can sum1 help?
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hi... hope there's ppl here who can help me. i'll not mention names of ppl involved n the company name as i dunno whether izzit rite for me to do so...
i got to know a distributor for a local mlm company in jan this yr. she intro her company to me but i didn't join due to personal reasons.
in feb b4 cny, she looked for me n asked me to help her by buying the products so can push her sales n help her reach her manager position. i kept refusing but after much persitent talking, i relunctantly agreed to lend her money so she can buy some products n push up her sales 1st. she promised to return me by after cny, claiming she will get her pay n also angbao money.
end of feb, she returned me only a quarter of it, saying she not enuff n will settle by march... bo bian i agreed.
end of march same thing happened n i LL agreed again. both months i had to ask her to return, unlike wat she promised b4 i lend her, ' i confirm will return the whole sum to u b4 end of feb n will auto look for u.' craps...
early april, she came out stunt. called n sms her but no reply. after few days she finally replied me, saying she didn't reply coz she involved in accident n will settle everything by may. wat could i say...
in mid of may i sms her again to ask her when she can return the money... she said she can only return another quarter since accident, not much sales due to recovery. she told me by last day of may... i agreed for one last time...
now june liao... called her sms her but no reply. i dunno whether to go down to the company to look for her coz seems very disadvantage to me. i noe i stupid to lend for in the 1st place but now i juz wan to get my money back. she still owns me half of the total debt.
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too bad for ur plight
but as always the case, if u lend ppl money, then be mentally prepared it will not come back
if it does, it's a bonus, and have u a fren to keep -
ya... didn't think so much at the point of time. if i could i always help ppl... but think it's more like a weakness tat ppl look as
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Honestly, go down to the company and look for her. It might even be a scam and she might not even be from the cursed company.
Worst case scenario, forget 'bout the money and learn a lesson. -
she's from the company. when she intro me i was in the company office[/quote]
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haih...power of sex
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brave to lend her money though.
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paster her til she returns all...
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Look at it this way, its not as if she didn't return u ANY money. True, she may be dragging her feet at returning the entire sum to u, and also, seems to have too many excuses when returning the money, but give her the benefit of the doubt.
I would prefer to look at the brighter side of things(i.e she will return the money), than to doubt her, go up to her office and make a scene, and possibly embarass her so much that she will DEFINITELY avoid you and then ur money also gone. -
really doubt u'll ever get it back. try not to think about it if ur not financially stircken urself. who knows, maybe one day she might return it when u least expect it, good luck
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Everything happens for a reason. Whether or not you get back your money, take this as a lesson learnt.
When you loaned her the cash, did you make her sign an IOU or whatsoever? -
Those who need to borrow $$$ mean they dont have $$$. How would you expect them to return?
I only lend if the sum is small enough for me to write off from day 1. If got return, good. Else.... just forget it. -
How much did u lend her??
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lend a person $$ to push up sales?? Dude.. u gotta learnt ur lesson. MLM v hard hard to survive by doing retailing...
and i do know its really frustrating to get a person to put up... Damn...i got $1000plus + $100 + $100 ++++ bad debts... one of which even say bcoz he need to pay $1oo for hospial bill... $100 to see thru a person... Damn cheapo. sighz....
Do PM me what company is that. maybe i can help. -
wtf .. it sounds like a fren i know from jc .. since graduation ..he join some mlm company .. borrowed $ from me to push his sales .. promised returns immediately next mth.. but mth runs into yrs .. the last time i asked from him he said his dad gt an accident .. -.- so i gave him grace again .. but nv once he automatically come find me to return $$ .. wat a farker
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i lend her 800. where will sign IOU sia... lesson learnt in a hard way
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All in all i have incurred around $6,500 worth of bad debts...
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I wont help by paying yr friend's debt .:p
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no black and white
nothing to prove at all = gone case -
Must be E******
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Never lend a MLM friend to push his/her own sales.
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I see....Originally posted by wandering85:hi... hope there's ppl here who can help me. i'll not mention names of ppl involved n the company name as i dunno whether izzit rite for me to do so...
i got to know a distributor for a local mlm company in jan this yr. she intro her company to me but i didn't join due to personal reasons.
in feb b4 cny, she looked for me n asked me to help her by buying the products so can push her sales n help her reach her manager position. i kept refusing but after much persitent talking, i relunctantly agreed to lend her money so she can buy some products n push up her sales 1st. she promised to return me by after cny, claiming she will get her pay n also angbao money.
end of feb, she returned me only a quarter of it, saying she not enuff n will settle by march... bo bian i agreed.
end of march same thing happened n i LL agreed again. both months i had to ask her to return, unlike wat she promised b4 i lend her, ' i confirm will return the whole sum to u b4 end of feb n will auto look for u.' craps...
early april, she came out stunt. called n sms her but no reply. after few days she finally replied me, saying she didn't reply coz she involved in accident n will settle everything by may. wat could i say...
in mid of may i sms her again to ask her when she can return the money... she said she can only return another quarter since accident, not much sales due to recovery. she told me by last day of may... i agreed for one last time...
now june liao... called her sms her but no reply. i dunno whether to go down to the company to look for her coz seems very disadvantage to me. i noe i stupid to lend for in the 1st place but now i juz wan to get my money back. she still owns me half of the total debt.
i really hoped tat some1 can advise n help me...
The way to be a Manager in MLM companies..wah...... -
$800..hmmmnot really a big amt but its still hard earn $$ anyway... sighz.Originally posted by wandering85:i lend her 800. where will sign IOU sia... lesson learnt in a hard way
But does ur fren stil MIA now?
How abt gg to her house?? Pay a friendly visit lar...i m oso thinking to pay a visit to my "fren"..but be sure not to vandalise lar..talk coolly lor.. with the parents or something.