Am I normal? I don't feel much for girls these days...
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Lets see, when I was in Secondary School, when I saw my friends got themselves a girlfriend, I will feel really jealous and bitter inside, why couldn't it be me instead? Then there was a girl way back in Secondary, that I really really liked, but I never had the courage to do anything, only after we graduated, I started to SMS her, but she would never agree to go out. I even went to the point of waiting outside her house, and sending her threatening Emails. Ya, I feel pretty bad. It wasn't until her mother complained to my mother that I stopped, but if it wasn't for the law, I guess I would have raped her already. However, I still don't really understand how she got my mother's number.
Well, that was over 1 year ago, since then I deleted her and everybody close to her from my MSN, and I even stopped logging in to my Friendster. I tried to avoid everything about her. But... that is not the point of these topic.
I am 19 this year, going to N.S tomorrow. So I reflected on myself. I haven't got a girlfriend before, unless you count the girl way back in Kindergarten... But nowadays I don't seem to really care. In my Polytechnic Days, I am pretty sure that was 2 girls after me.
The first one I didn't like at all. She kept asking me to help her and stuff, and gave excuses to treat me or gave me kisses over MSN for helping her. But constantly ignored her, and she got a boyfriend now anyway.
As for the second one, well, just to say I didn't like her enough. It was during attachment period, when she claimed she was waiting for my friend in the toilet, but the truth is my friend left a long time ago. She was obviously waiting for me since everyone had already left.
But putting those aside, I find that all of friends are constantly looking for new targets and stuff. While I don't seem to have any interest at all, I would rather, or in fact I already planned out that for the next 2 years, every weekend when I book out from camp, I would stay at home and build my model kits ( I have like a few dozens to finish building. ) Yep, I am a toy collector. I rather stay at home to admire my toys, or go out to buy new toys or just watch some anime. I seldom go out, except to buy toys or if there's a movie that interest me. I don't even like the company of friends.
Am I weird? -
just go NS 1st, dun think so much
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No you are not weird.
You are just a loner.
Someone who enjoys his own personal space. -
Maybe it's a natural adaptation , your body's turning itself off girls because you know you're entering NS & there will be very little contact with them thereafter
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You don't wanna feel horny at night in your bunk. Its a good thing for now. Be happy and don't think so much.
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you grown up liao
not kiddy liao -
hahahahahaOriginally posted by gigabyte14:you grown up liao
not kiddy liao -
Its not only that, throughout my entire life besides my 3 months of attachment. I have never held any job before...
You may think I am lazy. But the truth is I am very eager to work... but its just that I am scared, I am worried. I just don't have the courage to call people over the phone for enquires. I worry that I may screw up and infect big damage to the company. I just keep thinking I am not ready.
I don't really have courage to talk to strangers, unless they approach me first. -
I sense abit of selfishness in your decisions. You seem interested in using your time to develop yourself, your career, instead of "wasting" it on the opposite sex. Am I right..? That's all fine and dandy, but it's good to let yourself love once in a while.. you might miss Miss Right while you're working so hard to achieve your ideal life.
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I found another myself in you.Originally posted by Guilmon1987:Lets see, when I was in Secondary School, when I saw my friends got themselves a girlfriend, I will feel really jealous and bitter inside, why couldn't it be me instead? Then there was a girl way back in Secondary, that I really really liked, but I never had the courage to do anything, only after we graduated, I started to SMS her, but she would never agree to go out. I even went to the point of waiting outside her house, and sending her threatening Emails. Ya, I feel pretty bad. It wasn't until her mother complained to my mother that I stopped, but if it wasn't for the law, I guess I would have raped her already. However, I still don't really understand how she got my mother's number.
Well, that was over 1 year ago, since then I deleted her and everybody close to her from my MSN, and I even stopped logging in to my Friendster. I tried to avoid everything about her. But... that is not the point of these topic.
I am 19 this year, going to N.S tomorrow. So I reflected on myself. I haven't got a girlfriend before, unless you count the girl way back in Kindergarten... But nowadays I don't seem to really care. In my Polytechnic Days, I am pretty sure that was 2 girls after me.
