should i or should i not?

• IfUWantHateMe

  20 May 07, 23:15

  i like this girl "A" since sec 1..now i sec 4 le..i sec1 like her tat time..she knows..but i was too shy so i didnt confess..times pass the feelings faded..i was attached to another girl "B" at late sec3..then i realise i was just finding a sub for "A"..so i broke off with "B"..
  i msg "A" recently..she still seems nice..
  
  then i realise i still like her...then this year Olvl year le..
  
  (no asking of pics or frenster pls..)
  
  shld i go for it?
• ditzy

  20 May 07, 23:17

  No, finish your o levels first.
• zeny

  20 May 07, 23:23

  Originally posted by IfUWantHateMe:

  i like this girl "A" since sec 1..now i sec 4 le..i sec1 like her tat time..she knows..but i was too shy so i didnt confess..times pass the feelings faded..i was attached to another girl "B" at late sec3..then i realise i was just finding a sub for "A"..so i broke off with "B"..
  i msg "A" recently..she still seems nice..
  
  then i realise i still like her...then this year Olvl year le..
  
  (no asking of pics or frenster pls..)
  
  shld i go for it?

  bro, I got the same problem as you in the past but in the end I almost flunk my O level becos of this BGR. The end result she got into uni earlier than me and found a better bf.
  
  I even know what you will do .
  
  See if I am rite.
  
  She will say that she will not be able to have a relationship cos her o level is near and ask you to wait. You wait but still want to be with her. Then your result will be average.
  
  Mark my words.
• Darkness_hacker99

  20 May 07, 23:24

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  No, finish your o levels first.

  yar. exam more important.
• ChingAlvin

  20 May 07, 23:25

  Study first! I not even gonna think of BGR until after NS! Ok la... I not handsome ma..
• Scania N113CRB luver

  20 May 07, 23:38

  Originally posted by ChingAlvin:

  Study first! I not even gonna think of BGR until after NS! Ok la... I not handsome ma..

  Dont say urself until like that lah .
  
  Anyway ya , TS , Im taking my O lvls this year ...and i wont get BGR to affect my results ... So , i think its better for you to finish your exams first then contact the girl again ..
  
  Sry for dampening your spirits but erm , for me , i only scared one thing . I scared that when i went to contact the girl i like after my Os , i then found out that she's attached . Anyway thats my case and dont worry too much !
• soulwinner

  20 May 07, 23:39

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  No, finish your o levels first.

  I agreed totally..
• caleb_chiang

  20 May 07, 23:42

  The best is... wait till you are in working world... Cos BGR would normally affect your best performance in your studies.
• Darkness_hacker99

  20 May 07, 23:43

  Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:

  Dont say urself until like that lah .
  
  Anyway ya , TS , Im taking my O lvls this year ...and i wont get BGR to affect my results ... So , i think its better for you to finish your exams first then contact the girl again ..
  
  Sry for dampening your spirits but erm , for me , i only scared one thing . I scared that when i went to contact the girl i like after my Os , i then found out that she's attached . Anyway thats my case and dont worry too much !

  Yar. TS, Im retaking my O level this year.. Relationship can wait, but result can't. I bet you don't want to be like me ruin by BGR during O level period bah..
• allentyb

  20 May 07, 23:44

  just focus on your studies, first
• soulwinner

  20 May 07, 23:45

  Originally posted by ChingAlvin:

  Study first! I not even gonna think of BGR until after NS! Ok la... I not handsome ma..

  I'm not a chio bu
  So nobody want me...
• curryman

  21 May 07, 00:34

  grow up lst
• eagle

  21 May 07, 00:35

  Agree. Finish O levels first. So near yet so far...
  
  Get into JC -> Uni
  
  And u hv all the time u want after O levels and before JC.
• soulwinner

  21 May 07, 00:37

  Wait till O level is over...
• ifish

  21 May 07, 00:44

  o level first!!
• ls-tOrMeNt

  21 May 07, 01:07

  Exams first TS.
  
  Dun let it affect your studies. After all, studies is what matters more in this educated world.
• Eiizumi

  21 May 07, 01:10

  Yup. Those who didn't pass O level during my days were mostly those with BGRs. Surprisingly.
• eagle

  21 May 07, 01:24

  Originally posted by Eiizumi:

  Yup. Those who didn't pass O level during my days were mostly those with BGRs. Surprisingly.

  I did rather badly because of a single humanities which got C6
  
  And an English which got B3
• joce

  21 May 07, 12:30

  I told my son study first, relationship shoud put a side first. But say is easier than do. You yourslef must know what are you doing.
• eagle

  21 May 07, 16:13

  problem is... if u get into bgr now, u still hv 2 yrs of jc, 2 yrs of army, 4 yrs of uni (if go jc-uni path), which means 8 more years before u start to work.
  
  Also, u will probably need 1 -2 years of work to save up enuff money before anything else...
  
  Are u confident of holding a relationship for 10 yrs if u start so early?
• Scania N113CRB luver

  21 May 07, 17:42

  Originally posted by joce:

  I told my son study first, relationship shoud put a side first. But say is easier than do. You yourslef must know what are you doing.

  wow thats good . But never ever tell your son that if he study hard and earns big bucks next time , women will come flocking to him . Thats not good IMO . My aunt told me that and im kinda upset by her remarks . I Believe that even if you didnt earn as much as Bill Gates , you still can get a nice GF , so long as you have a stable income .
  
  I believe girls here would be satisfied with a guy who have a stable income .
• de_middle

  22 May 07, 10:23

  Originally posted by zeny:

  bro, I got the same problem as you in the past but in the end I almost flunk my O level becos of this BGR. The end result she got into uni earlier than me and found a better bf.
  
  I even know what you will do .
  
  See if I am rite.
  
  She will say that she will not be able to have a relationship cos her o level is near and ask you to wait. You wait but still want to be with her. Then your result will be average.
  
  Mark my words.

  very good advice.....i second to that