Originally posted by Dong_Fang_Bu_Bai:
I hate being a gay, but I just can't help falling for a guy... I wish that I was born normally...
Hello
Homosexuality is not a disease, you dont need a cure to it. It's just a personal preference when choosin partners. It is NOT wrong and is NOT a sin.
First of all, the most important thing is,
if you want people, your friends, your family to accept you (as a gay), you HAVE to accept yourself first. Accept for who you are. If you dont even accept yourself, how do you want people to accept you?
It's nothin wrong. It's normal. You do not want to be a gay because there are more straight people out there and you are the minority. But so what. Why must care bout people's views? It's a feelin you just like guys, why must make yourself change to like girls instead? (just because it seems like a norm that guys must like girls and girls must like guys and nothin else more)
Just follow your heart....
You dont have to tell your parents about it yet for the moment.... (not really necessary)
Give yourself time to accept yourself.... You may tell your friends bout you first. Not all are against homosexuality though, maybe it's just your friends.... Hangout with people of the same orientation helps....
source: myself
i am one but i prefer girls more instead
Dont be afraid of who you are 
Learn to accept yourself