Confused... pls help me....
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I am attracted to a gal whom i know for some time and met her only recently.... but her ex plans to patch up with her and he knoes i like her... so does she........
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This type of posts have been up all the time...
But anyway...you have 2 choices...first, be a 
gracious guy and back away and let them be together forever and ever amen and live urself in regret for eternity until u managed to find another girl to replace her which will happen one way or another...second, be 
"evil" and fight for and live wth her forever and ever amen provided she accepts you which i would not know and you to a certain extent may not know...
So anyways, Good Luck and Cheerz!!!
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/me kokz ana-fenny
well... u have ur reasons for choosing... those 2
but here's what i have to say, in SIMPLER terms
if u really like her alot, and since u already steady wif her, treasure her, but of course, u muz ask her, who she will choose loh.... have a talk wif her, things are gonna work out -
strike while the iron is hot and go tell her your true feelings!! wah lau... how can you let her ex patch up with her again?! tell her if he could have broken up with her in the first place, watz goin to stop him from doin it again!
seize the chance and make your feelings known! -
just do what your heart tells you to
at least, try.
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Ask her what she wanna do...? Sometimes it's not only about what you wanna do...? You mentioned your love for her but you didn't mention anything about her feelings for you...? Let her choose... She's in the leading role now....Originally posted by Moonstriker:I am attracted to a gal whom i know for some time and met her only recently.... but her ex plans to patch up with her and he knoes i like her... so does she........
Tell mi what should i do? -
is a fair and square world..chase her if u like...if not next time regret too late lioa..Originally posted by Moonstriker:I am attracted to a gal whom i know for some time and met her only recently.... but her ex plans to patch up with her and he knoes i like her... so does she........
Tell mi what should i do?
Givache -
but dat hv to depend on the ger choice..if she choose u or him ah still u nv say she like u ant ler... hw to help u ans ur doubt??Originally posted by Moonstriker:I am attracted to a gal whom i know for some time and met her only recently.... but her ex plans to patch up with her and he knoes i like her... so does she........
Tell mi what should i do?
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i think the answer lies in your girlfriend.
what does she want?
who does she want to be with? -
mmm...... okok....
She isn't my girlfriend.... I dunno how she really feels abt me...
All i know is that she knows i like her, and she's goin out with me when i ask her out.... -
eh u r my classmate?Originally posted by Dolce Vita:i think the answer lies in your girlfriend.
what does she want?
who does she want to be with?
lolz..
u noe who i am rite? Givache -
huh?Originally posted by Givache:eh u r my classmate?
lolz..
u noe who i am rite? Givache -
err..u from TP?Originally posted by Dolce Vita:huh? Givache -
it's obvious that most of the posts here tell u to go for gold and blah blah..Originally posted by Moonstriker:I am attracted to a gal whom i know for some time and met her only recently.... but her ex plans to patch up with her and he knoes i like her... so does she........
Tell mi what should i do?
i'm not gonna suggest wat u should do, but i'm gonna ask u a question that may aid ur decision making process:
wat would u do if her ex never existed? or isn't chasing her?
my point is: i dun see wat her ex, or any other guy for that matter, has to do with YOU deciding who YOU wanna be with.
and btw, if u think that u can be gracious and let her ex "have her" like wat ana-fenny suggested, wat's to say that ur "grace" won't be her downfall, since u may be the better guy for her? -
pray to me, go to my church, any one of em, n just donate...then your dream will come true!
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siaoz..dun be a bo liao lah..Originally posted by G0D:pray to me, go to my church, any one of em, n just donate...then your dream will come true! Givache -
Go for it manz...express ur feelings to her...and as for the rest its up for the gal to choose who she wants to be with.Originally posted by Moonstriker:I am attracted to a gal whom i know for some time and met her only recently.... but her ex plans to patch up with her and he knoes i like her... so does she........
Tell mi what should i do?
Well....even if(touchwood) u fail...at least u have tried b4...and after that get on with life.
good luck~
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nopeOriginally posted by Givache:err..u from TP? Givache 
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ok ..thanks..tought u were my fren..heheOriginally posted by Dolce Vita:nope
sorry and nice to meet u.. Givache -
Originally posted by jOhO:it's obvious that most of the posts here tell u to go for gold and blah blah..
i'm not gonna suggest wat u should do, but i'm gonna ask u a question that may aid ur decision making process:
wat would u do if her ex never existed? or isn't chasing her?
my point is: i dun see wat her ex, or any other guy for that matter, has to do with YOU deciding who YOU wanna be with.
and btw, if u think that u can be gracious and let her ex "have her" like wat ana-fenny suggested, wat's to say that ur "grace" won't be her downfall, since u may be the better guy for her?
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haha, nice to meet you too.Originally posted by Givache:ok ..thanks..tought u were my fren..hehe
sorry and nice to meet u.. Givache