Insurance agent friend became very business-like.

• ditzy

  29 May 07, 19:43

  Originally posted by mistyblue:

  Your friend did?

  My friend did, but its not a she. I'm serious. I was warned by my other friends not to ask about his job, or he'll pester me to buy a magnetic mattress. I didn't ask, he did try to sell one to me anyway.
• nefnuy

  2 Jun 07, 22:36

  Originally posted by Marco_Simone:

  You know what?
  
  I sms-ed her again...I asked "Have you managed to meet your target?"
  
  She replied "Why leh?"
  
  I didnt reply thereafter.
  
  

  I'm going to be a little blunt.
  
  It does sound like she's not very willing to meet up with you.
  Not as a friend, not even with the prospect of having some business with you.
  Does she like you before this incidents?
• Rock^Star

  2 Jun 07, 22:39

  Originally posted by Marco_Simone:

  You know what?
  
  I sms-ed her again...I asked "Have you managed to meet your target?"
  
  She replied "Why leh?"
  
  I didnt reply thereafter.
  
  

  You could just be too sensitive, basing your judgements on sms.
• ispyyy

  2 Jun 07, 22:52

  Originally posted by viciouskitty74:

  Its not about friendship.
  
  Its business.
  
  You think you are showing friendship when you call her to catch up.
  
  But she thinks you are wasting her time when she is better off getting business so she can earn for her next meal.
  
  Ultimately, you are equating friendship with togetherness & spending time.
  
  But she moved on to another plane of existence that friendship dont pay for the bread on her table and she dont want to waste that time with you.

  For her profession, building contracts and network is much more important than time. And the fact tat she brings out her intention too fast will increase one's defense on her.
  
  
• viciouskitty74

  3 Jun 07, 02:08

  Originally posted by ispyyy:

  For her profession, building contracts and network is much more important than time. And the fact tat she brings out her intention too fast will increase one's defense on her.
  
  

  Then thats still business. Nothing to do with friendship.
  
  Since TS has not purchased any insurance from her friend. Has TS tried actively to introduce other friends to buy insurance from her friend?
  
  If not? What contacts is the TS's friends losing? Espeically when these are contacts using friendship as a bargaining tool instead of her actual getting contacts because she is capable?
• hobochua

  5 Jun 07, 12:24

  Her thirst for money is palpable ...by the way she is treating every min of her time..So better help her or get out of her way...She will do anything just like vampire thirst for blood...