need help pls..
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hi im kinda of in a fix. between choosing between 2 girls..
first is A , i met her during the jc first 3 mnths and she was the same og as me. as soon i no her , i feel that i had a crush on her and felt tat she was the one. i confess to her before but didn't ( forgot the reason ). She treats her frens like gold and she frequently hangout with girls only i found out. And now we are both in the poly but diff. course , i sms her but she seldom reply .. but i do realli like her alot.
next is B, met her during my amths tuition last time . she is realli cheerful and is the kind of mummy's girl. i always like to chat with her on phone but the prob is her mum.. her mum does not allow her to go out with any of her frens except church fren cos the mum no all the church frens she has...
Both girls to me are realli nice ppl, but they r not chio realli when my frens saw their face but to me , i look on the inside not the outside.. so ya im in a fix... got studies to manage.. plus i not rich, lanky and got the small boy nerd look . im quite shy in front A but when it comes to my frens and B im quite open.. though i didn't successfully jio A but i stil miss her alot but im confused when i think of B..
can any1 provide me some advice appreciate ur help thx
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my advice is:
dun go for any.
A seldom reply u, means nt really interested in u. even if u successfully jio-ed her, u might nt win her heart wholely. plus she only hang out with gerls.
as for B, well, forget it. at ur age, her mum is still a big influence to her i guess. typical mummy's gerl. it will be a big hurdle to cross, in which i think at ur age, u cant handle it.
dere are many other gerls out dere u noe? -
If me I will choose B.
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lol. if TS really has to choose, den i wil say go for B. but judging at his age, i think dun go for any is the best.Originally posted by DeadPoet:If me I will choose B. -
That's part of growing up. My first "gf" was during Pri 6 you know.Originally posted by hiphop2009:lol. if TS really has to choose, den i wil say go for B. but judging at his age, i think dun go for any is the best.
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focus on your studies dont waste your time
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ya la but den 16 or 17 years old liao shld be can think better mah. lol....Originally posted by DeadPoet:That's part of growing up. My first "gf" was during Pri 6 you know. -
sian .. i dun realli no alot of ppl cos im quite introvert since young only no how to stay at home and mug.. besides got some dumb scholarship to maintain.. but im a single child plus parents retiring soon n i like 16... soon need to sure get attached de
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A doesn't seem to have chemistry with you.
B's mum is in the way.
Got C?
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nt yet i think.. but i believe im a faithful person to only one girl no matter how chio the other girl is.its like when i first like A , no other chio bu caught the attention of me ..
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hmm B ba
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its so hard to get B out for a movie.. the mother ar..
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Maybe it is just me. Imo although studying is important, learning how to handle BGR and rejections and at a young age is as important as getting good results in school. I know most of you will not agree with me.Originally posted by vice_edge:sian .. i dun realli no alot of ppl cos im quite introvert since young only no how to stay at home and mug.. besides got some dumb scholarship to maintain.. but im a single child plus parents retiring soon n i like 16... soon need to sure get attached de
By the way currently do you have a mentor? You know a teacher or an adult whom you respect?
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First you need to win over her mother.Originally posted by vice_edge:its so hard to get B out for a movie.. the mother ar.. 
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advice ? the mother i feel ar is like control her .. like some 6 yr old kid cannot expose to stranger.. over-protective i feel.. i feel sry for her and i realli got the diao when she told me her mum do this and tat to her =.="
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Well that will depends on how well you know B. You can find out more about her through B, you know what she likes, dislikes, etc. Main thing is to take it slow, you are not going to marry B tomorrow right?Originally posted by vice_edge:advice ? the mother i feel ar is like control her .. like some 6 yr old kid cannot expose to stranger.. over-protective i feel.. i feel sry for her and i realli got the diao when she told me her mum do this and tat to her =.=" -
den u got ex gf or nt?Originally posted by vice_edge:advice ? the mother i feel ar is like control her .. like some 6 yr old kid cannot expose to stranger.. over-protective i feel.. i feel sry for her and i realli got the diao when she told me her mum do this and tat to her =.="
need to attach soon? rubbish. u only 16 lehz. out dere got pple 30 years old but nt attached lo. -
By the way, are you going to choose A or B at the first place? Main thing is you, not us. Your happiness is in your hand, not ours.
If you can't decide, take your time, Valentine is still months away. -
He is trying NOT to end up like them or like him.Originally posted by hiphop2009:out dere got pple 30 years old but nt attached lo. -
ya. ultimately, it is up to u. i think u shld nt choose any of dem. but if u decided to go ahead, den go luck! =D.Originally posted by DeadPoet:By the way, are you going to choose A or B at the first place? Main thing is you, not us. Your happiness is in your hand, not ours.
If you can't decide, take your time, Valentine is still months away. -
most like i will try B.. i think she wan to go out with me but its her mum la, i cannot expect her to lie to her mum .. any ideas ?
oh i quite despo haha -
tsk tsk tsk... reminds me of the very first time i stayed out late with my friends to watch the badminton kodak cup when i was 13. past 12midnight! for the very first time i was only 13 and i lied to my mom about it. way cool... i miss those juvenile delinquent days.
hey try wooing both girls but always keep at least 2 other back ups. let us know how it goes... and your wooing strategies in progressive stages like reports. it'll be fun. -
what's wrong with being 30 and unattached???Originally posted by hiphop2009:den u got ex gf or nt?
need to attach soon? rubbish. u only 16 lehz. out dere got pple 30 years old but nt attached lo.
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the ocean is BIG!
if i were you i will think really really really hard if B is the fish i want deep down in my heart. if not, i'll sail on and drop my fishing line when i feel like it. -
hmm ok i will try B for now .. haha ppl question my taste y i dun go for chio bu haha