friends.......
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i'm so sick, i'm so tired........so sick so tired of 'friends' i dun even know what to use to call them that i have to use inverted commas!
everytime when they have a problem, everytime when they are talking to me, i'd always have to be there, listen to them, and offer quick and prompt replies
but, what about me? when i have a problem, when i talk, who listens? not them definately. when i ask a question, when i ask for help, they can simply dismiss it, do not care about it, and juz treat it like i did not say anything. sometimes when i ask a question they can simply ignore me and go on to talk about other things. why? aren't i the one who's always replying to them? listening to them?
when they have nothing to do they ask me out...when i have nothing to do i ask them out and no one bothers.
why? why must everybody take me for granted?
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I've experienced that b4...
it's true sometimes being there for friends, too often of a time, they might take u for granted....
sometimes, we need to know who are the real friends to us....
It's a hard fact, most friends of ours are "jiu rou peng you" meaning they only want to get the MOST out of you.
only a small handful, know what u want, only a few, really treat u as a fren, such that "you fu tong xiang you nan tong dang"
but sometimes.. ur msg has to be put across well...
u can't juz expect them to listen most of the time....
it takes time to know a person well.... and it takes an even longer time to understand and be a close fren...
hope this helps
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I thought Life have always been like that..? So what's new...?
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Cool down my friend... if U ever needs help... be my guest... I will try my upmost to help U....
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thanks people i juz need to let it out
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that's lifeOriginally posted by jeramy:i'm so sick, i'm so tired........so sick so tired of 'friends' i dun even know what to use to call them that i have to use inverted commas!
everytime when they have a problem, everytime when they are talking to me, i'd always have to be there, listen to them, and offer quick and prompt replies
but, what about me? when i have a problem, when i talk, who listens? not them definately. when i ask a question, when i ask for help, they can simply dismiss it, do not care about it, and juz treat it like i did not say anything. sometimes when i ask a question they can simply ignore me and go on to talk about other things. why? aren't i the one who's always replying to them? listening to them?
when they have nothing to do they ask me out...when i have nothing to do i ask them out and no one bothers.
why? why must everybody take me for granted?
there's a say" "friend in deed is friend in need"
same as love: unconditional and unrefundable
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If you want a friend, keep a dog
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points system dude.
always expect less from yr frens than they of u.
give new frens the benefit of the doubt, trust them and help them.
deduct points when they misbehave, do not trust them as much
as before if they break the rules.
trust them more when they reach out to u when ure in need.
tats wat we have been doing subconsciously havent we? this is how the game is played. follows jones and george (1989). -
all you need is frenz ike AngelDark and you can live ur life till the end...
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true true..Originally posted by userid:points system dude.
always expect less from yr frens than they of u.
give new frens the benefit of the doubt, trust them and help them.
deduct points when they misbehave, do not trust them as much
as before if they break the rules.
trust them more when they reach out to u when ure in need.
tats wat we have been doing subconsciously havent we? this is how the game is played. follows jones and george (1989). -
Mine's not Life-time membership, needs to renew every year one....Originally posted by ]A[na-FennY:all you need is frenz ike AngelDark and you can live ur life till the end...