Sotong nid help :(
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Hi all my brother is having a problem and I can't find a way to cheer him up pls help this is the "story" he told me :
There was this girl in my brother's class whom he had crush with[He told me that he dare not admit and he would pester her everyday by calling her "Mei Mei" ,It makes me laugh out loud.Nowaday he Would SMS her almost every night [recently, think so] and I was told that she came from a gal skool,currently studying in a mix school with my brother , and right now her parents wanted to transfer her out to another gurl school and my brother seems to be very moody and sad and his exams are coming and I'm very worried abt him.... Plssss he is in Sec 1 and he got 8 subjects to study.
I am worried about him . As a brother what should I do ? Cheer him up ? Motivate him [how
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Pls help AA ... -
he is still in his puberty, he will get over it soon, and beside, they will be more kawaii girls
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lol you can't xpect me to say this to him
Hey "Ben you are in puberty you will get over it soon... "
Wow i gotta add oil to da fire ar ? -
buy him a lad-mag and teach the bugger how to masturbate.
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hehe i guess you buy something for him that he like...if his results is good..?or treat him a dinner?..^^
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Ask him to look at the mirror.Originally posted by MrSotong:Hi all my brother is having a problem and I can't find a way to cheer him up pls help this is the "story" he told me :
There was this girl in my brother's class whom he had crush with[He told me that he dare not admit and he would pester her everyday by calling her "Mei Mei" ,It makes me laugh out loud.Nowaday he Would SMS her almost every night [recently, think so] and I was told that she came from a gal skool,currently studying in a mix school with my brother , and right now her parents wanted to transfer her out to another gurl school and my brother seems to be very moody and sad and his exams are coming and I'm very worried abt him.... Plssss he is in Sec 1 and he got 8 subjects to study.
I am worried about him . As a brother what should I do ? Cheer him up ? Motivate him [how] ?
Pls help AA ...
Ask him if the girl ever say he love him?
Ask him ever she agrees to be his gf, can he afford to bring the girl out for movies or dinner or not?
Still taking parents money rite?
Ask him to wake up from his dreams and start to earn some cash first. -
Hmmmm gotta ask him to study hard and if manage to score a certain results I will bring him for a holiday
Hmmm shld also tell him abt his future.
Like if he study hard earn alot of $ he would have a gd future , house etc... -
You sound like a very nice big brother..he's quite lucky =)
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Actually when I am in Secondary 1 hor, I also exprience this [in love] mood. Time will heal the wound, it's all what I can say.
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Brainwash him and make sure that he forgot abt that girl.
Any advice to brainwash him with reasons rather than the $ issue like his future or what ? :S -
Haiya.......If its a crush and he sees less of her he'll get over it eventually..At least for my case
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don't worry about him, it'll blow over
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will get over it de la -
Tell him the effects of failed love. And tell him that the odds of him being successful at this age is slim and yeah tell him to give up.
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mayb ask ur brother to jus learn from this experience?y give up the whole forest for 1 tree?haha
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anyways, just let him lead his own life la.
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tell him that this girl's parents must have high expectations for her, and therefore will be very strict on who she dates. (i dunno, just guessing)Originally posted by MrSotong:Hi all my brother is having a problem and I can't find a way to cheer him up pls help this is the "story" he told me :
There was this girl in my brother's class whom he had crush with[He told me that he dare not admit and he would pester her everyday by calling her "Mei Mei" ,It makes me laugh out loud.Nowaday he Would SMS her almost every night [recently, think so] and I was told that she came from a gal skool,currently studying in a mix school with my brother , and right now her parents wanted to transfer her out to another gurl school and my brother seems to be very moody and sad and his exams are coming and I'm very worried abt him.... Plssss he is in Sec 1 and he got 8 subjects to study.
I am worried about him . As a brother what should I do ? Cheer him up ? Motivate him [how] ?
Pls help AA ...
tell him that even though you know he's sad, he must study hard for her, if he ever hopes to have a future with her.
tell him that if he studies hard, you'll let him go out with her and you'll cover for him. jkjk -
sec one ar puppy love. he will get over it
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Leave him alone.
He'll get on with his studies.
If you tell him not to think of the girl, the girl's face will appear in his mind.
Try this yourself: Do not think of a purple elephant. What image is in your mind?
Don't ask him to study either! -
tel him to go chase the girl lah. go admit it to her lor. do it fast and sweet
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its just probably his first crush. will get over it soon.
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There are 2 thing you can do, Go for it or stay with it!
Since he already got her no. no worries la, there is always the future. Furthermore SEC 1 ONLY! still gt 3 years in secondary school, he can play now if he wants, but a muz to concentrate later on in his studies, nobody can afford to lose out his own grades during the upper secondary. Face de fact even if he is rejected! -
Thanks broOriginally posted by danielnmy:wah zeny,
you are so direct..LOL...that good..
My advice style is more direct than others.
I perfer to tell his brother the turth about life then lieing to him to make him feel good about himself.
Life is hash but if he can pass this stage, he will be able to handle more difficult task ahead of him. -
first of all, kick his ass.
then, tell him to study hard for his exams for now and in the hols, THEN go think about girls and how to get the girl to like him
everything's about prioritizing.
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Give him a knife and castrate him.