Tired of life
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when i was small i have big dreams high hopes
therefore straight after my army i went straight into business.
i also went into my university studies in ntu
handling both at the same time cos i want to succeed in life
i want to make my parents proud of me.let pple envy me..
but well
now i am 26.i have nothing.
i failed in my business with over 50k debts
have cleared abt 30k but still holding to 20k debts
i neglect my studies n now i m repeating my studies..
i am such a useless fucker.
i dunno when i can fight back or rather will i succeed in life?
i got a gf .she been very gd to me.but i cant promise her anything with the fucking situation now.
i m so useless..
i m 26 ALREADY! and i achieve NOTHING!
ok.thks for reading..i jus wan to say out my feelings.
from a useless person -
Just try to hold out, someone like you who are willing to take big risks may just make it big one day.
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26, u still have a long way to go,
when theres a will. theres a way
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ambitious aren't you... maybe u placed your priorities wrong earlier...
26 is not too old to make a new start,,,, after all, you have just started working not long....
do i know u ?? u seem to be from my batch...
me also sama sama same time as u in NTU lei... -
26 is still young...
guys start to show true potential wthen they are 30+ 40.. -
father lim i jus wish stay anonoyomus
well i know 26 is still young but the problems i m facing is not letting me breathe.
i jus feel so ashamed of myself.
i m so heavily in debt
when can i start saving ?when can i marry my gf?
when can i start to buy a hdb ?
etc etc..
can i run away from all this problems?
i chose to face it.i work pt,i give tuition and i manage clear some but when can i clear all?
i dunnnoooo ..jus wish to get away frm everything..
anyway browniebaobao ur article did help me .thks -
yo brp...hangon man...
life is not the end yet....u are stilla good man...
Fight on!!! -
Nobody, chi de ku zhong ku, fang wei ren shang ren.
U may be in debts now, but the experiences u gained.. are precious.
I dun think it's a right move to go into business directly without having any experience or preparation..
learn from your mistakes.
I believe ur gf understands the situation u are in right now..
let this be a motivation to u.. work harder, clear all ur debts asap and give her the happiness that she deserves. -
dude, u r not alone.
its not the end.
ur gf n family always ter for u. brave on. -
post at whinehouse ftw?
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thks.
u all wont understand that all this encouraging words mean how much to me.
it means a lot.till i got a urge to cry
i dunno u all at all but i havent hear all this words for a long long time.
thks. -
pat pat*Originally posted by N0body:thks.
u all wont understand that all this encouraging words mean how much to me.
it means a lot.till i got a urge to cry
i dunno u all at all but i havent hear all this words for a long long time.
thks. -
dude...u still got ur family and gf to suport you
i think u should work for them since they are supporting them...dun let them down
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wow~!! u r gd~~... u clear ur debt so fast~~....
keep going... v soon u'll be in the black again...
more experiences, u're less likely to fail le...
gd luck~! -
You still have family, friends, gf and people here =) cheer up...life is full of ups and downs...but its how you grow from it that counts =)
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he's in agony . not likely to be whining.Originally posted by allentyb:post at whinehouse ftw? -
just remember, we are here for you buddy!!
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well, most guys come out of university at around 25 with $20k+ study loan debt. U doesn't seem very much worse than most of them.Originally posted by N0body:i m so useless..
i m 26 ALREADY! and i achieve NOTHING! -
okay... np...Originally posted by N0body:father lim i jus wish stay anonoyomus
well i know 26 is still young but the problems i m facing is not letting me breathe.
i jus feel so ashamed of myself.
i m so heavily in debt
when can i start saving ?when can i marry my gf?
when can i start to buy a hdb ?
etc etc..
can i run away from all this problems?
i chose to face it.i work pt,i give tuition and i manage clear some but when can i clear all?
i dunnnoooo ..jus wish to get away frm everything..
anyway browniebaobao ur article did help me .thks
just remember you always have your family and frens....
tok to them if u need to destress... after all, what are frens for....
look on the bright side... many rich businessman did not succeed on their first attempt... they did so only after years of hard work... gambatte... -
I thought you're doing a reverse Adam Khoo on purpose...keke... so sorry.Originally posted by N0body:when i was small i have big dreams high hopes
therefore straight after my army i went straight into business.
i also went into my university studies in ntu
handling both at the same time cos i want to succeed in life
i want to make my parents proud of me.let pple envy me..
but well
now i am 26.i have nothing.
i failed in my business with over 50k debts
have cleared abt 30k but still holding to 20k debts
i neglect my studies n now i m repeating my studies..
i am such a useless fucker.
i dunno when i can fight back or rather will i succeed in life?
i got a gf .she been very gd to me.but i cant promise her anything with the fucking situation now.
i m so useless..
i m 26 ALREADY! and i achieve NOTHING!
ok.thks for reading..i jus wan to say out my feelings.
from a useless person
Yup you were a useless person, like me!! Cheers.
I believe I destined for greatness, but my past, can be useless, can be drug addict, gambler, good-for-nothing, slacker, complainer, cheater, etc. This is extremely GREAT!!
According to the religion Successism, there is balance. Just like any other religion, for a GOOD, there must be a equal and conflicting BAD. For every DEVIL, there will be a ANGEL with the same intensity. For one to achieve ultimate true success (in any areas of life) one has to go through his fair share of failures.
1. A Successist believes there are an equal number of failures and successes in life. And they come in balance. Today you achieve 3 successes, tmr the 3 failures will come.
2. A success with a certain intensity will come with the same and equal intensity of failure. Hence the greater the success, the greater the stakes, the greater the failure.
3. The key to enlightenment in Successism, hence is to link the failures together, creating a enormous failure, and then enjoy the link of success together, enjoying immortality.
Case study.
Consider any successful people in history. Say Abraham Lincoln, Steve Jobs, Thomas Edison and Henry Ford. All of them met with enormous failures, one after another after another and another. (Go research Lincoln if u can;t sleep).
Too far away to associate with urself? Consider our Dr William Tan. A handicap but completed 10 marathons (abt 42km each) across 7 continents in 65 days. God I can't even do my 2.4 without stopping now....
These people met with enormous failures in the early part of their lifes. Hence they enjoyed enormous successes.
However, the real key, is whether the Successist can overcome the enormous failures that are linked together and thrown upon them with merciless intensity. There are no lifelines, no 50-50, only help from the audience (people around you who had not done what you did) which is almost equal to no help at all, but at the same time with care and concern for you.
You are 26. Adam Khoo's worth 1million at 26. You are worth -20K, plus you are repeating your uni exams, feeling extremely frustrated, worthlessness and self pity and at the same time wondering why in god's world did you deserved a girlfriend.
Isn't this, good?
Tell me what you think.
Airgrinder. -
Airgrinder...your post is terrific
worthy for me to note this down
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thks ...
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Talk to me... I have loss around 20k at the aged of 14
so can understand your feeling...
So have you learnt you lesson??
Then moved on...
There nothing to fuss over it... -
Bro I believe take you can start again...
Anything just pm me...