Typical question
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i know this question must have been asked a lot of times. but is there really no purely friendship between a guy and a gal? if too close with the opposite sex, the other will start to think more. how to prevent hurt in this case?
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I am very close to several female friends of mine, so of em so close that even my classmates tot we were going steady together, but still we're only close friends, why not?
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can one lar. no problem
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How to say ar.. Did you study Immunology before? Very hard to explain leh..
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can de.. even if he likes u jus tell him tat u jus wanna b friends..
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but if too close, then the other party will start thinking that still have chance, dont want to hurt the person, but its not right to lead him on. but then, i just lost a friend..
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msut clarify to him that u only wanna b friends lo.. if he don understand then it's not your fault alsoOriginally posted by jacqn:but if too close, then the other party will start thinking that still have chance, dont want to hurt the person, but its not right to lead him on. but then, i just lost a friend.. -
be totally honest with one another.Originally posted by jacqn:i know this question must have been asked a lot of times. but is there really no purely friendship between a guy and a gal? if too close with the opposite sex, the other will start to think more. how to prevent hurt in this case?
I have a couple of great guy friends with whom we have (through conversations) declared that we would not be interested in one another, and will be friends only.
that worked. till now, I'm still buddies with them! -
that's why it's either you be TOTALLY honest with your feelings, or drop hints that you like someone elseOriginally posted by jacqn:but if too close, then the other party will start thinking that still have chance, dont want to hurt the person, but its not right to lead him on. but then, i just lost a friend.. -
how about getting hurt is a minor consequence of a great friendship? possibility of hurt should not get in the way of a wonderful relationship as friends...Originally posted by jacqn:i know this question must have been asked a lot of times. but is there really no purely friendship between a guy and a gal? if too close with the opposite sex, the other will start to think more. how to prevent hurt in this case? -
huh?
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friendship can only happen when two pple are physically unattracted to each other
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can la, but must handle with care
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The crucial rule in a boy-girl buddyship is never to fall in love. But there may be exceptions.
#1 - Never treat him/her too nice.
#2 - He/She should get clear of his/her feelings -
depends
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prolly difficult but not impossible. one of my best buddy is a guy.
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plutonic r/s?
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Haha you will come to the point it will decide for you...no point trying to stop it....just let it happen and see what happens....coz i tried to prevent it....didn't work anyways
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platonicOriginally posted by club18:plutonic r/s? -
I have many good female friend...
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don't go out too often with him. There is such thing as platonic relationship between a guy and a gal. If he is asking for more and you can't give, tell him frankly and tactfully. If he still insist/persist, be firm or leave him alone. For this matter, I have lost many guy friends. Men, guys don't seem to take no for an answer.Originally posted by jacqn:i know this question must have been asked a lot of times. but is there really no purely friendship between a guy and a gal? if too close with the opposite sex, the other will start to think more. how to prevent hurt in this case?
Sad! Sigh!