by pushing urself to do abit of work each time u come home instead of loggin on to the net...increasing the amount of studyin time each week....
Soon u would be able to DISCIPLINE urself and refraining urself from sitting in front of the PC... I noe its difficult... but u juz have to try.
*A scout muz have courage in all difficulties* <<< 5th LAW!!!
Any difficulties in studies... i think u can ask Peihui lor.. she damn good.. hehe..
err.. For the affairs of the heart... tok to Liza...... they r not there for nothing u noe...
All the Best!!
Zinc -
You also know knotty ar ? Just got scolded by Jianhui and Scout Teacher 2day ... so many things to do ... and i have to make decisions ... but i still got scolded ... so i'm stupid, then why make me the stupid SPL anyway ? did you know i tried to shun from the position since sec 2 ? I shouldn't have joined scouts in the first place *Ssh, don't tell anyone*Originally posted by ZincBear:Yo aaron... hehe.. do i look familiar to u ??
hehe..
Hmm... looks like u r in a knotty situation here... c'mon larr.. how can HK SPL be troubled in such things..?? hehehe... U can handle a whole scout troop... sure u can handle a girl... ... and of course... ur school work.... okok.. enuff of crap lar.
I guess u r juz too used to goin on irc or playin games or not studyin after school...juz like myslef last time..
So... juz start by pushing urself to do abit of work each time u come home instead of loggin on to the net...increasing the amount of studyin time each week....
Soon u would be able to DISCIPLINE urself and refraining urself from sitting in front of the PC... I noe its difficult... but u juz have to try.
*A scout muz have courage in all difficulties* <<< 5th LAW!!!
Any difficulties in studies... i think u can ask Peihui lor.. she damn good.. hehe..
err.. For the affairs of the heart... tok to Liza...... they r not there for nothing u noe...
All the Best!!
Zinc
i'm getting tired with all this scouts things to do ... i still have to do a little hw now and then ... and then Jianhui calls me now and then to comfirm the campfire thing ... Being a HK scout isn't a good experience at my age ... trust me . -
DON'T BE STUPID!!! I guess nothing i say will make you wake up from your foolishness. You are still young, you will meet thousands of girls in the years to come...
Do you think she'll give a damm when you fail your Os??? NO! She'll probably look down on you and think that you are such a failure!
If you really love her, study hard! Do well for your O's, maybe then will you earn some attention from her. If your love is really undying(quite impossible), study extremely hard and earn lots of money next time. If she doesn't want you, I can bet that many girls will want you.
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Follow your heart and do what you think is right... If anything goes wrong, blame yourself and no one else... -
hey... u think SPL is so easy?? hehe... u alwayz kena the scoldings.. coz u r IN CHARGE!! Be glad that u r getting such valuable experience which u cannot get elsewhere... like the classroom.
I was in such fixes too last time... dun get scolded for nothing... do ur best in whatever u do. Being a Scout in HK is not so bad... being a scout in CT is bad.. hehe....
Juz be responsible and clear-headed in whatever u do.... and dun blur blur.... u blur... the whole troop blurrrrrrrrrrrr......
Time to wake up and be the kind of SPL everyone wants u to be ....!!! Not juz some guy that falls to the ground juz because of some failure...
U can do it!!
"Once a Scout, Alwayz a Scout".. -
Control is the word
heeheehee :p :p :p
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* JuSt AnoTher StiNgrAy iN thE sEa * -
Just got over another campfire ... which was so depressingly boring ... Being an spl in hongkah, for this year ... = Being sandwiched by Teacher and instructor ... Teacher tell me to do this ... instructor say don't care teacher, do this ... then teacher say the same thing ... ended up being scolded by both ... they so great why don't they takeover ? Why use me ? I'm just someone who's trying to make the world a better place and lead a good life ...
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hehe... sounds interesting... sounds just like CT... haha..
Well, then u better get ur intructors and ur teacher to tok. Each time they ask u to do something contradicting each other, tell them what u have been told to do and ask them who u should follow lor. Maybe each of them might find each other's idea better in some way or another. -
Kaoz ...... you don't know how long they've been bickering ... ASk Kevin lar. Kevin ... please reply... give a response or whatever
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hmmzz...i tot all heads face tt same problem??? anyway, i was head of my eca, and sorta tt happened from me, den i decided i shud quit the position, coz i cann't tahan the scoldings from both sides......well, my excuse was tt it was affecting my studies. they had no reason not to let me go....thou' they didn't want to.....Originally posted by aaron84z:Just got over another campfire ... which was so depressingly boring ... Being an spl in hongkah, for this year ... = Being sandwiched by Teacher and instructor ... Teacher tell me to do this ... instructor say don't care teacher, do this ... then teacher say the same thing ... ended up being scolded by both ... they so great why don't they takeover ? Why use me ? I'm just someone who's trying to make the world a better place and lead a good life ...
anyway, i think, to study or not actually depends on ur OWN will power and determination. in ur case, u sound more as if u are trying to find some sort of a scapegoat, to take ur blame.....like those addictions, and the love for that ger.....u can study, just that u feel very addicted to the games, u blaming the games, and sorta like u also blaming the ger for making u wait, den letting u get so addicted to those games...
anyway, no offence meant in any part of my post....just hope u'll do well in ur O levels, and Good Luck. =) -
Thanks anyway ... It's N levels btw =)
I know you are right ... i Can study ... it's just that i can't bring myself to do it .... -
Either u sell away your PC
Or you chop off your hands.
So simple.