An orphan friend
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Do u guys know anyone that is an orphan?
I know of one... do u guys know how does an orphan think like?
I am to further develop a friendship with this orphan friend of my w/o the implications of romance.
Recently she has been saying life has no meaning...
Shes living alone, and its seems kinda hard to break into her barrier...
Any suggestions? -
Take her out for good clean fun... bring her home for dinner so she can enjoy some family warmth...
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The thing is...i dun have much family warmth too... my parents are separated...Originally posted by MooKu:Take her out for good clean fun... bring her home for dinner so she can enjoy some family warmth... -
Thats why i have an overwhelming urge to help her too...Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:The thing is...i dun have much family warmth too... my parents are separated... -
then just concentrate on spending quality time with her?Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:The thing is...i dun have much family warmth too... my parents are separated...
chatting about everything n anything etc -
she has been cold to me recently...Originally posted by tripudio_mutatio:then just concentrate on spending quality time with her?
chatting about everything n anything etc
i really dun want her to misunderstand my concerns as sympathy(tong ching) loh...
she has a very strong character... -
hmmm
then what to do, to cheer up a negative minded person
be by her side, try to go out more often, cheer her up all the time lor -
No relatives also? -
got relatives...and plenty of pets...Originally posted by Parka: No relatives also?
her last immediate kin, mum..died earliar this year...thts why the effect is still very profound on her.. -
She is depressed.
because she got no familyy to work for. no one to achieve for. and no goals to achieve and no one to share her joy and gives her some emotional support.
she needs to live.
do you think you can encourage her to take up riding lessons with you?
its a kinda different world & mindset once you got your licene or starts motorycle touring with some nice folks.
How old is she? Would she mind being introduced to some old bikers who would most likely be able to dote on her a bit, in the brotherly sense? -
People with a strong character make very good friends and romantic partners - afterall, their characters are pretty much shaped by the tough environment they're subjected to. Just hang in there and I'm sure she'll be worth the while...Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:she has a very strong character... -
She is not an abandoned pet.
You do not need to sympatise her.
Treat her like any other person you know.
Just be her friend for the sake of being a friend.