To People Who Are Sad Due To Breakups.
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who r u??Originally posted by MrSotong:Sotong wanna contribute ;D
Erm "No Pain No Gain "
When you xperience the pain of being "break-up" you will gain more xperience and a lesson learnt.
And that's the gain of it .. Experience ...
A character cannot be developed without experience ...
No Pain no gain applies to almost everything that we DO.
You work hard at work , not just do what the boss told you to do , you DO EXTRA WORK < thats the pain
and when the times comes > you gain more experience and lastly you get promoted !
Gd lukz there is always SG forums.
my pc told that to us... -
wtf...Originally posted by soulwinner:I just want this truth to set you free...
I LOVE YOU !!!!!!
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"No Pain, No Gain" is a very common saying...Originally posted by alvin-ncs:who r u??
my pc told that to us... -
Most importantly, always know which direction your headingOriginally posted by MrSotong:Sotong wanna contribute ;D
Erm "No Pain No Gain "
When you xperience the pain of being "break-up" you will gain more xperience and a lesson learnt.
And that's the gain of it .. Experience ...
A character cannot be developed without experience ...
No Pain no gain applies to almost everything that we DO.
You work hard at work , not just do what the boss told you to do , you DO EXTRA WORK < thats the pain
and when the times comes > you gain more experience and lastly you get promoted !
Gd lukz there is always SG forums. -
Tomorrow will be better.
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everything happens for a reason.
life is a lesson n learning phase.
whats urs is urs.
one fine day, out of nowhere, u no longer cling onto tat burden anymore. time heals. just give urself alittle more time.
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nice.Originally posted by Cool-gal:everything happens for a reason.
life is a lesson n learning phase.
whats urs is urs.
one fine day, out of nowhere, u no longer cling onto tat burden anymore. time heals. just give urself alittle more time.
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Not with amputation, HIV, cancer or child abuse.Originally posted by MichelleTan:This also applies for any misfortune and tragedy as well. Perhaps you may never forget but you will always get over it and be happy again."
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"Never regret anything you have done with a sincere affection;
nothing is lost that is born of the heart."
"For everything there is a season,
And a time for every matter under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die;
A time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal;
A time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
A time to embrace, And a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to seek, and a time to lose;
A time to keep, and a time to throw away;
A time to tear, and a time to sew;
A time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, and a time to hate,
A time for war, and a time for peace."
Just bear with the pain, it will be over eventually
Do not forget to live..do not dwell in the past
Open your eyes, cry your heart out if u want
But remember to Look forward soon and live sincerely
Your time to love will come again.
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Guess this is a good post for me to write out my current sadness...
The person that I liked and served with all my love...liked another recently met classmate's friend.
If love is unconditional and is supposed to be giving without any catch, why do I wished GOD would take away my life as soon as possible and give it to another who could be loved better than me?
Many times when I felt that he don't love me, I've always denied it and felt worse later cos deep down inside me, I know it is the truth. But I refused to believe that this is happening. I can't leave him cos I know for sure that he will feel more miserable without me and I will feel guilty for causing this emotional abuse to the person that I loved.
Words of care cheated me, and smses of concern tells me not to give up. Promises are eventually carefully crafted selfish lies...I feel so sad, I feel so painful, I feel like crying but I already have no more tears left. I can't sleep, I don't feel like talking, I don't feel like I want to live anymore.
Many times I've prayed to GOD to release me from my current painful cycle, but why do GOD shown me another person who I have only recently met for the first time through one of my friend, that the other person is able to show me more genuine care and concern and makes me feel that I'm will be loved more genuinely and sincerely than my current love. I am unable to believe that the other person whom I've only met for the first time unimaginably makes me feel loved and important. I'm not in a state to appreciate the love that another have shown me...not because I don't like him, but because of the pain that I've to experience at the moment, I'm not in a state to love another. That makes me feel even more pain in my heart when I know I'm supposed to appreciate the love and concern that the new person has shown me, yet I'm not in the right emotional state to give any love and concern to show my appreciation in return.
I wished that GOD will help me to recover as soon as possible, so that I would not disappoint the person who have shown respectful care and makes me feel more wanted and important to him.
I need to be stronger, I must be stronger.
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If you have not experienced sadness you won't know what is happiness. Sadness is a form of suffering. And suffering comes from our carving and clinging. One must understand and accept the nature of things including relationship, that is, nothing is permanent. Couples can remain together, but death they part.
So, I think breakup is not a big loss if one learns to accept that nothing remains still, static and unchanged. Things change. Weathers change. Governments change. People change. Relationships change. Accept it and don't try to find out why. Because the whys will baffle you more than help you.
Learn to let go. Just get over and move on. If there is one consolation: it is better to break up early than much later. Otherwise there will be too much water under the bridge. -
free bump for all the singles.
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oh i love this quoteOriginally posted by Detached:I got something to contribute too.
Just because somebody didn't love you all the way, doesn't mean that somebody didn't love you with all they had
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If there is no breakup in relationship, how to have close up in another relationship???
Let me take a break and think it over first. -
A guy usually needs to have at least 2-3gfs before he will settle down de. Not sure about gals.
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For gals, we also have a few bfs, then we choose and compare, rich, poor, looks, size, character, style, manner, trust, sincerity, temper, attitude and phsical strength.
But no matter how i choose, me always get the wrong one.
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oh i see. thx for the inputOriginally posted by angel7030:For gals, we also have a few bfs, then we choose and compare, rich, poor, looks, size, character, style, manner, trust, sincerity, temper, attitude and phsical strength.
But no matter how i choose, me always get the wrong one.
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Me too, I find it very comfortingOriginally posted by tinuviel07:oh i love this quote
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cry for a week or two and then get over it.
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My family were there for me during times when my soul was completely carried away. Retail therapy works a little. but most importantly, bring up your confidence and always be positive.
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To appreciate sweetness, one must taste bitter.
To treasure love, one must experience lost.
Now that u have experience lost, perhaps the next time love come knocking, it will stay for good. -
Love is a powerful disease caused by the LOVE virus.
THe effect of this disease is not easy to destroy after this virus left the person. -
when you love, enjoy it while you can, never waste even a single moment of it as its sweetness is unlikely to repeat again.
BUT remember...Love is a severe TEST.