Falling for a lesbian...
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dear AA frens....
my very close fren, R fell for a gal, L.. R didnt know that L was a lesbian and had a handful of butch frens...they went out together and 2-3 weeks later, R approach L to be his gf...
To R's horror, L rejected and say she was a lesbian and already have a "boyfren/galfren" (watever u call it la.. butch). R did not give up.. he wanted to bring L back to straight path again... 1 funny thing is that this gal L attitude keep changing to wards my fren R... on and off... 1 moment this and that moment that.. she wanted R to give her 2 mths so that she can sort out her r/s with her "boyfren" and at the same to see if they click well in these 2 mths..
2 mths haven even reach and L rejected R as she tot R was pushy and not understanding..(i must admit R is pushy). the reasons that she rejected R was...
1) no feelings ( no feeling u still let my R hold ur hands)
2) no chemistry (wat is chemistry? periodic table ah?)
3) i'm materialistic (most gals r... i no comment)
4) i like restaurant and u like kopitiam ( walao... i hate this rejection line haha... means my fren R is too poor for her. i think only her "boyfren" is able to support her right now)
5) u r childish, i want my bf to be matured ( R is not childish... wat he did is to make u happy...u want him to have attitude then?)
Aftermath...
now that my fren R have been totally rejected by L... so be it... r also had promised us that he will try his best to forget L( it seems that he cant)
wat should i and my frens do to make R forget L? R put in alot of feelings into it...yet no return...haiz.....
u pple need to help me leh... i dun want everyday get drunk by accompanying him wor hahha... Me and R.. both so suay... ai shang yi ge bu gai ai de ren....
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err.. what can i say. L just wanna be a lesbian again and come up with those lame break-up lines. R shouldnt be bothered by it.
he can soak himself with barrels of wine and that is no going to change to fact. Prove to her that her 5th break-up line is wrong and accept the truth.
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i think u guys are nuts if u like some creature which has the same body parts as u. i got something hanging betw my legs, why do i need to see the same thing in someone else... hohoho!!! vagina goes with penis. Crude and straight to the point. Not that i am bias against homos but well i ain't one of them, what can i say?
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I think you missed the point of the discussion....This guy likes a les....not a gay.
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Originally posted by greengoblin:I think you missed the point of the discussion....This guy likes a les....not a gay.
ya lor -
POINT 1....Originally posted by www:err.. what can i say. L just wanna be a lesbian again and come up with those lame break-up lines. R shouldnt be bothered by it.
he can soak himself with barrels of wine and that is no going to change to fact. Prove to her that her 5th break-up line is wrong and accept the truth. -
POINT 2.... Enough REASONS as ANSWERS to what your friend need for now.... He headed for a WALL, BANGED against it... And now he's asking for a bucket of alcohol to soak himself in...?Originally posted by MetalGear:Not that i am bias against homos but well i ain't one of them, what can i say?
My ADVICE? Ask him to CARRY ON... It's HIS LIFE... Doing so would only damage his onw health and condemn his own life, to the rest of the world it won't make much of a DIFFERENCE.... -
harsh... but true.Originally posted by Devil1976:POINT 2.... Enough REASONS as ANSWERS to what your friend need for now.... He headed for a WALL, BANGED against it... And now he's asking for a bucket of alcohol to soak himself in...?
My ADVICE? Ask him to CARRY ON... It's HIS LIFE... Doing so would only damage his onw health and condemn his own life, to the rest of the world it won't make much of a DIFFERENCE....
as if it's not bad enuff with gals who are str8....
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haiz... devil , wat u said is indeed very true...
but how to let him forget abt the misery the gal had left him?
