Have you let go ...
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... of your previous relationships?
It seems to me that some of us, forumers still cannot let go of the previous relationships even though it might have ended quite sometime ago.
Some of us still feel indignant about the outcome and the reasons for the breakup.
Do you? Do you think you can handle the same relationship better if given a 2nd chance? -
i got no previous r/s
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Take it this way, look at it as if you have not found someone better yet.
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I'm still trying to let go.
I've let go of the emotions, but the memories continue to haunt me slightly.
Given a second chance, I would have handled the relationship in a much more mature way. -
Then, are you ready for a relationship now?Originally posted by binarynwitz:I'm still trying to let go.
I've let go of the emotions, but the memories continue to haunt me slightly.
Given a second chance, I would have handled the relationship in a much more mature way. -
I can't let go of something which i have never got.
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then have u let go???
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If haven't let go and jump into a new relationship now, won't it affect your new relationship? hmm...
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if you keep asking yourself such qn, you will never let go of your previous pains/happiness in the r/s. Instead, i suggest pp to ask themselves what they could have done, to make the next r/s a better one..Originally posted by ILPSY:... of your previous relationships?
It seems to me that some of us, forumers still cannot let go of the previous relationships even though it might have ended quite sometime ago.
Some of us still feel indignant about the outcome and the reasons for the breakup.
Do you? Do you think you can handle the same relationship better if given a 2nd chance?
the defination of letting on is ambigious. I have let go of mine, but i will not forget. Its called memories embedded inside.
Learn to let go, but not forget, for memories are what makes up who you are today. -
i have learnt to let go le after my 1 and half year relationship. We same class summore so imagien the pain i wud feel cos we still face each other practicalli evrydae ...
though it hurts at furst, but slowly hor the pain subside den now i find myself capable of saeing hi when we meet la though still quite awkwar i m proud to sae IT DOESN'T HURT ANYMORE!!!
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.............................Originally posted by ILPSY:... of your previous relationships?
It seems to me that some of us, forumers still cannot let go of the previous relationships even though it might have ended quite sometime ago.
Some of us still feel indignant about the outcome and the reasons for the breakup.
Do you? Do you think you can handle the same relationship better if given a 2nd chance?
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That is the single question I'm asking myself.Originally posted by ILPSY:Then, are you ready for a relationship now?
The short answer now, is no. I don't want to fall into the trap of comparing the future, with the past.
It will inevitably lead to the destruction of the relationship. And I don't want that. -
Haiz..
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Letting go is when you've moved on from a past hurt to a new happiness
Letting is when you've moved on from lamenting to sweet reminiscing
Letting go is when the gratitude conquered the loss
And it's of no meaning to think of "what if" and "what could have been" when the past is gone forever -
my heart died..
there's no closure..
no way i can release myself..
im not holding on..
juz that it's still haunting me.. -
Have you considered opening a thread? Maybe I can help you a bit?Originally posted by browniebaobao:my heart died..
there's no closure..
no way i can release myself..
im not holding on..
juz that it's still haunting me..
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open a thread?Originally posted by binarynwitz:Have you considered opening a thread? Maybe I can help you a bit?
nah.. think i opened too many threads.
I talked to the AA mods also.. and then?
Zhi biao bu zhi ben I guess..
what can u do?
PM me if u want. -
awwwOriginally posted by browniebaobao:open a thread?
nah.. think i opened too many threads.
I talked to the AA mods also.. and then?
Zhi biao bu zhi ben I guess..
what can u do?
PM me if u want.