Falling for a sister
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Of course not my blood sister, but a sister that I have been able to related to lately. I revealed my feelings for her last night and she said, "I feel slightly for you too, but don't know what it really is". She is basically a very decent and sweet girl and I sure don't want to hurt her in anyway. I have not been dating or going out with anyone for the past one year, and I think I have lost touch with how I should handle her now. I am a bit lost.
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wah...heng ah..
i tot u fell for your blood sister...
aiyah..if shes not related to u by blood then ok lor
GO FOR IT!
follow your heart!
good luck
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dun tink u r hurtin her by fallin in love w her... since she's sum1 tt u r "able to related to lately." den y nt..
argee w prodigy.. juz follow ur heart..
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...... ~Sigh...~ I'm AFRAID of hurting EVERYONE.... But if I'm SIMPLY AFRAID... Then what is LOVE....? And if there ain't LOVE.... WHAT...? AM I AFRAID OF...?Originally posted by VOneR:Of course not my blood sister, but a sister that I have been able to related to lately. I revealed my feelings for her last night and she said, "I feel slightly for you too, but don't know what it really is". She is basically a very decent and sweet girl and I sure don't want to hurt her in anyway. I have not been dating or going out with anyone for the past one year, and I think I have lost touch with how I should handle her now. I am a bit lost.
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Who will fall for his own blood sister?! like me and my brother alwaz fight one!Originally posted by Prodigy:wah...heng ah..
i tot u fell for your blood sister...
aiyah..if shes not related to u by blood then ok lor
GO FOR IT!
follow your heart!
good luck
But since she's not related to u then y not?like you had said,she oso felt something for u.In my opinion lah,i think she likes you but dun dare to say it directly,thus she said dat she felt something for u but duno wat it is.
Girls are like dat one lah!they dun usually speak their mind,they'll do it in a indrect way hoping dat the other party will get it.I'm a ger too!!
If u dun try how u noe if can work out or not?Juz go for it!
U have my support!!
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haahaa
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but theres 1 thing i dun understand
why in the world ppl want god sisters and god brothers????
as if at home got brother sister not enough like tat...
somemore the god brother/sister ...not 'official' one..
means tat both parties parents dunno about the matter...
if say...at birth...your relatives or someone close to your parents want u as their godson/daughter sister/brother..
tat..its ok..
but ..self proclaim brothers and sisters???
WTF?!
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I particularly like what ApplePie had said on this, cos she is a gal herself giving me the go ahead move.
"Sister" messaged me to join her for lecture (thought I don't have to be there) yesterday and told me that she love me being around. We spent the evening in lecture halls and before I left, she gave me a sweet look I never seen before.
I further told her last night about the look, she didn't say much. I am just wondering if she can handle me really asking her "out"... err... to go out with me. What do you think? -
chase gals tip no.1, better make sure she is really comfortable with you and close enuff b4 u ask her out,
eh actually u made one small mistake, y did u accept being her "bro" in the first place? -
Originally posted by ah_tee:
She is 4 years my junior... and I didn't think much at that time.
eh actually u made one small mistake, y did u accept being her "bro" in the first place? -
I THINK you're a DUMB ASS... WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR...?? ANOTHER ECLIPSE to COME..??!Originally posted by VOneR:I particularly like what ApplePie had said on this, cos she is a gal herself giving me the go ahead move.
"Sister" messaged me to join her for lecture (thought I don't have to be there) yesterday and told me that she love me being around. We spent the evening in lecture halls and before I left, she gave me a sweet look I never seen before.
I further told her last night about the look, she didn't say much. I am just wondering if she can handle me really asking her "out"... err... to go out with me. What do you think? -
With brothers and sister status, you have slightly more responsible than a friend to take care of the person. It means that you're closer to the person too. Anyway, sometimes, some people like myself are deprived of blood-sisters, so look for other ways to find lorz.. nothing wrong with it... most meiz just love some doting from an elder brother...
------------------Originally posted by Prodigy:but theres 1 thing i dun understand
why in the world ppl want god sisters and god brothers????
as if at home got brother sister not enough like tat...
somemore the god brother/sister ...not 'official' one..
means tat both parties parents dunno about the matter...
if say...at birth...your relatives or someone close to your parents want u as their godson/daughter sister/brother..
tat..its ok..
but ..self proclaim brothers and sisters???
WTF?!
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oic...Originally posted by Bear:With brothers and sister status, you have slightly more responsible than a friend to take care of the person. It means that you're closer to the person too. Anyway, sometimes, some people like myself are deprived of blood-sisters, so look for other ways to find lorz.. nothing wrong with it... most meiz just love some doting from an elder brother...
hehehe sorry but i dunno about such thingies
no have any god bro or sis...
i tink my brother at home is enough to kill me
lol
thanxs for enlightening me though
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Should try having one.... most of the time they are different.. ehehhe~ no harm mahz.. just one more close friend only...
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hehehe sorry but i dunno about such thingies
no have any god bro or sis...
i tink my brother at home is enough to kill me
lol
thanxs for enlightening me though
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Voner!
Heckcarelar! Go after her first, if she rejects you then fall in love with another sister lor.... :p -
reminds me of my schooldays of my once-very close group of friends. (4 gals & 4 guys in total) 2 guys fell for one of the gal & both being too shy to 'chase' after her, they use these brother-sister addressing excuse so to get closer to the girl. these 2 guys was specially concerned more for this gal in every of our outings trying to get her attention & such... well,the gal just treat them as brothers only cos she does not want any BGR to affect her studies.
oh well.......
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Well, luv is like that, u cn't stop it when it comes and there's no age gap between a couple, u luv her for she is and it juz overwrites everything, wish both of u happiness...Originally posted by VOneR:She is 4 years my junior... and I didn't think much at that time.
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
Voner, whatever you're planning to do about it, good luck! just some caveats to bear in mind:Originally posted by VOneR:She is 4 years my junior... and I didn't think much at that time.
take it slow, don't try to rush and stuff. are you very sure you like her in that sense? or could it be just this closeness that you share? i've had some close "sisters" before, and really did ask myself whether i have feelings for them in that sense. most of the time, it's really just this loneliness and closeness you feel for her that tells you you like her. well, i really shouldn't comment too much, because i don't know what your situation is. just think about it okay?
whatever happens, bear in mind that you two have a great friendship, from what you've said. so no matter what, preserve it, and not let things sour. a long lasting relationship is based on a good friendship, and understanding between 2 people that you'll get in a wonderful friendship. no matter what happens, don't lose that friendship. it's a very sad thing to happen.
and if you're sure you like her, then go for it. but don't be pushy or something. don't play guessing games and stuff. just be honest with her. ask her out for a nice talk, and you can tell her about it. if she tells you that it's not what you're thinking, just take it well, and who knows, you can build upon it. good luck man! hope i made sense. -
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