Crush, Like, Love... Which is which???
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How do u noe when is it tat u have a crush on that person or when is it that u really love a person?? How to stop getting the feelings mixed up and getting into trouble???
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crush is a short term thing
whereby u suddenly saw sum1 n gets all flushed
but after awhile, it dies off
u dun realli feel animore excitment
love is a more powerful thing
love is when u will get excited over him whenever hes with u
no matter how long u haf know him, dat u will be happy as long as hes ard.
crush can transform to love
love is not about appreciating a person's beauty
but accepting his flaws
when u r all flushed ober sum1
u wnt mind anithing abt him
but after u get ober the period of excitement
n u start to point out all his flaws
then u r having a crush
but if u can live with all his bad points
den u are in luv -
then which is it if u are in a situation whereby u feel comfortable with tt person as thou he's a long time buddy and that u noe tt as long as he's ard, everything will be alrite and tt u enjoy having him ard...
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well, how much do u like himOriginally posted by AsTr0GiRL:then which is it if u are in a situation whereby u feel comfortable with tt person as thou he's a long time buddy and that u noe tt as long as he's ard, everything will be alrite and tt u enjoy having him ard...
cos fr wat i feel
it looks more like a good friends/buddies kind of situation
perhaps u feel secure ard him
n like i say, do u mind his flaws
haf u seen his flaws
n do u still feel excited ober him the moment u see him
or u nothing much
do u find urslf in a situation dat u care alot about him
about his stuff, his problems
if u do, then u r in the stage of like
eben couples together can be in the stage of like
from like u move on to love
where u place him b4 ani other things
u care abt his life n death -
no heart pumping fast... no blood rushing fast... dun feel excited.. but feel happy n warm n nice lor... i dun really noe his flaws so no comments on tt at e moment... maybe wait a while longer to find out more.....
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u noe something.? real meat may be good. but the fake stuf is even better! gohome! dun trust stranger!
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eh...waoh...i oso wan to c wats ppl view..heheOriginally posted by AsTr0GiRL:How do u noe when is it tat u have a crush on that person or when is it that u really love a person?? How to stop getting the feelings mixed up and getting into trouble???
Givache 
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I believe love only comes from understanding the other party. You like him not just because of her outward appearance, but his inner character as well. You would enjoy his company, want to go out with him, appreciate his good points and willing to accept his bad points. Even deeping, its mutual understanding, consider his interests more than your interests, having mutual trust, able to forgive him whenever he has done wrong and willing to share your life with him to go through any obstacle in life.
Love takes time to cultivate, it does not come immediately, coz you need time to understand him as well.
Love can come from a crush as well, provided the other party is interested in you as well. A crush might not turn into love, coz you may like him initially, but after you discover his bad points, you find that you cannot accept him.
Regarding that long time buddy, if you find that you understand him enough, u enjoy his company and you allow yourself to discover him more, it can develop into love as well.
There are no definite answers to love. There are only guidelines to follow, the rest is up to u to discover. -
do u feel anithing for him??Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:no heart pumping fast... no blood rushing fast... dun feel excited.. but feel happy n warm n nice lor... i dun really noe his flaws so no comments on tt at e moment... maybe wait a while longer to find out more.....
know ur feelings for him first
if u find dat he dun realli mean too much to u
or u dun feel for him
den perhaps theres no outcome
tink b4 u act
do NOT misled ani1 bcos once hes fallen for u
u can hurt him badly -
Real simple test to try :
Can you imagine yourself waking up next to him for the rest of your life?
Usu a crush is one-sided... ... Love tends to be mutual... Maybe you'd wanna find out first if the feeling's mutual???