Time to reflect

• Tan Ah Teck

  30 May 07, 18:37

  Originally posted by binarynwitz:

  I don't know whether to help you, or laugh, while I was reading this thread.
  
  Seriously. >_>
  
  The best way of anger management, is to act on the anger.
  
  But, use a target that wouldn't sue you. Like your pillow.
  
  

  Sometimes I carry weights or go for a jog. If you feel like laughing so go ahead and laugh. Laughter is good for health. v And as for suing me, what I say, there is not the first time i kena sued anyway.
  
  I think there is someone here with a nick call pillow right, can I bash him?
  
• Tan Ah Teck

  30 May 07, 20:59

  Time to Reflect
  
  It has been an interesting process and I have learnt much about myself and some of the people here in sgforums. A new moderator will be appointed soon in AA and with that, open a new chapter in the history of sgforums. When the flaming started a few months ago I created “Tan Ah Teck” to voice my displease. I decided to play the role of a clown and inevitably appear as a nutcase for some. Frankly I don’t care and I never regret doing so until yesterday when I snapped. It came as a shock to me too for this was never part of my plan.
  
  I love sgforums, sorry to mentioned you FireIce, but you knows why I love this forum so much. It was an ideal place for me to start afresh and IÂ’ve put in much effort here. It really saddens me to see one of the main sub-forums going down the drain as results of the actions of a few people.
  
  However with the coming of the new moderator, I no longer serve any useful purpose here. It is actually quite easy to play the clown thanks to this , just add it to the end of a sentence.
  
  But before I leave I wish to address a few persons, so please bear with me.
  
  1) Vk, thanks for the pm exchange. I am surprise we do share some things in common after all. Sorry I will not be having coffee with you as “Tan Ah Teck”? But maybe as my original nick? We shall see.
  
  2) D and Q. I am not going to ask you guys to move on because it is easier said than done. Just like anger management, I thought I had graduated; well apparently I am still at Primary 1. Ladi is right, take a deep breath, hold your tongue and thoughts for 10 minutes. I donÂ’t think you two will ever be friends. So letÂ’s keep it this way. We each have our life to live. And Q, if you need a counselor feel free to pm me, I know a very good social worker from Fei Yue.
  
  3) Neko Rin and rainee, all the best to you two. Getting married soon?
  
  4) To Ladi and Space1999, thanks for posting in this thread in order to irritate me. I am not trying to be sarcastic but IÂ’ve learnt so much about myself from the two of you. Space good luck in your business, hope it prospers and Ladi, vk ask me to apologize to you but I refused, you know why? Maybe you are not interested to know and you donÂ’t give a damn but I still have to tell you, personal attack is acceptable but involving family members is not.
  
  You guys might think me as a hypocrite or a coward but it is absolutely fine with me. You see it is very difficult to control what other thinks and we are talking about an online forum here. But to be fair Ladi, I do regret calling you a bitch not because I am afraid that you might report me to the police. In fact you donÂ’t have a case against me. The reason is I have not met you in-person and it is really unfair to judge a personÂ’s character online. Who know you may be a nice person in real life. Besides, I know you will not be interested to meet a low-lifer like me anyway. Well God bless both of you.
  
  5) And lastly to all the good people out there, God bless all of you! You are not insignificant; you are part of the sgforums family. And of course God bless sgforums too.
  
  So can the new moderator of AA kindly lock this thread? I don’t want this to be another senseless battleground. Maybe Jason can help if he happens to be here tonight. With this, I end my stay as ‘Tan Ah Teck”. Borrowing Andrew's line, Tan Ah Teck doesn't exist.
  
  My name is Tan Ah Teck and I am an honest man.
  
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  I am surprise to receive quite a few pms regarding my identify and 2-3 calling me a coward for kow towing to Space, Ladi, etc. Very interesting.
  
  Let me briefly reply them,
  
  1) Without the acknowledge from its original creator, “Tan Ah Teck” is just a few letters on the screen. Thanks for showing an interest in me, but let’s keep it this way.
  
