y gers r blind when in love? y? y?
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i have an ex, we used to maintain relationship as a friend after we break off. Then suddenly she msg me and told me I said she is a lier and nw she don't want to be friend with me anymore.
I was puzzled, i think it's her current bf trying to frame me. Coz maybe my ex still can't get over me then he is trying to make her hate me. I was damn sad and angry when I rev the msg. I msg her back saying I am innocent and trying to explain but she just didn't reply back.
I called her but she hang my phone. Tell me, Y she can't listen to my explaination. Y she only believe that guy, I can't even reach her explain. Is this what people call Love is blind?
Please tell me what may be the reason. -
hmm... if i stand in your shoes, of coz i will be sad and angry...Originally posted by Super4:i have an ex, we used to maintain relationship as a friend after we break off. Then suddenly she msg me and told me I said she is a lier and nw she don't want to be friend with me anymore.
I was puzzled, i think it's her current bf trying to frame me. Coz maybe my ex still can't get over me then he is trying to make her hate me. I was damn sad and angry when I rev the msg. I msg her back saying I am innocent and trying to explain but she just didn't reply back.
I called her but she hang my phone. Tell me, Y she can't listen to my explaination. Y she only believe that guy, I can't even reach her explain. Is this what people call Love is blind?
Please tell me what may be the reason.
and if i stand in her current bf's shoes, i would also hate all her ex, and try to make her hate all of them....
perhaps this is called "selfishness". Love is selfish... and easily one partner will get jeolous of her/his ex.... Its all a human nature, just forget about her, carry on with your life...
I always believe, when u love someone, after when both are broken up, the love will eventually become hate.... hate is the only way to forget each other... -
I think so too...but I damn look down on that guy man! He want to chase her heart chase like a gentleman lar, y use this kind of xia san lan zhao. Then now I also pity my ex, give her a chance to understand what that guy personality is, but she chose to ignore.Originally posted by TZR:and if i stand in her current bf's shoes, i would also hate all her ex, and try to make her hate all of them....
And I understand that guy always sweet tok, always said words that please her. Tamade! He like that not helping her man...it's harming her...like that she will never know the real world..always be a little ger. -
agree ... hmm but dat the way it works...Originally posted by TZR:hmm... if i stand in your shoes, of coz i will be sad and angry...
and if i stand in her current bf's shoes, i would also hate all her ex, and try to make her hate all of them....
perhaps this is called "selfishness". Love is selfish... and easily one partner will get jeolous of her/his ex.... Its all a human nature, just forget about her, carry on with your life...
I always believe, when u love someone, after when both are broken up, the love will eventually become hate.... hate is the only way to forget each other...
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mayb u try to write her a letter lor...& xplain coz dat no way she can refuse it & i sure she will read it & she will knw wad u trying to xplain ... gd luckOriginally posted by Super4:I think so too...but I damn look down on that guy man! He want to chase her heart chase like a gentleman lar, y use this kind of xia san lan zhao. Then now I also pity my ex, give her a chance to understand what that guy personality is, but she chose to ignore.
And I understand that guy always sweet tok, always said words that please her. Tamade! He like that not helping her man...it's harming her...like that she will never know the real world..always be a little ger.
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Welcome to the dog-eat-dog world...
It pay to learn in this cruel world...
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i guess so..during the time where u 2 were together, dun she everyting oso listen to u only meh.=pOriginally posted by Super4:i have an ex, we used to maintain relationship as a friend after we break off. Then suddenly she msg me and told me I said she is a lier and nw she don't want to be friend with me anymore.
I was puzzled, i think it's her current bf trying to frame me. Coz maybe my ex still can't get over me then he is trying to make her hate me. I was damn sad and angry when I rev the msg. I msg her back saying I am innocent and trying to explain but she just didn't reply back.
I called her but she hang my phone. Tell me, Y she can't listen to my explaination. Y she only believe that guy, I can't even reach her explain. Is this what people call Love is blind?
Please tell me what may be the reason.
Givache -
Now watever i said is a lie, now watever I said to her is devil and that guy is angel trust me. I sms and email a lot already. She just treat everything negative. No point writing, it will make her more proud man. When i was with her, where got say her ex not gd...wah lau...chase also must be fair mar.Originally posted by Si|verGer:mayb u try to write her a letter lor...& xplain coz dat no way she can refuse it & i sure she will read it & she will knw wad u trying to xplain ... gd luck -
maybe someone can fix up her brain 1st?!?!
sorry if i've offended u
if she's blind when with u...how?...hee..u know the answer
since it's over....let it be over...
if her current bf can poison her mind abt u...isnt tt clear?
dun bother....be a gentleman & not do the same.....wait when this current bcums ex...hee...move in & say, 'see...i told u already...im innocent.' U'll be the winner but wat's the pt?
hey!move on lah.... -
Hmm....why not u just forget abt the whole thing? Since she doesnt want to contact u anymore...isnt it silly of u to "bang ur head aganist the wall"? No matter wat u do, i think she'll still raher believe he present bf than u. Just let her think wat she wants loh...u cant control wat she wants to believe mah. As long as ur conscience is clear...then all is fine loh. Why make urself miserable over her? If she doesnt want to remain frens with u, u cant force her wat....her lost loh.
