feeling like there no topic wif her to talk abt..

• soulwinner

  14 Jun 07, 23:51

  Honeymoon period is over.. You need to rekindle the fire or it will be over...
• hiphop2009

  14 Jun 07, 23:59

  Originally posted by darkhour:

  dun tink age gap la...3 yrs nia ok la...what r ur common interests?n u all can talk abt everyday life loh...that part the girl shld haf lots to talk what...juz listen n comment a little...hmm she streaming this yr, u O lvl this yr...mayb she wants u to concentrate on ur studies oso loh...

  age gap of 3 years IS ok, but nt when one is sec 5, another one is sec 2. it is a NO-NO.
  
  =)
• dbowie

  15 Jun 07, 01:17

  Originally posted by hiphop2009:

  age gap of 3 years IS ok, but nt when one is sec 5, another one is sec 2. it is a NO-NO.
  
  =)

  x2
• RvnRooRon84

  15 Jun 07, 01:34

  Tell you honestly, if you feel this way now, what happens in 3 or 4 yrs to come?
  
  Best you reconsider things and think about it; its better to let her go now rather then you both drag it for so long; not being fair to both of you.
  
  Then again, if you really want to make the relationship right, anything under the sun can be a topic of discussion; you just have to make the topic interesting for her to keep up with the conversation! Find ways to make it interesting; try to think of what your gf likes most and try to drive the topic to be associated with that thing she like for example. Be creative and innovative!
  
  Good luck man!
• dbowie

  15 Jun 07, 01:38

  What I think is that TS to find a new relationship when he get into ITE/POLY/JC, but not now.
• Rod1984

  15 Jun 07, 08:26

  aiyo! Learnt thru experience! i think most likely it will end up as a tragic. As what most of people here said, surprise her more with flowers and gifts. Becareful when you sent gifts or flowers, dun overdo it or else she will pampered.
  
  Another trick,
  - Tok abt your school life and your projects.
  - Tok about your future. (women prefer man with vision)
  - Give her creative and cute name (women like being called differently)
  - Bring her to beach, said some witty and romance jokes
  - Read more newspaper, can discuss matters with her.
  - Understand her more, by asking alot of open ended questions. keeps her thinking.
  
  there are alot of things tat you guys can talk about. Jus be yourself.
  GEtting a gf is easily, maintaining need alot of effort and time to nurture, especially maintaining a gf at your age. Both of you still young, jus move on.
  
  
• CannyOng

  15 Jun 07, 09:22

  Somebody go into r/s based on pure feeling and did not have a long term goal? I don't meet not to have feeling but to come up with a plan to take yr r/s into a higer lvl,just like strengthening the pillar of a multi-storey building,if not ,it will collapsed badly!
  
  Honeymoon period usually last from 3 months to 6 months. 1 month is too short and it is during this honeymoon period that is best for stengthening yr pillar.
  
  PLan a series of activities to carry out. Places u might have been to but never experience with a companion going. Topic will automatically surface and things to talk abt will come easy as both of u are excitied abt the new expriences.
  
  Don't u want to make yr ger happy and enjoy some qualities moment? Take some time,think hard and plan things to do. A r/s is always abt discovering new things not alone
• SpecOps87

  15 Jun 07, 10:13

  Ah women are all the same...watch too much romance,or read too much romance and all the bull they publish in magazines...besides...impt. to know her friends too...use them to get to her. Lastly...if all else fails...time to go fishing again.
• aljudvin

  15 Jun 07, 11:11

  Maybe she is not an outgoing girl? prefers to stay at home? U can go her house one anot? Does her mom know about the r/s between u & her? maybe if her mom know and she does not wan her daughter to get into a r/s in a young age.
  
  In secondary school life, most of the r/s is puppy love. it is very hard to 'settle'
  down as we all are in the sense of growing up. When u go to poly/jc/ite, the people u meet will mostly be more matured. 3 year of age gap is not a problem. the problems lies with ur gf. Her thinking can be childish.