  2) As far as I am concerned, there are not permanent enemies and we are talking about an online forum here. Look at Japan and US. But the main reason is I snapped. When you find that you are unable to control your emotions, it is time to back down. Besides, we have fun right Space? As for my position it has never been changed, my only concern is sgforums.
  
  Who knows, I might be back one day? Oh, another thing, donÂ’t believe in everything youÂ’ve read. ThatÂ’s what so interesting about this forum.
  
  Take care and God bless.
  
  (binarynwitz, God bless you too.)
  
• rainee

  30 May 07, 21:30

  
  
  read my PM
• Space1999

  30 May 07, 22:12

  Originally posted by Tan Ah Teck:

  If you want to know it is very easy. Meet me on a one-to-one basis.

  i miss all the action , first of all , i wish you luck in finding your peace of mind, martial arts is always the best way to channel your energy and if your instructor tell you that you are too aggresive to teach , thats means he is a shitty and lousy instructor
  
  no real martial art instructor will tell you that, i know for sure
  for starters choose a martial art that will help temper your soul and give you inner peace
  akido for one is good and if you find that not good enough , go for competitive ones like
  
  muay thai,
  kickboxing
  taekwon do
  karate
  
  in fact the more agressive you are , the better the instructor will like you , its easier instrument to temper and mould.
  
  because in martial arts aggresiveness cannot beat techniques that are honed for years, and if you preserve in it, you will become somebody with more self control mentally and physically
  
  for example chopping bricks , is it brute force? no , its techniques plus the concentration of mental power, once you master it believe it or not chopping brick is just like cutting butter with your hand
  
  chose an old instructor dont choose those young and fiery ones, watch karate kid, its a martial arts enthusiast favorite movie .
  
  you may think streetfighting has make you tough, yes maybe but if you face a true martial artist you will be downed in matter of seconds, because they trained for that, a real martial art fight end in less than 10 seconds not like a jacky chan movie.
  
  a true martial artist who had trained for years can actually kill somebody with his bare fist or leg within seconds. for example a blow to the bridge of your nose can break it and drive a sharpnel to your brain ending your life instantaneously?
  
  but martial artist train to temper their spirit and body and part of the tenets is to bring justice to the world and to protect those who are unable to protect themselves
  
  enrol in those school who still practice this tenets. Im sorry we quarrelled in the past but i believe truly by following this path you can really find true happiness in your soul but if you do join please buy a groin guard, (you will find out why in the future why i tell you do this)
  
  and for heaven sake don t join taichi, take you years and you will be bored very fast..
  
  any question please pm i will be more than happy to help you on your journey
  
  and i need to answer this
  
  despite how tough you think you are , there are always tougher ppl there, the only difference is your speed and your techniques and the last part , the ruthlessness.
  
  and even now i m sure i can take you on in a sparring match , streets or the ring.
  
  but lets do it in the ring, then we can have a cup of coffee later to discuss techniques rather than both of us going to police station.
  
  cheers
  
  remember
  
  Bruce lee was not born ready to fight, he trained endless hours to reach where he was, even though he died.
  
  
• binarynwitz

  30 May 07, 22:20

  ..
  
  Honest man, why didn't you mention me?
  
  I don't like you, you're a bad man.
  
  
  
  
• Space1999

  30 May 07, 22:24

  Originally posted by binarynwitz:

  ..
  
  Honest man, why didn't you mention me?
  
  I don't like you, you're a bad man.
  
  
  
  

  you got cool nick , how about that?
• binarynwitz

  30 May 07, 23:13

  Sorry.
  
  I wasn't talking to you.
• Space1999

  30 May 07, 23:22

  Originally posted by binarynwitz:

  Sorry.
  
  I wasn't talking to you.

  well ,point noted.
• yihao93

  30 May 07, 23:41

  meme!
  give me ur msn or frenster XD
  u r honest and interesting
• viciouskitty74

  30 May 07, 23:58

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  
  
  What alot of people are missing out actually... It's not just me. It's also Jason and McSquare.... Just that I piss you off more?

  Ok.....so your point about keeping the AA forum which is mismanaged?