dear frens.. something to share with all of you..
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before u really going to end ur relationship...
becoz of 3rd party...
just read this once and remember..
i got this frm mail anyway.. -
my mandarin is awful, can someone translate....thank you
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its about a guy talk with buddha ( dont know if i spell it correctly) ... =x
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Nice one.
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Nice. Thanks for sharing.
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It means that normal it's because of greed that one falls for a new love while having one... Thus when you are able to see the whole pix, the love that you have all along is actually the best one.... or something like that.
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THanks for sharing, is was really a good article.
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I can't really read chinese leh bro.
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I tried reading but I don't quite understand leh. >.<
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this morning, i attach this .doc to my ex.. and sent to her mailbox..
thn i log in n see, she deleted it..
so silly me..
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ask u to study hard u dont want..Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:I tried reading but I don't quite understand leh. >.<
the person who will translate obviously not me..Originally posted by de_middle:my mandarin is awful, can someone translate....thank you 
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I think your ex gf thinks it is very lame so she deleted it. Buddhas where got so free to talk to men...
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Break up liao u still want to do this. Make her think u damn childish sia.
At least leave her with a good impression ma -
amitabha.. i'm kinda enlightened... nv ever say break up so ezly.. it's fate tt brings 2 pple tgt...
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Thank you. It was enlightening.
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haiz... i got a F9 for chinese leh bro... haiz...
no one can fully translate this?
i read first sentence don't understand, nvm next sentence...
what picture is that word? haiz chinese word like all picture de so hard to memorise...
unlike ang moh, a to z nia... chinese one extra stroke can cause the whole meaning to change and a whole new sound... haiz... -
the whole story basically means that when u think u love this person u will try n love her as much as u can n u think that u dun like ur original partner...but actuali when u try to see both of the girls from their original status in ur heart, u may realise that u actuali still love ur original partner...the buddha use an example that when 3 joss sticks r afar at similar distance away from u, u cant reali see which one is brighter....but when u bring one nearer(which is use to illustrate what happens when u think u like another girl), it seems that that one is brighter...however, when u put the joss stick back to its original position(illustrating putting the girl back to her original status with u, that is not thinkin that u like her), u may realise that actuali ur feelings for ur original partner haf not been overcome by the new girl in ur life....
something like that la, not entirely correct though=p but juz try to get the idea loh -
Mmmm wait ok, I translate.
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A man was having a conversation with Buddha in the middle of the night. Buddha was sitting down while the man was standing.
Man: O Buddha, I have a girlfriend of five years, but now I have fallen madly in love with a new lady. I really don't know what to do.
Buddha: Are you sure that the lady you're now madly in love with is the one you love most, and will be the very last woman in your life? o_O
Man: Yes.
Buddha: Then initiate a break up so you can be with the new lady!
Man: But my current girlfriend is gentle, kind, virtuous. If I initiate a break up, wouldn't it be quite cruel and unethical?
Buddha: In marriage and love, it will only be cruel and unethical if there is no love. You're now in love with another lady and no longer your girlfriend, and a break up is the right thing to do.
Man: But my girlfriend loves me very much, she really loves me very much.
Buddha: Then she is fortunate.
Man: I'm going to leave her for another woman, and this should cause her to be in misery. How can she be fortunate?
Buddha: Because she still possesses the love she has for you, whereas you have lost the love you have for her, because you have fallen for someone new. Accurately speaking, it is a blessing to possess and a misfortune to lose possession, therefore the one in misery is you.
Man: But I'm leaving her for another woman, she should be the one who has lost me and thus feel miserable.
Buddha: You're wrong. You're only an entity in her love life. When you, the entity, no longer exists, her true love will continue on to another entity. Because in her love life, she has never lost true love, therefore she is the one who should be blessed and you the one in pain.
Man: She said she would love only me all her life and not a second man.
Buddha: Have you not said something similar before?
Man: I... I... I...
Buddha: Look at the three candles in the urn before you, the one that shines most brightly.
Man: I don't know, they're all equally bright.
Buddha: These three candles can be likened to three women. One of them is the woman you have fallen for. There are so many humans in existence, and there are more than hundreds of thousands of women. You can't even tell which is the brightest or point out which is the woman you love now, yet why are you so sure the one you love now is that woman, and even more so, how can you be so sure she will be the last woman in your life?
Man: I... I... I...
Buddha: Now put one candle close to you, and look closely which of the three candles are the brightest.
Man: Of course it's the one right in front of me.
Buddha: Now put it back to where it was, and then look again and tell me which is the brightest.
Man: I really cannot tell which is the brighest.
Buddha: Actually, the candle you brought before you is like the woman whom you have fallen for. Love stems from the heart. While you love her, you feel that she is the brightest candle. When you put the candle back to where it was, once again you could not tell which was the brightest candle. This type of love is only a kind of greed that blinds you and looks beautiful and perfect on the surface, but in the end it's only an empty dream.
Man: Oh! Now I know. You didn't really want me to leave my girlfriend, you merely wanted to enlighten me.
Buddha: I won't tell you if you've seen through me. Now, go.
Man: Now I really know who I love - she is my girlfriend.
Buddha: Amituofo, amituofo, amituofo. When one is alive, one can hardly avoid love. May all lovers in the world cherish the one beside them, steer clear of greed and illusions and create happiness with their special one.
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meaningful
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nice...
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Originally posted by MooKu:
bravo bravo...
A man was having a conversation with Buddha in the middle of the night. Buddha was sitting down while the man was standing.
[b]Man: O Buddha, I have a girlfriend of five years, but now I have fallen madly in love with a new lady. I really don't know what to do.
Buddha: Are you sure that the lady you're now madly in love with is the one you love most, and will be the very last woman in your life? o_O
Man: Yes.
