there is this guy....
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that's wat happens to me also.Originally posted by X-men:what if the yun never kai?
How long will you wait?
yun yao shi bu kai, wo jiu qi dai neng kan dao xing xing lor.. -
If you begin to like him, just tell him. He is already intiative when he express his feelings to you.Originally posted by fishyday:so.... hmm... you guys think that i should confess ?? .... well, like he sits on the table that i normally sit at during lunch, asks me how was my day , everyday ;and he knows about all my classes and when they are...so is it considered that he knows that he's starting to grow on me and he's taking more initiative ? -
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well... do u tink abt him everyday? or have u tot abt wad will u do if one day he dun sms u how u are? will u like, "hey he haven sms today asking me how i am!" or will u juz ignore as if nth happen.
or do u like someone else rite now? someone u have in mind that is even better than him?
well answer these qns and u very well have ur ans... as for future and ur studies, ultimately it's ur choice. if u want to focus on ur studies fers, tell him and he will surely understand... since he likes to wait... might as well let him wait some more rite? hahaha...
or u can start off as good frens fers... study together etc... and if the feeling is rite, proceed on to the next step...
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There's a difference between liking someone, and actually feeling touched and grateful for his persistance. Just make sure u know which one is which.Originally posted by fishyday:ok ... there is this guy... he's like really persistant ... and patient, it's been since november and he still likes me , but the thing is i told him a while ago that ... ok here's what our conversation was like :
me:hey... i heard some stuff around school........ about how you like me and stuff, welll.... i want to let you noe that i don't feel the same way...( i felt really bad)
he said : oh it's ok...i knew all along that you didn't like me , but i still carried on liking you , so it's my fault
after that, he still carried on acting normal , like nothing happened and then like now he's starting to grow on me , if you get what i mean and he still likes me , but i can't go back on my word since i already told him that i didn't have feelings for him in the first place -
If you know he still likes you, lure him home on the pretense of getting him to help you with something (whatever, girls always have these lame excuses like change lightbulb, help with homework, you know what I mean of course).
Then rip his clothes off and jump on him.
Remember to have bought condoms beforehand.
Good luck and no need to thank me! -
if he doens't do any bugging then i don feel wats wrong that he likes u?Originally posted by fishyday:ok ... there is this guy... he's like really persistant ... and patient, it's been since november and he still likes me , but the thing is i told him a while ago that ... ok here's what our conversation was like :
me:hey... i heard some stuff around school........ about how you like me and stuff, welll.... i want to let you noe that i don't feel the same way...( i felt really bad)
he said : oh it's ok...i knew all along that you didn't like me , but i still carried on liking you , so it's my fault
after that, he still carried on acting normal , like nothing happened and then like now he's starting to grow on me , if you get what i mean and he still likes me , but i can't go back on my word since i already told him that i didn't have feelings for him in the first place
i mean.. u don have to care if he still likes u or not.. as long as he doesn't invade your freedom. -
U are mad? U think people never change issit? U think you are the same U since your were young? U think U will be the same U after you are old?Originally posted by fishyday:ok ... there is this guy... he's like really persistant ... and patient, it's been since november and he still likes me , but the thing is i told him a while ago that ... ok here's what our conversation was like :
me:hey... i heard some stuff around school........ about how you like me and stuff, welll.... i want to let you noe that i don't feel the same way...( i felt really bad)
he said : oh it's ok...i knew all along that you didn't like me , but i still carried on liking you , so it's my fault
after that, he still carried on acting normal , like nothing happened and then like now he's starting to grow on me , if you get what i mean and he still likes me , but i can't go back on my word since i already told him that i didn't have feelings for him in the first place
Mad Mad Mad... hahaha juz joking...
neber mind lah, just tell him you changed your mind about him and ask him if he wants to reconsider you... or if that is too pai seh... then look lovingly and dreamily into his eyes whenever you talk to him... and if that still doesn't work... hold his hand and if that still doesn't work, ask him to PM me I I tell him for you... -
just be friends lah.. talk about interests and stuffs..
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tell him this:Originally posted by fishyday:ok ... there is this guy... he's like really persistant ... and patient, it's been since november and he still likes me , but the thing is i told him a while ago that ... ok here's what our conversation was like :
me:hey... i heard some stuff around school........ about how you like me and stuff, welll.... i want to let you noe that i don't feel the same way...( i felt really bad)
he said : oh it's ok...i knew all along that you didn't like me , but i still carried on liking you , so it's my fault
after that, he still carried on acting normal , like nothing happened and then like now he's starting to grow on me , if you get what i mean and he still likes me , but i can't go back on my word since i already told him that i didn't have feelings for him in the first place
http://youmakemetouchyourhandsforstupidreasons.ytmnd.com/ -
thank you for all your comments lah... really helpful
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never ever derive a conclusion that you won't like a person coz you never know & never will.......but at the same time please do not neglect your studies kOriginally posted by fishyday:ok ... there is this guy... he's like really persistant ... and patient, it's been since november and he still likes me , but the thing is i told him a while ago that ... ok here's what our conversation was like :
me:hey... i heard some stuff around school........ about how you like me and stuff, welll.... i want to let you noe that i don't feel the same way...( i felt really bad)
he said : oh it's ok...i knew all along that you didn't like me , but i still carried on liking you , so it's my fault
after that, he still carried on acting normal , like nothing happened and then like now he's starting to grow on me , if you get what i mean and he still likes me , but i can't go back on my word since i already told him that i didn't have feelings for him in the first place
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