30+ years old ... izzit too late to find a gf ???
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neber into any relationship b4 ... izzit too late ???
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its never too late.
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but those gers that suits my ages either married or attached .... and younger gers wun be interested ....
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u could be wrong. some like older men.Originally posted by maxyeo:younger gers wun be interested .... -
some ? I think very rare .....
I'm over mid 30s ..... -
maybe u just havent met the right one.
but if you are really eagar to have a gf, try SDS or SDU.
they have good success rate on matching couples. -
sometimes I wonder the right one exist or not ........
SDU ??? need paper qualification ... I dun hv -
how abt SDS? www.sds.gov.sg
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some of my frens r members ..... till now still single ....
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u cant expect to strike for sure when you buy 4D for the first time.
try actively participate in their outings. if possible, reduce your requirements and you should be able to find someone suitable in no time. -
my requirement actually very simple ..... as long as can click ... easy going and down to earth ....
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Simple? The 'can click' part is difficult liao lor..Originally posted by maxyeo:my requirement actually very simple ..... as long as can click ... easy going and down to earth ....
Best advice: expand your social circle -
trying too ...... where do u think is the best place to expand social circle ??
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Just some suggestions, hope u find useful
pick up some hobbies and join in some group activities, like dancing (ball room dancing, etc)? Go to church (GREAT place to know many many girls)?
Join SDS (as mentioned above) Your frd cant get gf doesnt mean u cant ok? Many BGR started becoz of friends' intro, so u should make lots of friends (but i guess u have trouble achieving this huh?).
hmm... another thing is to try to understand how come til now u CANT find a gf? The source of your problem - isit becoz u are shy, anti-social, have some bad habits, hot-headed, dont know how to express urself, mix only wif guys, etc etc? Try to find out the problem, and if possible change yourself to be more 'attractive' (not only in looks) to girls.
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no it not to late...mayb u can join some outing clubs or wad? ask ur frenx recommand? or go in irc to chat & knw more frenxs?Originally posted by maxyeo:neber into any relationship b4 ... izzit too late ???
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30yrs too late? Don't worry, I just face a competitor who is 30yrs (born in 1972) is in love with a 20yrs mei-mei (born in 1981).
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Yes ... I'm shy ... dunno how to express myself ... most of my frens r guys ....... and my circles of frens very small ....Originally posted by User Name:Just some suggestions, hope u find useful
pick up some hobbies and join in some group activities, like dancing (ball room dancing, etc)? Go to church (GREAT place to know many many girls)? Join SDS (as mentioned above) Your frd cant get gf doesnt mean u cant ok? Many BGR started becoz of friends' intro, so u should make lots of friends (but i guess u have trouble achieving this huh?).
hmm... another thing is to try to understand how come til now u CANT find a gf? The source of your problem - isit becoz u are shy, anti-social, have some bad habits, hot-headed, dont know how to express urself, mix only wif guys, etc etc? Try to find out the problem, and if possible change yourself to be more 'attractive' (not only in looks) to girls.
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my circles of frens very limited .... I quit irc a year ago ....wasted too much time in irc ...Originally posted by Si|verGer:no it not to late...mayb u can join some outing clubs or wad? ask ur frenx recommand? or go in irc to chat & knw more frenxs? -
Gd luck man.... u are in deep shit! I be very frank with u from what u said, u are in serious trouble cause at ur age, u are already in trouble. u haven gotten into a relationship, so u dun know how to handle one(practiacl exp is alwaz better than theoretical), ppls by ur age should be at least getting ready to settle down with that steady one and u haven found one! not that i am laughin at u but u know u better take quick action if u wanna find one soon.Originally posted by maxyeo:neber into any relationship b4 ... izzit too late ???
like what the other pple said, find new social areas to expand your social circle. this is important too. A fisherman cannot alwaz put his net in the same place or keep casting same area, need to cast in the river, lake, ocean.. hope u get my meaning!
Read up alot of books on self-improvement, grooming, presentation... etc Concentrate on your career and education still. U need money since now u have less youth and looks. -
I know I'm in deep shit ..... 1 of my fren said he will remain single for the rest of his life if he's in my shoe ......Originally posted by MetalGear:Gd luck man.... u are in deep shit! I be very frank with u from what u said, u are in serious trouble cause at ur age, u are already in trouble. u haven gotten into a relationship, so u dun know how to handle one(practiacl exp is alwaz better than theoretical), ppls by ur age should be at least getting ready to settle down with that steady one and u haven found one! not that i am laughin at u but u know u better take quick action if u wanna find one soon.
like what the other pple said, find new social areas to expand your social circle. this is important too. A fisherman cannot alwaz put his net in the same place or keep casting same area, need to cast in the river, lake, ocean.. hope u get my meaning!
Read up alot of books on self-improvement, grooming, presentation... etc Concentrate on your career and education still. U need money since now u have less youth and looks. -
Emmm........ like tis cannot like dat oso cannot, i tink maybe u can consider foreigner loh....... indonesia girls not bad....my uncle married an indonesian girl not bad ....very innocent .....but u've gotta be careful oso lah......
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find older girls lor...y mus u tink of younger gers first neh?Originally posted by maxyeo:but those gers that suits my ages either married or attached .... and younger gers wun be interested .... -
older gers ??? older gers oredi ppl mother liao ....Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:find older girls lor...y mus u tink of younger gers first neh? -
Please lah.....i don't think there isn't any more older gers lor.....Originally posted by maxyeo:older gers ??? older gers oredi ppl mother liao ....
You just didn't look hard enough.............