Have I fallen for her?
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I'm in JC1 now. Since school starts, I got to know this girl. We msg each other everyday and soon, we've gotten kinda close. In school, I will offer to photocopy the notes for her as well as extending a helping hand whenever she needs it. She accompanys me often in school. We've been like very close companions and we often know what happen to each of us everyday. Thus we often hang out together. We have also exchange handphone to try out each other's phone for a few days.
On days when she didn't msg me first, my heart will be very 'itchy' and there I'll go and start the talking. (I'm the one who started the msg most of the time)
She just msged and tells me that she is going out with a guy (also a close friend of her's) tomorrow and I've gotten kinda jealous and upset.
Have I fallen for her? How do I prevent that? I don't want a good friendship to be spoilt because of my naive feelings for her. -
congratulations......
why do u want to hold back ur feelings?
let nature take its course....
and i gotta nag a bit.........do rber to put studies first though........ -
u r jz afraid u will lose ur gd fren to tis guy so it might not be love/like... since u only wan it to be frens then jz wish her a nice day lo...Originally posted by -LoLs-:I'm in JC1 now. Since school starts, I got to know this girl. We msg each other everyday and soon, we've gotten kinda close. In school, I will offer to photocopy the notes for her as well as extending a helping hand whenever she needs it. She accompanys me often in school. We've been like very close companions and we often know what happen to each of us everyday. Thus we often hang out together. We have also exchange handphone to try out each other's phone for a few days.
On days when she didn't msg me first, my heart will be very 'itchy' and there I'll go and start the talking. (I'm the one who started the msg most of the time)
She just msged and tells me that she is going out with a guy (also a close friend of her's) tomorrow and I've gotten kinda jealous and upset.
Have I fallen for her? How do I prevent that? I don't want a good friendship to be spoilt because of my naive feelings for her. -
Hmm.. Cause I'm not that sure whether I do like her or not. And I don't really want to cause an awkwardness between me and her in class.Originally posted by FireIce:congratulations......
why do u want to hold back ur feelings?
let nature take its course....
and i gotta nag a bit.........do rber to put studies first though........ -
If you are not sure. You have NOT fallen in love with her.Originally posted by -LoLs-:Hmm.. Cause I'm not that sure whether I do like her or not. And I don't really want to cause an awkwardness between me and her in class.
You are just itchy backside because she is leaving you for someone else.
I can understand this kinda feeling because I have some guys used to show interest in me, but since I never interested in them, I just continue to be their friend.
But the time comes I know the guy getting married to another woman, I get jealous and sometimes just want to seduce him for my own ego sake.
It is about ego. So just let it go.
FYI : Some friends are NOT forever. -
Aunty FireIce always got something to say one lah...Originally posted by FireIce:congratulations......
why do u want to hold back ur feelings?
let nature take its course....
and i gotta nag a bit.........do rber to put studies first though........
Anyway, congrats to TS.
Good start to a healthy relationship. -
At least she is telling you that she is going out with a guy...
What if she is dating your friend and she doesn't want to let you know, doesn't message you anymore...
*Ouch...
That really hurts...
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j1 huh?
must study..
later get retain how?
every year about 10% cohort get retain. -
R/S one thing...studies another hor...
But it's a start of a friendship, time will tell
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Well. I go out and study with her only during weekends, and I guess we're quite focused.
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you are jealous because you hope the one going out with her is you.Originally posted by -LoLs-:I'm in JC1 now. Since school starts, I got to know this girl. We msg each other everyday and soon, we've gotten kinda close. In school, I will offer to photocopy the notes for her as well as extending a helping hand whenever she needs it. She accompanys me often in school. We've been like very close companions and we often know what happen to each of us everyday. Thus we often hang out together. We have also exchange handphone to try out each other's phone for a few days.
On days when she didn't msg me first, my heart will be very 'itchy' and there I'll go and start the talking. (I'm the one who started the msg most of the time)
She just msged and tells me that she is going out with a guy (also a close friend of her's) tomorrow and I've gotten kinda jealous and upset.
Have I fallen for her? How do I prevent that? I don't want a good friendship to be spoilt because of my naive feelings for her.
its hard to say whether you have fallen for her or whether you just crave for her company. spend more time together.
if you think you can forsake the friendship for a relationship..then go ahead and ask her.
otherwise..forever be silence. -
Maybe it's just pure infatuation for the time being.
