i would like to know..
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erm..i would like to know...how u guys confess to a girl? at which moment? under wat situation? n how u say it to her?? like face to face? thru phone? sms? care to share u guys experience?
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it really depends on situations.. if both of u are alone. .u can just tell her straight..
if not.. maybe u can use actions.. gestures.. or hold her hand .. i duno.. its all up to one's creativity -
When both is in the mood
Boy just grab courage and tell her -
through phone and sms la...
up to u....
the thing is that u dun scare the girl away can already.... -
face to face...
other then that i think not very sincere leh... -
Better face to face. It's more sincere.
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face to face? if she reject how? run? lol..
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sayOriginally posted by lalaTearz:face to face? if she reject how? run? lol..
"its ok... we are still good friend right?" then everything will be back to normal... -
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nothing beats face to face.......can see results instantaneously
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msn lah.
i did dat last time. though i noe a bit no sincere. but dat gal became my gf
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depends on the girl too...if she likes you, any method will do.
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Things will never be the same again.Originally posted by popikachu:say
"its ok... we are still good friend right?" then everything will be back to normal... -
definately face to face. and if situation allows, you may try grabbing her hands etc also. that's all up to your own creativeness and romanticness.
but then again, if i'm to confess to a girl, the girl should have already taken liking on me too. -
Meet face to face and have preparation for rejection too. So that u know how to react.
Usually after a period of time with outing and chit-chatting,knowing each other over a period of time. More or less both have develop enough feeling for each other and clear hint plus signal to know the feeling is right? Then find a great moment and romantic outing to confess to her. Abt what kind of hint and clear signal,haha, is a long story. -
have some nice chat then proceed to ur plan.
face to face better.
try to see if u stand any chance by casual chat first.
give hint n hint...
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die liao la liddat..
must have confidence la deh.
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REJECTION makes u a stronger person.. so go ahead and do it! jus think of some creative way
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Please lah think what, Taiwanese 'ou xiang' drama is it? Meteor Garden? New millenium but can use 1950s method like try and be affectionate in your gestures while on a date. Then try and hold her hand. Please don't tell her, "I want to confess to you now I like you very much. Can you be my girlfriend?" Please hor please please don't do that. Very corny.Originally posted by lalaTearz:erm..i would like to know...how u guys confess to a girl? at which moment? under wat situation? n how u say it to her?? like face to face? thru phone? sms? care to share u guys experience? 
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On the surface, everything will be normal. But deep down, it's far less than normal liao.Originally posted by popikachu:say
"its ok... we are still good friend right?" then everything will be back to normal...
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Face to Face lor.
Be daring man. Although one really needs alot of courage to do that.
Cheers.
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before the cold hard truth unfolds..
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Please DO NOT ever ask a girl to be your gf through phone call, sms or msn etc. It just shows total lack of sincerity.
Just ask the girl face to face. It shows your sincerity and also it shows that you are a man who dares to spproach difficulties face to face. Try to find a quiet moment to ask the question so that she will feel comfortable. And always be prepared for rejection. If she accepts you, then good news. But if she rejects you, please be a gentleman and try to break the silence by saying something nice that will reduce her tension. Always end a rejection nicely with both of you going home smiling (although i know you will feel so damn disappointed).
I do agree with some of you who said that things will never be the same again after a girl rejects you. This is very debatable and it depends a lot on how both the girl and the guy handles the situation. Sometimes, it is still possible to bring things back to what they were before, but it can never be 100% like the past.