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u like to write letter alot hor...i wrote a letter to my bf ler...but havnt got a chance to pass to him...anyway...i nv write a letter to any of my bfs...or rather ex b4...he is the 1st one...hehe
Originally posted by Si|verGer:mayb u try to write her a letter lor...& xplain coz dat no way she can refuse it & i sure she will read it & she will knw wad u trying to xplain ... gd luck -
i look down on dat guy lor...but dat's how a new relationship goes...when u 2 togther...she oso listen to u oni mah...Originally posted by Super4:i have an ex, we used to maintain relationship as a friend after we break off. Then suddenly she msg me and told me I said she is a lier and nw she don't want to be friend with me anymore.
I was puzzled, i think it's her current bf trying to frame me. Coz maybe my ex still can't get over me then he is trying to make her hate me. I was damn sad and angry when I rev the msg. I msg her back saying I am innocent and trying to explain but she just didn't reply back.
I called her but she hang my phone. Tell me, Y she can't listen to my explaination. Y she only believe that guy, I can't even reach her explain. Is this what people call Love is blind?
Please tell me what may be the reason. -
Since she refused to heed ur advice, let her b.
Btw, she's ur EX for a reason lor.
No nid get so angry. -
bravo!Originally posted by TZR:hmm... if i stand in your shoes, of coz i will be sad and angry...
and if i stand in her current bf's shoes, i would also hate all her ex, and try to make her hate all of them....
perhaps this is called "selfishness". Love is selfish... and easily one partner will get jeolous of her/his ex.... Its all a human nature, just forget about her, carry on with your life...
I always believe, when u love someone, after when both are broken up, the love will eventually become hate.... hate is the only way to forget each other...
so true... yin ai chen heng
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well in the letter u could include tis tis is my last time writing to xplain tis tin lor i m v sincere in it but it u who always dun seem to want to listen to it...tis is hw i feel & the truth..u wana believe ant it up to u but after tis letter if u choose to ignore it den well v sadly i guess u not even puting any effort in our frenship den if dat ur wis well i wum bother u anymore...Originally posted by Super4:Now watever i said is a lie, now watever I said to her is devil and that guy is angel trust me. I sms and email a lot already. She just treat everything negative. No point writing, it will make her more proud man. When i was with her, where got say her ex not gd...wah lau...chase also must be fair mar.
i tin if u write like tis u can find out if she still care abt tis frenxship ant if she not no point putting so muc effort rite? dat my point of view... -
dun hv to giv in person mah, can post 1 mah i tin write letter is better coz by tis way u reli xpressed ur thoughts lor...Originally posted by aHGer^83:u like to write letter alot hor...i wrote a letter to my bf ler...but havnt got a chance to pass to him...anyway...i nv write a letter to any of my bfs...or rather ex b4...he is the 1st one...hehe 
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yeah totally agree..Originally posted by Super4:I think so too...but I damn look down on that guy man! He want to chase her heart chase like a gentleman lar, y use this kind of xia san lan zhao. Then now I also pity my ex, give her a chance to understand what that guy personality is, but she chose to ignore.
And I understand that guy always sweet tok, always said words that please her. Tamade! He like that not helping her man...it's harming her...like that she will never know the real world..always be a little ger.
competition makes the world go round -
i no hab his addy wor...Originally posted by Si|verGer:dun hv to giv in person mah, can post 1 mah i tin write letter is better coz by tis way u reli xpressed ur thoughts lor...
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sad and angry i'm with u... but not about the part where i will make my gf hate her exes...Originally posted by TZR:hmm... if i stand in your shoes, of coz i will be sad and angry...
and if i stand in her current bf's shoes, i would also hate all her ex, and try to make her hate all of them....
perhaps this is called "selfishness". Love is selfish... and easily one partner will get jeolous of her/his ex.... Its all a human nature, just forget about her, carry on with your life...
I always believe, when u love someone, after when both are broken up, the love will eventually become hate.... hate is the only way to forget each other...
firstly, if she finds out that i did that, she'd also hate me! that risk is too high for me to bet, and cmon.. think about it, wat sort of human are u to hate someone, and trying to get someone else to hate the person too.
another thing about exes, is that they are part of someone's past. i believe the past is an education. who i am today is becos of my past. if a gal falls in love with me right now, she's falling in love with me, a person that is who i am becos of wat i went thru in the past. if my past were different, parts (of course not all) of my personality, views, opinions, principles, would be different and she might not fall for me anymore.
so (for a guy) your gf's ex shouldn't be a threat or someone u hate. yes i'm sure some of u may come across trying experiences with a gal becos of her ex (eg. she may not want to trust u becos of wat her ex did to her b4). if u are a better man, she will see it, and patience and communication helps. on the other hand, if she allows herself to succumb to the negative implications of past memories, rather than learning from them and be armed with the experience to carve a path for a better tomorrow, then she may not be the type of gal you're looking for. definitely not the type i'm looking for i'll give u that! -
try to find out lor tru his frenxs or wad lor.. hmmOriginally posted by aHGer^83:i no hab his addy wor...