Love is Impossible
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I've recently like a girl very much and would like to be tied with her for life..but she said she got no feelings and this relationship is impossible between us. She never even try and she just say that she dun feel like trying.I feel so sad...I don't even know what to do next, just helplessly waiting and hope that she'll eventually accept me.What should i do...I'm in a lost now...
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there is nuting u can do. i once read a book its abt falling in and falling out of love. u dun choose who u fal in love with.. love choose to go to who... hope u know wat i mean... if she have no feelings for u at this pt of life.. there is nuting u can do to make her fal in love.. even if she fal in love with u after u have done alot.. its may be she LIKES ur accompany and the way u care.. that is not love.Originally posted by alensoh:I've recently like a girl very much and would like to be tied with her for life..but she said she got no feelings and this relationship is impossible between us. She never even try and she just say that she dun feel like trying.I feel so sad...I don't even know what to do next, just helplessly waiting and hope that she'll eventually accept me.What should i do...I'm in a lost now...
love is abt being able to give the person up.. as long as he/she is happi.. being in love do not mean he/she have to be ur bf/gf, going steady.. being in love is abt sacrifing and asking for nuting in return.
how many pple really know what is love, or whether are they really in love? how many pple can really love another person and not lost its 1 self... .. None i tink is the ans... -
move on
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hmm ur quit msg v meaningful abit like mine~ kekeOriginally posted by alensoh:I've recently like a girl very much and would like to be tied with her for life..but she said she got no feelings and this relationship is impossible between us. She never even try and she just say that she dun feel like trying.I feel so sad...I don't even know what to do next, just helplessly waiting and hope that she'll eventually accept me.What should i do...I'm in a lost now...
erm back to ur prob,erm mayb wad i going to say may sound bad but it quite true. hmm mayb not she dun 1 2 try but sumtime i guess u knw u met sum ger too & tis ger like u but sumtime u reli dun hv dat chemistry at all not even abit at all & in ur heart u knw she not ur type & u knw if u try to giv her chance it will hurt her more coz u giv flase hope to her.. so pls try to understand...
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This is classified as "rejection";pls look under topics on "how to overcome rejections"
Sorry for being so snappy in reply, but sometime you got to move on with life. -
well said well said~!~! heheheOriginally posted by MoNsTer:there is nuting u can do. i once read a book its abt falling in and falling out of love. u dun choose who u fal in love with.. love choose to go to who... hope u know wat i mean... if she have no feelings for u at this pt of life.. there is nuting u can do to make her fal in love.. even if she fal in love with u after u have done alot.. its may be she LIKES ur accompany and the way u care.. that is not love.
love is abt being able to give the person up.. as long as he/she is happi.. being in love do not mean he/she have to be ur bf/gf, going steady.. being in love is abt sacrifing and asking for nuting in return.
how many pple really know what is love, or whether are they really in love? how many pple can really love another person and not lost its 1 self... .. None i tink is the ans...
/me clap clap clap~~~
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I remember when I was younger one of my aunts offered me a grape... I declined the offer immediately... She said,"Try it... It's not sour..." I still insisted on my stand... She gave the grape to my younger brother and asked,"So how? Sweet?" "Yes" came the reply.... "See..?" She looked at me.... I was thinking... It doesn't matter if the grape is sweet or sour, I just don't feel like having any grape at that moment... Get the point?Originally posted by alensoh:I've recently like a girl very much and would like to be tied with her for life..but she said she got no feelings and this relationship is impossible between us. She never even try and she just say that she dun feel like trying.I feel so sad...I don't even know what to do next, just helplessly waiting and hope that she'll eventually accept me.What should i do...I'm in a lost now...
How ya like it when someone come up to you and tell you that you MUST be very thristy... How about finishing 2 litres at one shot...? How would you feel....?
"It doesn't really matter if you can't get her love today? At least you don't make her hate you...?" -
sometimes it is an excuse, but sometiems the girls really noe that it is impossible bcos they tink u r not the type she wants..Originally posted by alensoh:I've recently like a girl very much and would like to be tied with her for life..but she said she got no feelings and this relationship is impossible between us. She never even try and she just say that she dun feel like trying.I feel so sad...I don't even know what to do next, just helplessly waiting and hope that she'll eventually accept me.What should i do...I'm in a lost now...
Givache 
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sumtime it not reli xcuses lor if reli excuses i tin it will b like... i wana focus on my study lar, my mum dun alllow me 2 hv bf, i m too young lar..etc..Originally posted by Givache:sometimes it is an excuse, but sometiems the girls really noe that it is impossible bcos they tink u r not the type she wants.. Givache
but 4 tis case reli lor mayb it juz bcoz the ger knw herself she dun like him at all & din 1 2 accept him to giv flase hope mayb it sound cruel but it better den she keep plying along or she agree to it but wen together 4 a period den she wana break dat v hurt even more coz hw will commit even more den nw...
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hmm...i also dunno what to do next...my friends ask me not to give up but you guys insist that i should give up...i'm at a lost..at first i want to wait till she finish her term tests next week before i go for another try but i alreadyy know the answer.maybe i should just give up and wish that she'll be happy with the next guy that comes into her life...