Buddha: Then initiate a break up so you can be with the new lady!
Man: But my current girlfriend is gentle, kind, virtuous. If I initiate a break up, wouldn't it be quite cruel and unethical?
Buddha: In marriage and love, it will only be cruel and unethical if there is no love. You're now in love with another lady and no longer your girlfriend, and a break up is the right thing to do.
Man: But my girlfriend loves me very much, she really loves me very much.
Buddha: Then she is fortunate.
Man: I'm going to leave her for another woman, and this should cause her to be in misery. How can she be fortunate?
Buddha: Because she still possesses the love she has for you, whereas you have lost the love you have for her, because you have fallen for someone new. Accurately speaking, it is a blessing to possess and a misfortune to lose possession, therefore the one in misery is you.
Man: But I'm leaving her for another woman, she should be the one who has lost me and thus feel miserable.
Buddha: You're wrong. You're only an entity in her love life. When you, the entity, no longer exists, her true love will continue on to another entity. Because in her love life, she has never lost true love, therefore she is the one who should be blessed and you the one in pain.
Man: She said she would love only me all her life and not a second man.
Buddha: Have you not said something similar before?
Man: I... I... I...
Buddha: Look at the three candles in the urn before you, the one that shines most brightly.
Man: I don't know, they're all equally bright.
Buddha: These three candles can be likened to three women. One of them is the woman you have fallen for. There are so many humans in existence, and there are more than hundreds of thousands of women. You can't even tell which is the brightest or point out which is the woman you love now, yet why are you so sure the one you love now is that woman, and even more so, how can you be so sure she will be the last woman in your life?
Man: I... I... I...
Buddha: Now put one candle close to you, and look closely which of the three candles are the brightest.
Man: Of course it's the one right in front of me.
Buddha: Now put it back to where it was, and then look again and tell me which is the brightest.
Man: I really cannot tell which is the brighest.
Buddha: Actually, the candle you brought before you is like the woman whom you have fallen for. Love stems from the heart. While you love her, you feel that she is the brightest candle. When you put the candle back to where it was, once again you could not tell which was the brightest candle. This type of love is only a kind of greed that blinds you and looks beautiful and perfect on the surface, but in the end it's only an empty dream.
Man: Oh! Now I know. You didn't really want me to leave my girlfriend, you merely wanted to enlighten me.
Buddha: I won't tell you if you've seen through me. Now, go.
Man: Now I really know who I love - she is my girlfriend.
Buddha: Amituofo, amituofo, amituofo. When one is alive, one can hardly avoid love. May all lovers in the world cherish the one beside them, steer clear of greed and illusions and create happiness with their special one.
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nice read
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Originally posted by MooKu:
COOOOOLLLLL....stylo la u lol
A man was having a conversation with Buddha in the middle of the night. Buddha was sitting down while the man was standing.
[b]Man: O Buddha, I have a girlfriend of five years, but now I have fallen madly in love with a new lady. I really don't know what to do.
Buddha: Are you sure that the lady you're now madly in love with is the one you love most, and will be the very last woman in your life? o_O
Man: Yes.
Buddha: Then initiate a break up so you can be with the new lady!
Man: But my current girlfriend is gentle, kind, virtuous. If I initiate a break up, wouldn't it be quite cruel and unethical?
Buddha: In marriage and love, it will only be cruel and unethical if there is no love. You're now in love with another lady and no longer your girlfriend, and a break up is the right thing to do.
Man: But my girlfriend loves me very much, she really loves me very much.
Buddha: Then she is fortunate.
Man: I'm going to leave her for another woman, and this should cause her to be in misery. How can she be fortunate?
Buddha: Because she still possesses the love she has for you, whereas you have lost the love you have for her, because you have fallen for someone new. Accurately speaking, it is a blessing to possess and a misfortune to lose possession, therefore the one in misery is you.
Man: But I'm leaving her for another woman, she should be the one who has lost me and thus feel miserable.
Buddha: You're wrong. You're only an entity in her love life. When you, the entity, no longer exists, her true love will continue on to another entity. Because in her love life, she has never lost true love, therefore she is the one who should be blessed and you the one in pain.
Man: She said she would love only me all her life and not a second man.
Buddha: Have you not said something similar before?
Man: I... I... I...
Buddha: Look at the three candles in the urn before you, the one that shines most brightly.
Man: I don't know, they're all equally bright.
Buddha: These three candles can be likened to three women. One of them is the woman you have fallen for. There are so many humans in existence, and there are more than hundreds of thousands of women. You can't even tell which is the brightest or point out which is the woman you love now, yet why are you so sure the one you love now is that woman, and even more so, how can you be so sure she will be the last woman in your life?
Man: I... I... I...
Buddha: Now put one candle close to you, and look closely which of the three candles are the brightest.
Man: Of course it's the one right in front of me.
Buddha: Now put it back to where it was, and then look again and tell me which is the brightest.
Man: I really cannot tell which is the brighest.
Buddha: Actually, the candle you brought before you is like the woman whom you have fallen for. Love stems from the heart. While you love her, you feel that she is the brightest candle. When you put the candle back to where it was, once again you could not tell which was the brightest candle. This type of love is only a kind of greed that blinds you and looks beautiful and perfect on the surface, but in the end it's only an empty dream.
Man: Oh! Now I know. You didn't really want me to leave my girlfriend, you merely wanted to enlighten me.
Buddha: I won't tell you if you've seen through me. Now, go.
Man: Now I really know who I love - she is my girlfriend.
Buddha: Amituofo, amituofo, amituofo. When one is alive, one can hardly avoid love. May all lovers in the world cherish the one beside them, steer clear of greed and illusions and create happiness with their special one.
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