How to prevent mouth from shooting off nonsense
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Tape them... so you would not talk before you think.
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then start befriending him now.Originally posted by Kenashi:then i want to be his friend -
simply think about what you want to say and see if tt would create any prblm for ppl
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Come on guys, constructive comments only, I having a real problem here and there are such things going on..
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Just walk away when u hear something that you don't like.
Either that or just smile, and keep quiet. That saved me a lot of times too whenever I feel like shooting back what people say -
I will leave when others start a bad-mouthing other..
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I think u might have tourette's syndrome. See a psychiatrist for some pills.
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Originally posted by ryangian:I have this problem since round the age of 14 but then I have not found a PROPER cure/solution to it.
Many have taught me to think b4 opening the mouth but then I tend to lose control at the most critical moment or slight moment and b4 I knew it, the damage is already done and will need some mediator to settle the problem
During NSF days. I also shoot off the wrong stuff and resulted in 2 of my bosses to hate 1 another and my S4 has to come out and settle the matter . Lucky he manage to clam the storm but then I know I cannot go and like this and I need a proper solution/cure to settle this "thing" in me.
Have being telling myself to remember this Chinese phase....
Illness goes in through the mouth and trouble always starts from the mouth...
but then..........
Learn to suck a cock then lor
What I have done at school to avoid this problem is that I isolate myself from groups and only a few ppl really has the chance to communicate with me
Worked for me but then I know this is only a stop gap measure and not a long term solution to it.
Getting really sick of this and @ times have thought of making myself MUTE to end all this shit........................
Help if possible -
be oblivous to your surroundings.
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Graz....you already made a very big progress by recongizing that you have such a problem.
Like bear said..think before you speak and it does come with practice, there's no immediate cure. There's 2 basic rules that helps:
1. If you dont have anything constructive to say, dont say
2. If you like people say that to you, then you dont say that to others.
Put in some effort there, soon people will value what you say and respect you for it.
Good luck -
Proof!
Before you shoot your mouth off, think, do you have the proof.
Proof, before you call some one a liar.
Proof, before you accuse someone of theft.
Proof, before you say something. Back it up with facts, and you don't have to be afraid of defamation suits.
Take a moment to be sure before you shoot your mouth off.
Its ok to shoot your mouth off, when you are correct. -
Thks for all the reply here, felt better already as the matter has been resolved and thks again for all the help posted here
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go thru what u want to say in your head 3 times first before saying it out.
although u might turn out to be laggier than other pple, but at least u wont say anything wrong. heh. -
Try having some self control
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eat wasabi...u'll open ur mouth bt nt able to speak....
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they say putting a pearl in your mouth will prevent talking nonsense...
just remain calm at all times la.
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Juz keep quiet , be quiet when people are talking or when people ask you question .. Try to THINK before answering and not juz answer their question as your own wish ..
Watch your thought , they become words
Watch your words, they become action
Watch your action , they become habit
Watch your habit , they become character
Watch your character , they become destiny. -
masking tape
blu - tack
wire tape
gum
glue
sewing kit
other to be added ...... -
Sucking a guy cock sure will make us shut up... cock is so useful