"|f U tRuLy LoVe a PerSoN,u WaN hEr tO b3 hApPy,EvEn |f |t mEaNs u VaNiSh|n From hEr LiFe." I think this quote means a lot of what i should do next...vanish from her life and let her be happy forever as i could only see her in my heart. -
hmm i nv hint u to give up u can try to ask her after her test but if the ans is negative den mayb "|f U tRuLy LoVe a PerSoN,u WaN hEr tO b3 hApPy,EvEn |f |t mEaNs u VaNiSh|n From hEr LiFe." is true lor.Originally posted by alensoh:hmm...i also dunno what to do next...my friends ask me not to give up but you guys insist that i should give up...i'm at a lost..at first i want to wait till she finish her term tests next week before i go for another try but i alreadyy know the answer.maybe i should just give up and wish that she'll be happy with the next guy that comes into her life...
"|f U tRuLy LoVe a PerSoN,u WaN hEr tO b3 hApPy,EvEn |f |t mEaNs u VaNiSh|n From hEr LiFe." I think this quote means a lot of what i should do next...vanish from her life and let her be happy forever as i could only see her in my heart.
anyway tis are our views,choice are still urs mah..
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Btw i've set up a new forum call Jurong West.. For west area ppl esp. staying in jurong can talk or post msges for outings in there...maybe can co,e out and chat or lim kopi at nearby kopitiam when free..
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true...Originally posted by alensoh:hmm...i also dunno what to do next...my friends ask me not to give up but you guys insist that i should give up...i'm at a lost..at first i want to wait till she finish her term tests next week before i go for another try but i alreadyy know the answer.maybe i should just give up and wish that she'll be happy with the next guy that comes into her life...
"|f U tRuLy LoVe a PerSoN,u WaN hEr tO b3 hApPy,EvEn |f |t mEaNs u VaNiSh|n From hEr LiFe." I think this quote means a lot of what i should do next...vanish from her life and let her be happy forever as i could only see her in my heart.
in other words it means...
"if u truely love a person, let him/her go, and if she comes back to u, then u noe that person loves u too..."
and in case of ppl loving another, we all know the best thing to do is to let the loved one be happy...
"ni kuai le, wo jiu kuai le"
but think.....
sometimes, such words and phrases, are juz teaching us to run away.... rite?? -
you'll find someone better! really..
besides, there's more things in life than love.. rejections are just part and parcel of life.. there's ups and downs in life, there would be better chances next time, if only you are willing to move on.
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uh, u can pray to me?
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Girls are always unperdictable.. sometimes cold sometimes warm.. oh well.. that's a fact boy..
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Yah lor... When he commit he will be hurt even more when she initiates a breakup with himOriginally posted by Si|verGer:..
but 4 tis case reli lor mayb it juz bcoz the ger knw herself she dun like him at all & din 1 2 accept him to giv flase hope mayb it sound cruel but it better den she keep plying along or she agree to it but wen together 4 a period den she wana break dat v hurt even more coz hw will commit even more den nw... -
If u really dun wanna give up now, try asking 1 more time after her exams... If by then u still get a negative feedback u gotta move onOriginally posted by alensoh:hmm...i also dunno what to do next...my friends ask me not to give up but you guys insist that i should give up...i'm at a lost..at first i want to wait till she finish her term tests next week before i go for another try but i alreadyy know the answer.maybe i should just give up and wish that she'll be happy with the next guy that comes into her life...
"|f U tRuLy LoVe a PerSoN,u WaN hEr tO b3 hApPy,EvEn |f |t mEaNs u VaNiSh|n From hEr LiFe." I think this quote means a lot of what i should do next...vanish from her life and let her be happy forever as i could only see her in my heart. -
Pai seh i post then see you post.... I posted abt the same thingOriginally posted by Si|verGer:hmm i nv hint u to give up u can try to ask her after her test but if the ans is negative den mayb "|f U tRuLy LoVe a PerSoN,u WaN hEr tO b3 hApPy,EvEn |f |t mEaNs u VaNiSh|n From hEr LiFe." is true lor.
anyway tis are our views,choice are still urs mah.. -
u two lovers... think alike mahOriginally posted by deathwish:Pai seh i post then see you post.... I posted abt the same thing -
Not now don't mean never right?
Since you said you only become acquainted recently,you two are not close friends right? Then build on it first! Who knows what might happen after she got to know you better!
At least she's not attached,no?
I could go on and on about this...
You have my full support,brother.
Keep the Faith,you can do it!
Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all. - Dale Carnegie -
Aiya, alensoh u go decide on your own lah. It's your decision...
It's good to hear others comments/views while u can consider abt the points they make...
If u think u stand a chance, why scared of wasting time on waiting for her? 
If u think u no chance, then FO and dun waste so much energy on her. In the end it's u who suffered... Anyway, good luck... -
Love is Impossible to understand...............
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Obviously she isn't interested in u........
Mayb u shld giv up....... -
hai~~~ life is always so unpredictable....Thanks for all your efforts trying to give me advice...At least i know now that a decision muct be made and i'm working it out...Thanks Guys!