Men and women are different, thus the different perspectives. That happens even among your own gender. :pOriginally posted by clueless007:when women apologised, we are supposed to forgive them
when men apologised, we are still not forgiven
and i'm refering to problems which are somehow not problematic at all.. but women seem to find them a problem....
Sgboys thinks Sggals no good. Sggals thinks Sgboys no good. No wonder no babies!Originally posted by NuLife:I agree, especially Sg local women.
As if men owe them a living.
Good-looking ones think they really princess, those without looks also jialat.
*shake head*
I had decided not to go after local women anymore.
Huh? Although you aren't saying that it's wrong to fall in love, but you seems to be saying 'don't fall in love'.Originally posted by ^Delta^:Actually, I have to say that women are not a problem.
They can in fact be your best friends and close confidants. Its only when the guy starts to develop a liking for her, then all problems start. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that its wrong to fall in love. It works out for many people. But there are many other untold heartbreaks for each couple happily in love. Such matters don't work for me.
My point of view? Learn to control your feelings. Keep it as friends and stay that way. Tell yourself not to expect anything. If it comes, it may be a good thing. If it doesn't, at least you know you will not risk ruining the freindship.
When I see couples happily walking by on the streets...
Do I feel envious? Definitely.
Lonely? Maybe
But tell yourself that you will be avoiding potential pitfalls and disappointments. Once again to fellow forumers, don't flame me. I am only offering my point of view because this has worked for me, as well as a few of my friends, both guy and gal alike.
For a guy, there is no thing more important than pursuing achievements in studies and career and enriching your life in all ways possible. Ever wish you could play a musical instrument or do sports? Go ahead!!!
You are free to make your own choice. It just depends on how you think you can handle it.
All the best!!!
Then YOU are the problem! You can't even express yourself properly! In so doing, you project a very negative image of yourself as a wussy! No wonder you have problems with women and still want to deceive yourself that the problem doesn't lie with with you! Admitting and facing your problem head-on like a man is the first step to rescuing yourself! Itz your call......... you wanna be a loser all your life, suit yourself!Originally posted by Slipshade:Men and women are different, thus the different perspectives. That happens even among your own gender. :p
Generally, women likes to be coaxed so sometimes apologising is not enough. You need to put in abit of effort. No pain no gain.
Read my post carefully.Originally posted by Slipshade:Huh? Although you aren't saying that it's wrong to fall in love, but you seems to be saying 'don't fall in love'.![]()
Whenever did I offend you...Originally posted by :Then YOU are the problem! You can't even express yourself properly! In so doing, you project a very negative image of yourself as a wussy! No wonder you have problems with women and still want to deceive yourself that the problem doesn't lie with with you! Admitting and facing your problem head-on like a man is the first step to rescuing yourself! Itz your call......... you wanna be a loser all your life, suit yourself!![]()
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I did. I know you don't mean it that way, but it does seems kinda like it.Originally posted by ^Delta^:Read my post carefully.
But guys simply aren't all that good at troubleshooting problems that cannot be solved in a rational, methodical or rational approach...Originally posted by 798:women are problem, n i like problem as it actually make us guys look into detail of the problem n troubleshoot them.
shiok wat, just by being born a woman i can potentially terrorize other ppls life. oh i luv it, the ability to cast fear in ppl is a very powerful weapon.Originally posted by dibilo:haha... hong yan huo shui
Originally posted by Sheepophile:shiok wat, just by being born a woman i can potentially terrorize other ppls life. oh i luv it, the ability to cast fear in ppl is a very powerful weapon.![]()