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Ask him NOT to ACT PATHETIC cause he's NOT... He CHOSE a 'dead end' so just FACE IT.... Tell him the TRUTH... That as a FRIEND you would LIKE to help him... But IF he's not gonna do anything on his part, what you can do for him is as good as NOTHING.... Tell him you would like to stay by him forever (if that's what you think, if you think for the moment is better use it...) but time moves on... Tell him you've got to carry on with your life... Ask him if he would like to join you...?Originally posted by bigdeal:haiz... devil , wat u said is indeed very true...
but how to let him forget abt the misery the gal had left him?
~good luck?
If it doesn't work, don't be too sad about it... At least you've done your part as a friend... The rest is really up to him... -
bravo!
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yah lor... at least ur fren R has not started the relationship much yet... so its still easy to pull back and stand up strong again...
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chey tot u fall 4 lesbian... --> Si|verGer lolx
hmm i guess dat les dun wis to get push lor i mean if a guy is too pushy it kinda of turn off... hmm mayb she tin if ur frenxs reli like her he will b patient i mean if u r trying to woo a les u muz b super patient ler~~ can't push the gers...i guess wen u r pushy it will b a big turn off den she will giv alots of xcuses~!!
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getting drunk doesn't solve the problem, it's ok to remember, to be sad, but don't let your emotions dictate your life...learn to live with it, take it as a lesson learnt, or a memory gained...
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thats why i always tell my fren give her some time and put urself in her shoe... she was from an all gal sec sch and if she really break with her "boyfren", it would mean breaking herself away from her sec sch frens mah.. hahahaOriginally posted by Si|verGer:chey tot u fall 4 lesbian... --> Si|verGer lolx
hmm i guess dat les dun wis to get push lor i mean if a guy is too pushy it kinda of turn off... hmm mayb she tin if ur frenxs reli like her he will b patient i mean if u r trying to woo a les u muz b super patient ler~~ can't push the gers...i guess wen u r pushy it will b a big turn off den she will giv alots of xcuses~!!
anyway, i fall for someone worse than a les!
i fall for a guy u know
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i think my fren has already go back to himself... the chee hong self
cannot stand him sometimes hahaha -
suay... choose other gals lar... waste time on a les...
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now that the gal L tell my fren that she had not been talking to her "boyfren" for the past 1 week... so she come bother my fren R again
this kinda gals very flirt hor... they dun wanna be left lonely... is it that they just wanna seek fun? -
love itself is neutralOriginally posted by MetalGear:i think u guys are nuts if u like some creature which has the same body parts as u. i got something hanging betw my legs, why do i need to see the same thing in someone else... hohoho!!! vagina goes with penis. Crude and straight to the point. Not that i am bias against homos but well i ain't one of them, what can i say?
the sexes of the lovers are not
gays n les, are juz like normal guys n gals
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so wad i fall 4 les b4 too coz they reli nice to gers... better den guys~ *no offence*Originally posted by bigdeal:thats why i always tell my fren give her some time and put urself in her shoe... she was from an all gal sec sch and if she really break with her "boyfren", it would mean breaking herself away from her sec sch frens mah.. hahaha
anyway, i fall for someone worse than a les!
i fall for a guy u know -
li shuo dang ranOriginally posted by Si|verGer:so wad i fall 4 les b4 too coz they reli nice to gers... better den guys~ *no offence* -
Yeah... In a sense? Perhaps you've just not met with the correct guy then...?Originally posted by Si|verGer:so wad i fall 4 les b4 too coz they reli nice to gers... better den guys~ *no offence* I also know many 'lesbians' who gave up on their relationship(s) after realising that though the other can be REAL NICE, CARING and UNDERSTANDING to them... Some of them also have a tendency to be quite unreasonable and DEMANDING.... -
lesbians and gays ....
= no future leh -
u mean watOriginally posted by bigdeal:lesbians and gays ....
= no future leh
no babies???
aiya, they juz nit to go n do abit of xchange
then ask doc mix here n there can liao mah
rem JUNIOR the movie -
Heard that a pair of gays in US just got a child... Some tampering with the DNA and the help of a surrogate mother... ... Sheesh... Wat is this world coming to... ...