She's leaving.....
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i'm 16 this yr. Me and my stead are together for a year now... We have been through rain and shine... and finally we are together... But......
we have to part coz she's going to immigrate... she don't want to ... but she has no choice... her mother loves australia so much... and all be`coz of her mother stupid idea to immigrate to australia, perth, and her whole family is going to move there... her father already has apply for the citizenship in aus. she's going to leave... she didn't want to tell me untill after my exams. her fren told me. i don't want her to leave... she's going there this september hoilday for a short stay... but she's going to leave singapore and me. What can i do now... i'm just so sad... i don't want to her to leave me. her father has a business here... he's the boss.. his father work so hard to build his business but now he's going to go... and put down all his hard ship... haizzzz.... what to do ???? 
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there's nothing much you can do isn't it?
things do happen, somethings just ain't meant to be. -
Let her go...... sad still must be sad but as the saying goes... if u let go and she comes back... it means both of u are meant for each other , if not then gave her ur blessing.... maybe when she comes bcak for u..... u scarly married with kids leh???Originally posted by ETboy:i'm 16 this yr. Me and my stead are together for a year now... We have been through rain and shine... and finally we are together... But...... we have to part coz she's going to immigrate... she don't want to ... but she has no choice... her mother loves australia so much... and all be`coz of her mother stupid idea to immigrate to australia, perth, and her whole family is going to move there... her father already has apply for the citizenship in aus. she's going to leave... she didn't want to tell me untill after my exams. her fren told me. i don't want her to leave... she's going there this september hoilday for a short stay... but she's going to leave singapore and me. What can i do now... i'm just so sad... i don't want to her to leave me. her father has a business here... he's the boss.. his father work so hard to build his business but now he's going to go... and put down all his hard ship... haizzzz.... what to do ????
think positively.....
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but den we are madly deeply truely in love with each other... i can't accept that she's leaving...
u think that they can get the citizenship there?? how long it takes? -
I have gone thru wat u been thru,Originally posted by ETboy:i'm 16 this yr. Me and my stead are together for a year now... We have been through rain and shine... and finally we are together... But...... we have to part coz she's going to immigrate... she don't want to ... but she has no choice... her mother loves australia so much... and all be`coz of her mother stupid idea to immigrate to australia, perth, and her whole family is going to move there... her father already has apply for the citizenship in aus. she's going to leave... she didn't want to tell me untill after my exams. her fren told me. i don't want her to leave... she's going there this september hoilday for a short stay... but she's going to leave singapore and me. What can i do now... i'm just so sad... i don't want to her to leave me. her father has a business here... he's the boss.. his father work so hard to build his business but now he's going to go... and put down all his hard ship... haizzzz.... what to do ????
someone told me this,
Its all FateD,
it shes yours, years later, she still yours,
i know u dun like it, but theres nottin much u can do abt it,
steadys can break apart becoz of quarrel,
some can break up becoz they find new love,
but nv can u imagine it will end this way ...
anyway, i guess u know it bettter then urself,
overseas relationship cannot work, -
ask her parent to stay over there first... they sure get insulted by the ang moh over there... hahaha... criminal rates is very high over there too... especially in the city... heard alot of stories from friend who studied there... maybe u can hope after they stayed there for a few months and realise it's safer to live in singapore...
anyway it's just my own opinion of aust. ....
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if you have confidence in your relationship, you wouldn't be afraid of anything. if both of you are really committed to each other, even if she's going to mars, both of you will still find ways to work out the relationship.
as i keep saying, love, isn't just about the wonderful feeling you get, but it involves sacrifice, commitment, loyalty, responsibilites.
remember, if its really love which is going through the both of you, i'm sure no matter what, you'll find ways to work out the relationship.
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if you have confidence in your relationship, you wouldn't be afraid of anything. if both of you are really committed to each other, even if she's going to mars, both of you will still find ways to work out the relationship.
simply idealistic...
as i keep saying, love, isn't just about the wonderful feeling you get, but it involves sacrifice, commitment, loyalty, responsibilites.
remember, if its really love which is going through the both of you, i'm sure no matter what, you'll find ways to work out the relationship.
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Originally posted by dil:simply idealistic...
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only my 2 cents!!!!
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Originally posted by jeramy:only my 2 cents!!!!
No right or wrong here... Everybody's just stating their own point of view here...? Besides, you're just trying to be encouraging...? -
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Had sex wif her yet? I remember u posting and saying that she's getting horny recently. Mayb that's y she's horny....
Make her remember u forever... (dont forget the 'protection' tho)
If u really love each other so much, talk to her parents. -
this kind of situation really bo bian..if u really love her, wait till u can support her then marry her back...kekeOriginally posted by ETboy:i'm 16 this yr. Me and my stead are together for a year now... We have been through rain and shine... and finally we are together... But...... we have to part coz she's going to immigrate... she don't want to ... but she has no choice... her mother loves australia so much... and all be`coz of her mother stupid idea to immigrate to australia, perth, and her whole family is going to move there... her father already has apply for the citizenship in aus. she's going to leave... she didn't want to tell me untill after my exams. her fren told me. i don't want her to leave... she's going there this september hoilday for a short stay... but she's going to leave singapore and me. What can i do now... i'm just so sad... i don't want to her to leave me. her father has a business here... he's the boss.. his father work so hard to build his business but now he's going to go... and put down all his hard ship... haizzzz.... what to do ????
if not jus leave it..
Givache 
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Please refer to Dil's post..?Originally posted by Givache:this kind of situation really bo bian..if u really love her, wait till u can support her then marry her back...keke
if not jus leave it.. Givache -
Originally posted by subutai:
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its possible to be together.. my frd well he has a gf in australia as well she also migrate there. they are together for 2 yrs already.. but both must be able to resist temptation.. she will visit him in singapore a few times and have few months of happy time together..
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haha..okokOriginally posted by Devil1976:Please refer to Dil's post..?
paiseh..i nv c that post..=p Givache