Stressful girl
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Hiyay guys I got another problem......
I got this junior who feels that life is so stressful in JC..... but no one really know as she smiles all the time.....
I didnt know that she got that much problem until we (the seniors) found her blog.....
She always thinks that she a a failure, cant achieve anything........
So now..... what should I do?
1. Tag her blog?
2. Talk to her one on one? (which timing is very important)
3. Others? -
jie ling hai xu xi ling ren.
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giv her a hug it alwaes works
show her got u this responsible senior will saty by her side shower her wif concern 1 -
x2 =)Originally posted by gobez14:giv her a hug it alwaes works show her got u this responsible senior will saty by her side shower her wif concern 1 -
start with her blog.... then move on to real life gradually.
wah, if only i had such nice seniors. -
Well, if you don't wanna let her know you've been reading her blog, start a study group and include her... casually tell her you're starting a group, and try to get her to join.Originally posted by AsGi4Lum:Hiyay guys I got another problem......
I got this junior who feels that life is so stressful in JC..... but no one really know as she smiles all the time.....
I didnt know that she got that much problem until we (the seniors) found her blog.....
She always thinks that she a a failure, cant achieve anything........
So now..... what should I do?
1. Tag her blog?
2. Talk to her one on one? (which timing is very important)
3. Others?
She might feel less stressful in a study group if there're people who can help with her studies. Besides, studying in a group helps to motivate her a little more, and encourage her, and takes her mind off the inadequacy she feels. -
move out of spore
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she need to build up self-confidence first
get her to participate in things that she is good or interested in.
show her that she can succeed if she try
tell her that there is no such thing as failure just haven't succeed unless she give up -
Unless she comes to you... LEAVE HER ALONE!Originally posted by AsGi4Lum:Hiyay guys I got another problem......
I got this junior who feels that life is so stressful in JC..... but no one really know as she smiles all the time.....
I didnt know that she got that much problem until we (the seniors) found her blog.....
She always thinks that she a a failure, cant achieve anything........
So now..... what should I do?
1. Tag her blog?
2. Talk to her one on one? (which timing is very important)
3. Others?
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well.. u can go for the one on one... tats wat i prefer... comfort her slowly... bring her out to some places... well... possible to call this a date.. ha... bring her out to play... of cos play wat she is best in... prove to her tat least she nos something... so not consider a failure... den slowly move on by building her confident... anyway... time does not matter in a one on one situation... but of cos dun choose those ungodly hours la...
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share her blog maybe?
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teenage angst...
i bet at least half of sensitive teens feel this way...
we do grow out of it.. -
Juz continue to be her friend lah.....
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Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Unless she comes to you... LEAVE HER ALONE!
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talk to her, one on one