The first one I didn't like at all. She kept asking me to help her and stuff, and gave excuses to treat me or gave me kisses over MSN for helping her. But constantly ignored her, and she got a boyfriend now anyway.
As for the second one, well, just to say I didn't like her enough. It was during attachment period, when she claimed she was waiting for my friend in the toilet, but the truth is my friend left a long time ago. She was obviously waiting for me since everyone had already left.
But putting those aside, I find that all of friends are constantly looking for new targets and stuff. While I don't seem to have any interest at all, I would rather, or in fact I already planned out that for the next 2 years, every weekend when I book out from camp, I would stay at home and build my model kits ( I have like a few dozens to finish building. ) Yep, I am a toy collector. I rather stay at home to admire my toys, or go out to buy new toys or just watch some anime. I seldom go out, except to buy toys or if there's a movie that interest me. I don't even like the company of friends.
Am I weird?
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how sociable are you with the opp sex?
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you have not been in the working world yet. you will learn social skills as you step in. do not worry too much, just take things as it come.
you are not abnormal, it is just that you have not met the one you truely love. -
ur someone who is avoiding reality.. book out and stay at home all the time isnt too good for u...
maybe u shld go out and enjoy more.. make a few girl friends and broaden ur social life -
Depends.Originally posted by ifish:how sociable are you with the opp sex?
Back in Secondary School, Zero, nothing. I would never talk to them unless necessary. Even now when I meet up with my Secondary School friends, the same thing happens.
In Polytechnic, for my class girls. I tried to start a conversation with them very early on in school life. Then I really got to mix with them. To the point they made me their god "sister". Sometimes, I would even touch their hair, or just use my fingers to fling on their heads and they don't mind. They even do it back to me. Too bad, all of them got boyfriends. -
What i see here is that you haven't reach the stage that you need company.
By the age like me which is 25yrs old now... you definitely will seek for someone to walk the rest of road with you... -
Go out? With who?Originally posted by WiNtEr'SkiLL:ur someone who is avoiding reality.. book out and stay at home all the time isnt too good for u...
maybe u shld go out and enjoy more.. make a few girl friends and broaden ur social life
My Secondary friends only ask me out because I exist. Whenever I start a conversation with them on MSN, they will only reply if they feel like it. Well, I don't really know if they are actually infront of the PC, or maybe they are playing Dota. But I feel like they just can't be bothered to talk to me. And sometimes when we go out and one of us needs to contact another, they will ask me to call, and the other person won't pick up the phone. Then they ask another friend to call, and he picks it up. It can't all be coincidence. I can feel that they are not outcasting me, but they just don't take me seriously.
As for my Polytechnic friends, just say most of my classmates are not united enough, they prefer to go out with their Secondary friends. And if we do go out, they will most probably talk about Dota, which I don't understand a thing. The only time when I get to talk is when I am alone with only 1 other friend ( Any 1 of them ), but then I get the feeling I am just forcing the guy to listen to what I have to say, since there is nobody else to talk to. -
maybe the reason yours friends are not taking you seriously is because they dun know you well enough. try opening up yourself to them and in the sametime try to understand them.
your normal maybe you jus need to brush up ur PR skills. -
I think u are pretty normal...
u just have to find friends that can click with u...
maybe when u are older u will feel sth for the girls...
Dun need to rush into things..
just find friends with same interest as u and go out once in a while... -
u r still living in the pass.
u r afraid to getting hunt again so u dun dare to accept other ppl.
so no its not normal. its ok to collect model kits tho( i collect model kits oso).
but stayin at home too much u will miss alot of things.
time to wake up, if not u will reget when u get old. put the pass aside.( of coruse u can still collect ur model kit ) -
No, you are not wierd. Because till now I never heard digimons fall in love
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U are still young and u haven't met the right one to open u and make u want her. Don't u hope for yr dream gal to buy a big model kit for u during yr birthday?
Don't be so negative that u try to narrow yr opportunities. Stay positive and try to stay open to all possible candidates in future!
You might start late in r/s but just make sure u make it to the finish line and don't be the last. -
Not for someone who enjoys pokemon more than anything else in the universe.
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you are just like me ... i understand ....
you are an introvert? does socialising make you feel tired? -
why do u even have to ask if ur normal
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dont worry too much