Agreed... But I think it's just becoz he has a new interest on the new ger. It's normal for guys.. or rather for ost pple.. like u got something new.. something exciting.. u tends to prefer it.. Remember when u were young... u always carry ur new toy ard, and throw the old ones aside?? it's the same idea here.Originally posted by mikegk_76:If that guy u said really gets along so well with the other girl and ignore u, it may b a blessing instead 'cos this type of guy dun give gals any sense of security, agreed?
Yup, u done rite this time, concentrate on your studies and all the best for admission into the best JC.Originally posted by Darling84:Thanks for ur response and advice, now that the uk trip as off, he has suddenly regained interest in me. but i'm not gonna be anyone's substitute "toy". i'm gonna forget abt him because, he's not gonna get me into a good jc, studying hard will. Thanks again.
That's a good ger... TO be able to think logically... It will help u to get out of trouble sometimes.. I'm really happy for u. Like wat u say, u r not anyone's substitute... and that is true. U deserve pple to treat u better.. Furthermore, studies are really more important to u now. If u need help in ur studies, u can always email me.Originally posted by Darling84:Thanks for ur response and advice, now that the uk trip as off, he has suddenly regained interest in me. but i'm not gonna be anyone's substitute "toy". i'm gonna forget abt him because, he's not gonna get me into a good jc, studying hard will. Thanks again.
Ferret,Originally posted by Ferret:I wish i had ur courage and determination...for to forget someone whom you cherished so much is so hard...
Dun think abt him/her?? hee hee... dun think so... but maybe u try putting everything at the back of ur mind and concentrate on ur work or studies.. I believe things will just dissappear.. But the sad part is that at the sight of him, or at the next conversation or outing with him/her, u will feel really bad, and u will have to start all over a again.Originally posted by Darling84:By the way... do any of u have any suggestions on how to get over a really bad crush??
I dunno how to put it across also...Originally posted by Bear:Ferret,
U'r having problems too??
Slowly... slowly say... we got all the time... we can also get help from other pple by putting up a discussion here. Then againz if u wanna email me, pls feel free to do so at [email protected].. I'll try my best to help.... coz I never like to see pple unhappy or upset... 8-)Originally posted by Ferret:I dunno how to put it across also...
*sObz*
Thanks for your offer of help ....But I think I'd rather try to handle it myself, for it's only me myself who understands what's going on....And only me myself who has to go on with life...Originally posted by Bear:Slowly... slowly say... we got all the time... we can also get help from other pple by putting up a discussion here. Then againz if u wanna email me, pls feel free to do so at [email protected].. I'll try my best to help.... coz I never like to see pple unhappy or upset... 8-)
okie.. but I think of us here in sgfprums will be willing to help u ever need them.Originally posted by Ferret:Thanks for your offer of help ....But I think I'd rather try to handle it myself, for it's only me myself who understands what's going on....And only me myself who has to go on with life...![]()
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*hugz hugz*Originally posted by Ferret:Thanks for your offer of help ....But I think I'd rather try to handle it myself, for it's only me myself who understands what's going on....And only me myself who has to go on with life...![]()
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Well, really tough, but once u set your mind to it, u can do it loh. Time heals all wounds, this is very true. Think it's impossible to ask u to forget all abt this guy, but try keeping yourself occupied with schoolwork perhaps, and go out more with friends so that u had pple to talk to and will not even had the time to think about this bad "crush" of yours. Easier said than done, huh? But no harm giving it a try...Hope it's feasible...Find someone to talk to if u really feels lonely at times, ok, *WINK*Originally posted by Darling84:By the way... do any of u have any suggestions on how to get over a really bad crush??
Well, really tough, but once u set your mind to it, u can do it loh. Time heals all wounds, this is very true. Think it's impossible to ask u to forget all abt this guy, but try keeping yourself occupied with schoolwork perhaps, and go out more with friends so that u had pple to talk to and will not even had the time to think about this bad "crush" of yours. Easier said than done, huh? But no harm giving it a try...Hope it's feasible...Find someone to talk to if u really feels lonely at times, ok, *WINK*Originally posted by mikegk_76:[QUOTE]Originally posted by Darling84:
[b]By the way... do any of u have any suggestions on how to get over a really bad crush??