Guys have you ever felt this way?
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When your gfs are treating you for granted when whatever you do is for the good of her and yourself. When you shower her with lotsa love and gifts. When you're broke to the last penny and still u wanna use that penny to make her happy. When the time spent with her is more than even spending time with your family... She still treats you so for granted and get angry (the princess anger)....
You felt so down and angry for the things you've done for her she still treats you like that...
Suddenly a friend which you'd know for years came to comfort you and you felt comforted... yet you knew something within yourself is geminating towards her but you know you shouldn't cos u had a gf...
What will you do? -
how old are you?
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go for the new ger
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ASK yourself why did you date with your girlfriend in the first place?Originally posted by Tribalistic:When your gfs are treating you for granted when whatever you do is for the good of her and yourself. When you shower her with lotsa love and gifts. When you're broke to the last penny and still u wanna use that penny to make her happy. When the time spent with her is more than even spending time with your family... She still treats you so for granted and get angry (the princess anger)....
You felt so down and angry for the things you've done for her she still treats you like that...
Suddenly a friend which you'd know for years came to comfort you and you felt comforted... yet you knew something within yourself is geminating towards her but you know you shouldn't cos u had a gf...
What will you do?
ASK yourself how much do you value 'love' and how committed are you?
ASK yourself if you decided to break off with your girlfriend and carry one with the other girl, how can you be certain you will do the same thing to her? -
Why do you give her things she does not want?Originally posted by Tribalistic:When your gfs are treating you for granted when whatever you do is for the good of her and yourself. When you shower her with lotsa love and gifts. When you're broke to the last penny and still u wanna use that penny to make her happy. When the time spent with her is more than even spending time with your family... She still treats you so for granted and get angry (the princess anger)....
You felt so down and angry for the things you've done for her she still treats you like that...
Suddenly a friend which you'd know for years came to comfort you and you felt comforted... yet you knew something within yourself is geminating towards her but you know you shouldn't cos u had a gf...
What will you do?
You must find out what she wants and *surprise* *surprise* your so called *love* and *gifts* that you buy her with *your last penny* will not make her happy because those things are not what she wants...
My guess is that what she wants is not what you can give her... sorry... -
breakoff.
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Well, i've passed my mid 20s... infact on the edge on turning the number 3 soon. It's a lil disturbing to see so much of negative comments on it. Well i guess i do love her alot cos some of you said why did i go with her in the first place. Yeah i noticed she's abit different from day 1 when she says she's not the materalistic girl she is. Now she's mentioning more and more branded stuffs to me... goodness, the stress i'm underOriginally posted by tut4nkh4m3n:how old are you?
But regarding abt the other girl, nope... i have no designs on her but you know... when u get down on your mood and someone gets close to you during these times u kinda appreciate the kindness she gives. Not that i'm a cassanova, infact i think i'm the dead old fashioned kinda guy who stays by my gf for the longest time possible.
Some of you said what i'm giving is nothing she wants, woah... kinda disturbed abt this comment... What? to break off? think i'm the kind that will hold on... i believe rs do have ups and downs maybe this is one of it ba.
Oh yes... she's in her early 20s. -
from the sound of it she doesnt treasure YOU at all.. she only treasures the unbelievably nice way u treat her
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20s?
weird.
mostly money suckers are immature xmms. -
funny thing... i don't find her money sucking as all the gifts that i gave are by me... automatically. Not her asking for it. I know it sounds ironical when i said she's been mentioning abt branded stuffs. She usually speaks of it casually. there's times when i bought her expensive gifts and was totally pissed off at me spending money like that. So i really dunno...
Else everything was rather ok... just that she can become very arrogant/ignorant/unreasonable at times. I know maybe i got a lil pushover by her at times but i think it's usual for guys who loved their gf to bits to react this way... -
dats y i hate girls who think they are princesses in disguise.
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hmm ur situation looks like the same as mine last time lehz...
my situation was kinda similar or l could say..almost alike in sum ways
always spending every of my last penny on my gf...really loved her..but
anyway my advice to u la...she dun really love u la...if she love u..will she do such things to u..shldnt be rite?
y not juz let her go?
u oso will be spare from the unnecessary burden and trouble.. -
honestly, if she doesn't appreciate you, then move on. Moreover, there seems to be somebody who makes you feel better and more appreciated about yourself. quite honestly, I worry your current relationship will eat you inside out, because you're beginning to feel grumpy about it already.Originally posted by Tribalistic:funny thing... i don't find her money sucking as all the gifts that i gave are by me... automatically. Not her asking for it. I know it sounds ironical when i said she's been mentioning abt branded stuffs. She usually speaks of it casually. there's times when i bought her expensive gifts and was totally pissed off at me spending money like that. So i really dunno...
Else everything was rather ok... just that she can become very arrogant/ignorant/unreasonable at times. I know maybe i got a lil pushover by her at times but i think it's usual for guys who loved their gf to bits to react this way...
I may be wrong, but just a guess.
But if a friend shows concern for you and you can develop feelings for her already, then there really is a problem with your currect relationship. I don't know if it's with you or her. -
... then the cycle start again...Originally posted by Tribalistic:When your gfs are treating you for granted when whatever you do is for the good of her and yourself. When you shower her with lotsa love and gifts. When you're broke to the last penny and still u wanna use that penny to make her happy. When the time spent with her is more than even spending time with your family... She still treats you so for granted and get angry (the princess anger)....
