Please tell me hw to deal with such mum?
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i duno wat to say abt her....
she does nothing but facing the computer playing irc almost 15hr a day loh.... she dun do hsewrk. i dun think she bath too.... haiz... she nvr cook for god damn long liao..... she dun bother to look for job.... tv on 24/7 nvr off at all... she become really damn lazy. rotting at home. does anyone mum oso like tat???
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wow.. how old is she? so hip...
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Prepare for a new dad dude.
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she 40++ she going divorce soon. and she is married 4 times...
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Hmmm, wow... like my aunt.. the more she marries, the richer she gets...Originally posted by simpleger24:she 40++ she going divorce soon. and she is married 4 times...
can become tai tai...
Anyway, let her be la... is she giving you burdens? As in financial and such?
If not, just give her chance la. Maybe she lonely. -
You should try to talk to her about your concerns. Ask her if there is anything you can help.
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Sounds like a serious addiction or some sort of obsession disorder...
You sure your mom doesn't need Psychotherapy or something? -
say le no use.... we r not rich btw..... she get money by the room rental,my money and her maintenance loh.... walau..... sick of it leh, u see her do nth but irc irc n irc
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Try talking to her lah.
Don't let her isolate herself and later kena depression leh. -
she kena b4 liao.... when i just move back, just nice she has depression.... haiz.. hw i wish her pc spolit. den i happy...
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err..how old are u ? If you are already working then let her be loh, you old enouff to look after yourself.
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Now irc still got people one meh? Try to ask her out to do something together lor..Shopping or watch movie or something..Dun let her rot at home everyday..Maybe after she smells the fresh air outside she will realised what she had been missing
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i 26 but i cant stand it leh. duno y, i see liao very angry 1....Originally posted by red_amoeba:err..how old are u ? If you are already working then let her be loh, you old enouff to look after yourself. -
tat wat i wonder too... din knw irc still so many ppl. i have to work leh... den weekend have to be with hubby ma... weekday after wrk i alway at home and see her irc oni lohOriginally posted by killtuna:Now irc still got people one meh? Try to ask her out to do something together lor..Shopping or watch movie or something..Dun let her rot at home everyday..Maybe after she smells the fresh air outside she will realised what she had been missing -
Yar.. I also dunno that irc icq still so active. I thought it has outdated liao.
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Maybe she got do something else while you are working but u duno leh
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.... So.... what is your problem with her???
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tat 1 duno n i dun wanna knw oso....Originally posted by killtuna:Maybe she got do something else while you are working but u duno leh -
The constant use of IRC shows that she's lonely; leaving the TV on despite not watching, supports this as well (programs: voices etc.).
You probably wouldn't be able to fill that void because she seem's to prefer the company of others to yours; don't be sad, a number of the previous generation (in SG) seem to prefer having a line drawn.
The best way to get your mom moving is to help her find friends (not love), friends whose house visits would excite her enough so that she'll prepare (by cleaning etc.).
Really, she is just bored and lonely. It seems to me many >40 and 60< feels this way. -
take her to see a shrink! -
I think your mum is addicted to the PC... should seek help...
But how... I don't know. As kids, we don't want to be seen as disrespectful, but at the same time, we don't want to be seen as somebody who can't be bothered. -
I don't believe your mom is like that by nature. Seems more like some crisis could have befallen her to make her behave in such manner. Rather than condemn her based on what you see superficially, perhaps you should delve deeper by showing some care and concern for her? Try to talk to her more to find out what her problems might be. What has your father to say about your mother's behavior?
You may also want to have a talk with your father as well?
Gathering facts from all parties is crucial and should be the first step to facing this problem. Without intel, it is not possible to identify the problem in order to find a remedy for. Good luck!
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Your discarded old toy is someone else's new toy k.......Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Yar.. I also dunno that irc icq still so active. I thought it has outdated liao. 
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she is going thru divorce... so now no husband.... >.< my father got his own family liao lahOriginally posted by :I don't believe your mom is like that by nature. Seems more like some crisis could have befallen her to make her behave in such manner. Rather than condemn her based on what you see superficially, perhaps you should delve deeper by showing some care and concern for her? Try to talk to her more to find out what her problems might be. What has your father to say about your mother's behavior?
You may also want to have a talk with your father as well?
Gathering facts from all parties is crucial and should be the first step to facing this problem. Without intel, it is not possible to identify the problem in order to find a remedy for. Good luck! -
leave her alone, can? just be there for her so that if she wants your help, then you help... for now, what can you do seriously? So just leave her alone.Originally posted by simpleger24:i duno wat to say abt her....
she does nothing but facing the computer playing irc almost 15hr a day loh.... she dun do hsewrk. i dun think she bath too.... haiz... she nvr cook for god damn long liao..... she dun bother to look for job.... tv on 24/7 nvr off at all... she become really damn lazy. rotting at home. does anyone mum oso like tat???