Problem #1Originally posted by CasperX:Hello,
Problem#1
I do not know when it starts to happen... but i think i am starting to get tired of playing games, but not giving up. How do i explain this... Example, i am still keen on getting the latest Console (ps3) getting the latest PC Game (C&C3) and also upgrading my com to the highest when possible for perfection in gaming mmorpg. But when i start to play the game i wanted, i grew tired easily... Its not physically tired, its mentally. I can't concentrade on the game that i wanted to play. Therefore, As new games came out, i Still buy them. But they are all played once and left in the shelf. There are still alot of titles that i didn't even touch them yet... lolx.
After my work, i can't find things to do. Try to play game but grew tired. Nothing to surf from Internet also. Not interested in Tv Shows. Thats the problem...How can i kill time?
Problem#2
This is a BGR problem loh, I have this girlfriend that have been together for 3 years coming October. We do not quarrel nor fight. We do not have any problem with each other as well, no major arguements. The problem i THINK i am facing is... lack of topics to talk, lack of activites to do during weekend. And, there are times that I had alot of things to say to her. But when i see her, i juz don't have the feeling to say or explain what ever i wan to say. Don't know whats wrong with me...How can i improve myself?
Problem#3
Now the last problem is with my temper. I can say that i have a short and hot temper. I can get upset and angry when irritated. I can list a very good example... My girlfriend's english's level is not that high, and when she ask me how to spell or whats the maining of a quite basic english word... I will feel irritated about how come she don't know such a basic easy word. And my temper will come and i will not explain to her. Strange of me rite? I have always told myself to change my temper, but its hard for me to control. I do not wish to regret in future, due to my bad temper. How can i control my temple?
Well, thx guys for those who have spend sometime reading all my 3 problems.
Cheers~
Maybe to you, its not agony cause you are not the one experiencing it. I guess you mis-read, i don't spend time much time on the net.Originally posted by allentyb:![]()
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nothing agony about your post,
simple, exercise self control on your time spent on the net, divert your attention on something else,
you probably is going through a low period with your girlfriend, perhaps, you could find something to do together with your girlfriend
if you are hot temper or trigger happy, have you serve finished your NS? before you are going to blow your temper, tell yourself, there is nothing in this world, is needed for me to throw my temper.
if you really want to find something to kill time, then why not, do something useful, buy yourself a pet or do some charity work, or maybe spend more time with your girlfriend, or when she is gone, you will regret that you didn't spend more time with her at all
Its not that i need a break or something, I still have the interest in playing games, but my heart can't go on. I hate books and to me, keeping model cars or robots are a waste of space and money. Thats my IMO.Originally posted by elindra:Problem #1
You can get burnt out playing games (this coming from a gamer. I need breaks from WoW too)
Take a break and go out
Spend time with your gf or something
Read
Take up a hobby like maybe model cars or robots
Problem #2
Read the newspaper for topics to talk about
Learn something new together
Go to a new resturant or a new park together
Watch a movie and talk about it
Just spend time bonding
Problem #3
Is yr temper due to too much gaming
i get irritated when ppl talk to me in the midst of a game too
If not count to 3 and tell yourself to be more patient coz she is afterall trying to improve herself
I have grown tired of games, but not my interest. The major problem is i still continue to buy new titles and console. Upgrading of com for gaming but i am not playing them @_@~Originally posted by RiverFoX:1) good dat u've grown tired of it...
at least u cn save money by not buyin anymore games...
2) is there any common hobby dat u 2 do together?
there is somethin that bonds the 2 of u...
3) try to accept her flaw...
either u did or u didn't know when u went on with her...
so just accept it...
she's afterall still tryin to learn rite?![]()
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Since nothing works how about going for a road trip?Originally posted by CasperX:I have grown tired of games, but not my interest. The major problem is i still continue to buy new titles and console. Upgrading of com for gaming but i am not playing them @_@~
No, we don't have a common hobby.
Ya... I accept her flaw but i juz can't control myself![]()
Write love letters to her..explain all in thereOriginally posted by CasperX:Problem#1
I do not know when it starts to happen... but i think i am starting to get tired of playing games, but not giving up. How do i explain this... Example, i am still keen on getting the latest Console (ps3) getting the latest PC Game (C&C3) and also upgrading my com to the highest when possible for perfection in gaming mmorpg. But when i start to play the game i wanted, i grew tired easily... Its not physically tired, its mentally. I can't concentrade on the game that i wanted to play. Therefore, As new games came out, i Still buy them. But they are all played once and left in the shelf. There are still alot of titles that i didn't even touch them yet... lolx.
After my work, i can't find things to do. Try to play game but grew tired. Nothing to surf from Internet also. Not interested in Tv Shows. Thats the problem...How can i kill time?
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Try engaging in sports? soccer, basketball etc.
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Problem#2
This is a BGR problem loh, I have this girlfriend that have been together for 3 years coming October. We do not quarrel nor fight. We do not have any problem with each other as well, no major arguements. The problem i THINK i am facing is... lack of topics to talk, lack of activites to do during weekend. And, there are times that I had alot of things to say to her. But when i see her, i juz don't have the feeling to say or explain what ever i wan to say. Don't know whats wrong with me...How can i improve myself?
buy her an electronic dictionary.Problem#3
Now the last problem is with my temper. I can say that i have a short and hot temper. I can get upset and angry when irritated. I can list a very good example... My girlfriend's english's level is not that high, and when she ask me how to spell or whats the maining of a quite basic english word... I will feel irritated about how come she don't know such a basic easy word. And my temper will come and i will not explain to her. Strange of me rite? I have always told myself to change my temper, but its hard for me to control. I do not wish to regret in future, due to my bad temper. How can i control my temple?
We don't have the time for a short trip, working and studying makes us not free for a trip.Originally posted by huiz:how about going on a short trip overseas, maybe nearby countries? bring your gf along too.
I am spending my weekend with my girlfriends, where to play soccer and basketball during the nite? (After work)Originally posted by 0°C_Serenade:Try engaging in sports? soccer, basketball etc.
I try emailing, but I don't know how to write, even though i know how to write :SOriginally posted by 0°C_Serenade:Write love letters to her..explain all in there
It seems you mislead yourself somewhere, its not about her english... Its my temper.Originally posted by 0°C_Serenade:buy her an electronic dictionary
not even free to go malaysia or nearby islands? for half a day during weekends?Originally posted by CasperX:We don't have the time for a short trip, working and studying makes us not free for a trip.
Me still play arcade game..VF4 tekken 5.. KOF... etc.Originally posted by CasperX:Hello,
.Even during my Ns, i continue to play game! Either arcade, or home console.
shi fu! i also KOF~ cheap lor KOF in camp...20 cents nia....Originally posted by spycampers:Me still play arcade game..VF4 tekken 5.. KOF... etc.
and i am 28.
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