You felt so down and angry for the things you've done for her she still treats you like that...
Suddenly a friend which you'd know for years came to comfort you and you felt comforted... yet you knew something within yourself is geminating towards her but you know you shouldn't cos u had a gf...
What will you do? -
Standard SOP questions..Originally posted by Tribalistic:Well, i've passed my mid 20s... infact on the edge on turning the number 3 soon. It's a lil disturbing to see so much of negative comments on it. Well i guess i do love her alot cos some of you said why did i go with her in the first place. Yeah i noticed she's abit different from day 1 when she says she's not the materalistic girl she is. Now she's mentioning more and more branded stuffs to me... goodness, the stress i'm under
But regarding abt the other girl, nope... i have no designs on her but you know... when u get down on your mood and someone gets close to you during these times u kinda appreciate the kindness she gives. Not that i'm a cassanova, infact i think i'm the dead old fashioned kinda guy who stays by my gf for the longest time possible.
Some of you said what i'm giving is nothing she wants, woah... kinda disturbed abt this comment... What? to break off? think i'm the kind that will hold on... i believe rs do have ups and downs maybe this is one of it ba.
Oh yes... she's in her early 20s.
1) How much is she earning.
2) How much are you earning.
3) how long were you 2 together?
4) If one day she said break up, what will you do?
5) If you day her most trusted friend told you that she is only using you, while waiting for her prince charming, what will you do?
6) Have you talked about marriage with her? And her reply is ?
7) Do you know her parents?
8 ) Does she know your parent?
9) If the day comes when the other girl confess that she like you, will you consider her at all after knowing that your girl friend will get worst.. -
as what i have always said
move on -
Communication, communication, communication.
You and your girl lacks communication.
Seems like your girl is not lil material girl. You're a lucky man.
You need to talk to her, ask her, speak to her. Validate her.
Go read the mars and venus book..
DON't try to read her mind, because you CAN'T. Period.
Girls want their man to respect their needs. ASK.
Maybe she is insecure, maybe it's time she wants you to pop the "eternal" question...get what I mean ??? -
she sounded like a spoilt brat thoughOriginally posted by jojobeach:Communication, communication, communication.
You and your girl lacks communication.
Seems like your girl is not lil material girl. You're a lucky man.
You need to talk to her, ask her, speak to her. Validate her.
Go read the mars and venus book..
DON't try to read her mind, because you CAN'T. Period.
Girls want their man to respect their needs. ASK.
Maybe she is insecure, maybe it's time she wants you to pop the "eternal" question...get what I mean ??? -
Personally, I don't think the 'pop' question is part of it. I do think the communication part is spot on. I wonder why there's a problem with communication though, TS, care to share?Originally posted by jojobeach:Communication, communication, communication.
You and your girl lacks communication.
Seems like your girl is not lil material girl. You're a lucky man.
You need to talk to her, ask her, speak to her. Validate her.
Go read the mars and venus book..
DON't try to read her mind, because you CAN'T. Period.
Girls want their man to respect their needs. ASK.
Maybe she is insecure, maybe it's time she wants you to pop the "eternal" question...get what I mean ??? -
She's not a spoilt brat.Originally posted by gigabyte14:she sounded like a spoilt brat though
It's just that TS didn't meet her "needs".
He is only giving her what he thinks she "wants".
By the way TS wasn't very specific about stuff that makes her angry.
Why TS thinks she is still not happy.
What behaviour has she exhibited to show that she is taking TS for granted ? -
There's a chance that TS's gf isn't getting love and affection the way she wants to.
Or, she may really love the TS afterall, just that she doesn't know how to show or express it, hence TS thinks he is getting taken for granted. Like Jojo has said, communication. -
Originally posted by zeny:
Standard SOP questions..
[b]I'll answer this as honest as i can...
1) How much is she earning.
Executive... nearing 2k
2) How much are you earning.
Oilpod Broker... quite up and down abt 5plus the least...
3) how long were you 2 together?
2yrs
4) If one day she said break up, what will you do?
I really got no answer to this... yet. Maybe as said i'll move on?
5) If you day her most trusted friend told you that she is only using you, while waiting for her prince charming, what will you do?
FYI. That girl has no link to my gf... she's an old time secondary school mate of mine. As i said as well, i just felt comforted... no developing of feelings at this point...
6) Have you talked about marriage with her? And her reply is ?
Yep. Umpteen times. Her replies usually get very excited and of course ask when will the big day comes lol
7) Do you know her parents?
Yes of course. I've been staying at her house for 3/4 of the week.
8 ) Does she know your parent?
Yes... as well she comes over when i can't go over.
9) If the day comes when the other girl confess that she like you, will you consider her at all after knowing that your girl friend will get worst..
Until all hopes and ties are gone with my current gf. I'll not do or proceed any further as friends. I don't know how to express it but i truly love her to bits. Yeah guys may call me a sissy boy but when guys... you meet the one you know you have never felt this way b4... will you say the same? situation differs man.
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starting is like tat de la
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Tribalistic,
My sincere advise to you.
STOP stringing her (current g/f) along with empty promises of marriage.
If you keep stringing her along like this, she will no longer trust you and her respect/admiration for you diminishes every day.
No woman like to have her man give false hope just to keep her chained to a relationship.
You are playing with fire, and you are getting burned.
As for the other girl, you may be hopping on to a boat that is not there. Beware. -
find someone who truly appreciates and love you.