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i find out something...Originally posted by FireIce:and i gotta nag a bit.........do rber to put studies first though........
adults or older people always like to say, studies is the most important...
even an more old de teenager also say this... -
sms her and say... I feel very jealous you are going out with another guy... but enjoy yourself... I will just cry myself to sleep...Originally posted by -LoLs-:I'm in JC1 now. Since school starts, I got to know this girl. We msg each other everyday and soon, we've gotten kinda close. In school, I will offer to photocopy the notes for her as well as extending a helping hand whenever she needs it. She accompanys me often in school. We've been like very close companions and we often know what happen to each of us everyday. Thus we often hang out together. We have also exchange handphone to try out each other's phone for a few days.
On days when she didn't msg me first, my heart will be very 'itchy' and there I'll go and start the talking. (I'm the one who started the msg most of the time)
She just msged and tells me that she is going out with a guy (also a close friend of her's) tomorrow and I've gotten kinda jealous and upset.
Have I fallen for her? How do I prevent that? I don't want a good friendship to be spoilt because of my naive feelings for her.
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she already has a p ussy, i don't think she wants another oneOriginally posted by AndrewPKYap:sms her and say... I feel very jealous you are going out with another guy... but enjoy yourself... I will just cry myself to sleep... 
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Simple.
1) She likes you as a friend, a person who helps her all the time.
2) She loves that guy because she is attracted to him. -
Most kids they wouldn't know the consequences of not studying. In fact, even if they do know, they can't seem to apprehend the consequences. Most kids only live for the moment. Go with the flow.Originally posted by popikachu:i find out something...
adults or older people always like to say, studies is the most important...
even an more old de teenager also say this... -
yawn, jc
go fcuk her la
sry, no advice given from me -
why do you need to progress on?
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if she accepts you, might as well go for a relationship, my elder brother is in JC1 too and my parents keep on nagging him to have a girlfriend, as when you enter university, all the 'good' ones would be snatched away while those in the leftovers are those who study in polytechnics and in the end, you will feel those from polytechnics are not good enough for you, thats what my parents said ^^
like others have said, let nature take its course -
Don't worry you still have you chance..
You just having a crush on her..
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u wan to be flamed is it?Originally posted by glacer:if she accepts you, might as well go for a relationship, my elder brother is in JC1 too and my parents keep on nagging him to have a girlfriend, as when you enter university, all the 'good' ones would be snatched away while those in the leftovers are those who study in polytechnics and in the end, you will feel those from polytechnics are not good enough for you, thats what my parents said ^^
like others have said, let nature take its course
real sexy, nice, gd, and clever ones are in poly ok?
lol. no offence
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thats what studying in jcs do to kids and parents....Originally posted by glacer:if she accepts you, might as well go for a relationship, my elder brother is in JC1 too and my parents keep on nagging him to have a girlfriend, as when you enter university, all the 'good' ones would be snatched away while those in the leftovers are those who study in polytechnics and in the end, you will feel those from polytechnics are not good enough for you, thats what my parents said ^^
like others have said, let nature take its course
thanks for proving me right... -
Originally posted by glacer:if she accepts you, might as well go for a relationship, my elder brother is in JC1 too and my parents keep on nagging him to have a girlfriend, as when you enter university, all the 'good' ones would be snatched away while those in the leftovers are those who study in polytechnics and in the end, you will feel those from polytechnics are not good enough for you, thats what my parents said ^^
like others have said, let nature take its course
I can't accept this theory...
What crap...
Leftovers?
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Most females I know do not want to get a bf in jc for the simple fact that guys have to spend 2 years in NS and how will they get into a relationship with someone that they do not see a future with?Originally posted by glacer:if she accepts you, might as well go for a relationship, my elder brother is in JC1 too and my parents keep on nagging him to have a girlfriend, as when you enter university, all the 'good' ones would be snatched away while those in the leftovers are those who study in polytechnics and in the end, you will feel those from polytechnics are not good enough for you, thats what my parents said ^^
like others have said, let nature take its course
And who says poly girls are 'leftovers'? They are as human as you and me. Mind you, I am from JC.
'Good' ones snatched away? When the 'good' ones are away from their bfs for a week or more and other guys get to interact with her for the rest of the other days, tell me what is the likely outcome?