Sigh~, can't forget my ex...
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I just ended my half a year relationship with a girl nearly two months ago and till now I can't seem to digest it as I think I had put in too much efforts and had been too serious about this relationship, reasons for breaking up is due to my childishness and stupidity for repeatly comparing myself with her ex, kept digging about her past history, I suggest to all people here, don't ever dig up your gf past, it's a total turn off for a girl. Now if I were to ask for a patch up, it's a NO! NO! to me... :-(
Sigh~, now my phone is dead, not as active as during the days when we are together, she will always send me a good morning message when she wake up, called me and chat during her break time and knock off from work, she also came all the way from her work place at bishan and fetch me every friday evening when I book out at cck.
By the way, she's 22 and I'm 21....
Then on the other hand, I have friends who had been years of relationship and ultimately ended, they can get over it and why can't I? kept asking myself why? But still I can't....
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u always change gf de hor?
almost every 6 mths will see one thread talking abt a new gf.
so how many gfs did u have so far? -
lol...
You sign contract one issit. -
No need to forget her wad........ Just get a new life! It's only when you continue to live your same old routine that you used to do it with your ex-gf that you cannot forget her. But once you learn to change your life pattern, the memoties of old will just be memories and will not pain you anymore........
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Then you really have to check is it you who caused the r/s to sour or her? Reality check and self reflection is what makes you grow and mature.Originally posted by James1:I just ended my half a year relationship with a girl nearly two months ago and till now I can't seem to digest it as I think I had put in too much efforts and had been too serious about this relationship, reasons for breaking up is due to my childishness and stupidity for repeatly comparing myself with her ex, kept digging about her past history, I suggest to all people here, don't ever dig up your gf past, it's a total turn off for a girl. Now if I were to ask for a patch up, it's a NO! NO! to me... :-(
Sigh~, now my phone is dead, not as active as during the days when we are together, she will always send me a good morning message when she wake up, called me and chat during her break time and knock off from work, she also came all the way from her work place at bishan and fetch me every friday evening when I book out at cck.
By the way, she's 22 and I'm 21....
Then on the other hand, I have friends who had been years of relationship and ultimately ended, they can get over it and why can't I? kept asking myself why? But still I can't....
Very few can go about life blissfully with 1 relationship as we are all exposed to many things of the world. Lust, greed, pride, power, mistrust, envy, anger, etc, etc.
Loving a person with a child-like manner is verry hard for we are smart enough to catch new things and perceptions.
You have a good lesson to learn from. Observe those who broke up, besides you, and observe those who never did. Ask them. Find out more. Ask those who never got attached or married. Ask why.
You want a better r/s with someone? Better yourself while you are at it.
Beers! -
Don't have a gf ...
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Go GL, Maybe u can find some temporary relief.
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i can totally understand how u feel..
cus i'm also 1 of the victim..
i can't forget my ex too..
it has been 5 months since then..
and i still miss her a lot..
i still love her..
seems like we r on the same boat..
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:u always change gf de hor?
almost every 6 mths will see one thread talking abt a new gf.
so how many gfs did u have so far?
wow ....... baobao is doing background checks
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ki si lah!!!Originally posted by InnoHippo:
wow ....... baobao is doing background checks
so long time no see u post liao, suddenly come back and suan me. -
ok so?
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Fight! Fight!Originally posted by browniebaobao:ki si lah!!!
so long time no see u post liao, suddenly come back and suan me. 
Cheers.
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fight?Originally posted by CKeer:Fight! Fight!
Cheers.
CK
u like to see free show huh?
when i erupt, it's no kidding de. -
ok lor.. erupt lor.. let gacky see..Originally posted by browniebaobao:fight?
u like to see free show huh?
when i erupt, it's no kidding de.
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pp's agony thread becomes your fighting arena ar?? aiyo..spare some thoughts of the TS lah...Originally posted by browniebaobao:fight?
u like to see free show huh?
when i erupt, it's no kidding de.
to TS, some pp takes longer, some takes shorter to forget their misery. I think this phase of yours is quite common in a newly broken r/s. U start to miss the little things you used to take for granted that she had done for you, but time heals all wounds...
We cant tell you to forget, and you can do so immediately. No matter how strong one is, i haven met one who can forget their loved ones as soon as they break up..
So, you are not alone..just get some things to do to keep yourself occupied. -
no la, nothing to fight in this thread.Originally posted by darknessfall:pp's agony thread becomes your fighting arena ar?? aiyo..spare some thoughts of the TS lah...
to TS, some pp takes longer, some takes shorter to forget their misery. I think this phase of yours is quite common in a newly broken r/s. U start to miss the little things you used to take for granted that she had done for you, but time heals all wounds...
We cant tell you to forget, and you can do so immediately. No matter how strong one is, i haven met one who can forget their loved ones as soon as they break up..
So, you are not alone..just get some things to do to keep yourself occupied. -
that's the reason why getting into a relationship can be painful sometimes when it's time to part.
better off being alone sometimes
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if u cant take it..dont take it in the first place..
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6 months only...
come i remind you ppl...i got a couple friend now defunct of cos... together for 10 yrs... wahahah... endup...go separate ways also...
if never break up.. it will still end up in divorce if married..
so better now then later...
and u TS... obviously u cannot change... no one can change... so find urself a gf tat can suit ur temper and behavior...
cheeeeers!!