I need serious help~
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On April this year, my period came at the 2nd. On May, it came on the 2nd too. Its now 5th June and my period has not yet come. I'm now going Eighteen and had regular sex with my boyfriend. I counted the longest period was 40days, it's now the 35th day. My boyfriend and I is not ready to have baby and get married. Althought it could be late period, but I'm kind of worried. My parents don't know about my one year plus relationship with this guy, but his parents knows. My parents are of the older generation and might not accept this. I'm so so worried about it. Help?!
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ever heard of morning-after pills or any other types of contraception?
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Is it protected sex or unprotected sex?
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And you're posting here because.... ?
Oh. You want us to pray for you to not get pregnant.
Will do, will do. When I get a religion, that is.
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If you and your boyfriend have regular sexual intercourse, I hope your boyfriend uses condom.
If not, then I guess you really should pray. -
another typical case of first have fun then after that start to worry
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Its unprotected sex. If I really got pregnant, how should I tell my parents? Should I go for abortion? I can't afford.
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x2Originally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:another typical case of first have fun then after that start to worry
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i'll take the rap for your bf
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Then you should start praying now! Wait for another week, then buy two test-kit (in case one fails).Originally posted by sgGirlx:Its unprotected sex. If I really got pregnant, how should I tell my parents? Should I go for abortion? I can't afford.
There are many risk when come to abortion. -
1) find illegal doc - abort - then can have sex all you like again
2) tell parents - get married - give birth - be tai tai
3) tell parents - dont married - give birth - be single mother
4) tell parents - dont married - abort - then can have sex all you like again
choose one -
I think you should discuss this with your irresponsible BF. If he doesn't want the baby he should have jolly well practised protected sex! Not trying to flame you here, but as young adults, you must learn to face the consequences of your actions.
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How do you want us to help?
Adopt the baby into the SgF family?
Rather than worry about the unknown, why dun you try taking the DIY pregnancy test first? Too many indeterminate things is bad.
Once this has been determined, then we'll evaluate the whole stuff mah.....
Steady pom pee pee ok?
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How to speak to parents? They not that open minded kind?
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Don't worry now ok? Things may not be as bad as what you think.Originally posted by sgGirlx:How to speak to parents? They not that open minded kind?
Try use these few days to discus with your bf, and see his opinion on this.. -
u reali looking for trouble by gng unprotected... better pray hard n be a good gal...Originally posted by sgGirlx:Its unprotected sex. If I really got pregnant, how should I tell my parents? Should I go for abortion? I can't afford. -
sigh should have thought of that before you Engaged in that!Originally posted by sgGirlx:On April this year, my period came at the 2nd. On May, it came on the 2nd too. Its now 5th June and my period has not yet come. I'm now going Eighteen and had regular sex with my boyfriend. I counted the longest period was 40days, it's now the 35th day. My boyfriend and I is not ready to have baby and get married. Althought it could be late period, but I'm kind of worried. My parents don't know about my one year plus relationship with this guy, but his parents knows. My parents are of the older generation and might not accept this. I'm so so worried about it. Help?!
well nothing for u to do now but wait and see...
i hope that this will scare you enough for you to think twice before giving in to your carnal urges. -
agreed!Originally posted by BrUtUs:u reali looking for trouble by gng unprotected... better pray hard n be a good gal...
sigh.... what in the world were you thinking?!
Please learn from experience and make WISER decisions! -
like pck said, just like digging ur nose, if u wear glove and dig nose not shiok. same thing applies to condoms and sex
TS and bf must have been too high to consider about the potential consequences -
since u are afraid, then y do it?
and if this time u are lucky enough to escape from pregnancy, will u still do it without protection? -
TS, i suggest you better seek so medical help..
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there are other forms of contraception besides condoms.Originally posted by kristovorus:like pck said, just like digging ur nose, if u wear glove and dig nose not shiok. same thing applies to condoms and sex
TS and bf must have been too high to consider about the potential consequences
well if you are pregnant u need to get an abortion or the rest of ur life is f*cked -
Surely got money to buy condoms bah?
Otherwise, how can afford to have unprotected sex? You can afford? Your bf can afford?
If cannot afford to buy condoms, then how can you all afford to have unprotected sex?
No point worrying now "what if", "what should i do if...", "how to tell my conservative parent", etc.....just wait & see....by then, you & your bf will die die have to come out with a solution/choice...."Tell or Don't Tell"
So, what you can do, buy those pregnancy test kit and test it. If positive, good luck. If negative, how many pregnancy test kits can you afford?
So, hopefully, you will have a lesson learnt.....if your bf wan unprotected sex, ask him go fcuk spider....or if you're the one who wan unprotected sex, find a bloody rich guy...
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Not neccesary..Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:there are other forms of contraception besides condoms.
well if you are pregnant u need to get an abortion or the rest of ur life is f*cked -
Be a responsible adult and ready to accept yr baby!
Don't go for abortion. I heard the baby spirit will come back and hunt u forever!
Welcome to the real world.... -
hmmm... unprotected sex...
Then, did yr bf ejaculated into it ,or not??? Very important question
If yr bf can control and never ejaculate, then most likely u r way too stress .><
Very important ... did he ejaculate in yr body ??