attached gal
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hi all
i really need advice on this matter ...new here pls offer views thankz
okie i got to know this gal and began to like her the problem is she is attached and tt she has interest in mi too...
when i asked her she said she did not like mi enuff to leave the bf but did not want mi to leave her too....
this went on for several months , tt is i am hanging in midair without an answer...... we started to quarrel over him mainly....coz i feel tt if her heart is with the bf then she should just tell mi tt
finally when i had the courage to leave her she still was not willing but she said i wsa not the one now....can someone tell mi how she might be thinking? -
dont let her waste ur time.
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love is selfless, not selfishOriginally posted by troubledguy: hi all
i really need advice on this matter ...new here pls offer views thankz
okie i got to know this gal and began to like her the problem is she is attached and tt she has interest in mi too...
when i asked her she said she did not like mi enuff to leave the bf but did not want mi to leave her too....
this went on for several months , tt is i am hanging in midair without an answer...... we started to quarrel over him mainly....coz i feel tt if her heart is with the bf then she should just tell mi tt
finally when i had the courage to leave her she still was not willing but she said i wsa not the one now....can someone tell mi how she might be thinking?
the way she has been doing, was to tie u down, and letting u get suspended for nothing, if u wish to pursue further suffering, go ahead with sticking to her, if u want things to be done proper, talk to her, and let her know what u think and feel...
seriously, it's pretty unfair for u....
think for urself sometimes, it's much better that way... -
this is the same case that happened to me a few years ago..Originally posted by troubledguy: hi all
i really need advice on this matter ...new here pls offer views thankz
okie i got to know this gal and began to like her the problem is she is attached and tt she has interest in mi too...
when i asked her she said she did not like mi enuff to leave the bf but did not want mi to leave her too....
this went on for several months , tt is i am hanging in midair without an answer...... we started to quarrel over him mainly....coz i feel tt if her heart is with the bf then she should just tell mi tt
finally when i had the courage to leave her she still was not willing but she said i wsa not the one now....can someone tell mi how she might be thinking?
so i am not really that eager to think back...
she never gives u an absolute answer, right? no straight "don't see me again, i have a bf",or no "please stay beside me, coz i'm leaving him"
so, i did what i taught the best at that time..i started to wish her luck and said that i'll be her best friend ever..
but i slowly stepped aside, and slowly went away far from her life...
as i thought it was for her own good, or mine...( i mean, i'm not gonna be some replacement when her mood was blue)
and a year later, we met at a mall, and she walked right through me like total strangers...
i'd be lying if i said, it's not hurt...
but after i thought about it, may be i was right...
she never really liked me, or wanted to be with me...
i was the man at the wrong place and at the wrong time, and saw a wrong girl....
think it over, man....
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yes love is selfless... but there's one part where it is selfish. and this part is that i will NEVER share my gal with someone else.
it doesn't matter if u are the "third party" or the bf, if i know that she's being "shared" i will rather not have her. it's easy to say... but fucking hard to do. takes ages but i have done it and so can u.... good luck pal.
btw.. stay away from attached pple (of cos can be frens lar). i know sometimes it's "inevitable" ... but just try.. if u've sunk too deep this time, just remember it for future reference. -
My advice : Keep your eyes open and look for other girls. Who knows next time if she become your gf she oso do the same thing.
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If she will leave him for u,Originally posted by troubledguy: hi all
i really need advice on this matter ...new here pls offer views thankz
okie i got to know this gal and began to like her the problem is she is attached and tt she has interest in mi too...
when i asked her she said she did not like mi enuff to leave the bf but did not want mi to leave her too....
this went on for several months , tt is i am hanging in midair without an answer...... we started to quarrel over him mainly....coz i feel tt if her heart is with the bf then she should just tell mi tt
finally when i had the courage to leave her she still was not willing but she said i wsa not the one now....can someone tell mi how she might be thinking?
i think she will one day leave u for him oso!
And maybe she will oso leave u 4 another guy and
then maybe another guy will post a similliar topic like U
*no offence*
forget about her, it may hurts but better to have a light injury rather then a Tiu Siong one!!
wat goes up must cum down,
wat is yours will be yours!!
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she's taking u for a ride. chinese has a saying: dun give a the whole forest for a tree.
stay open and widen your pool of friends....like in sgforums. there're many many gd gals out there. cheer up! -
hi all hey thankz for the advice but just like to ask the gals out there why is it tt she thinks this way?i know she is being selfish and all but is it possible to not know where ur heart is?
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you wanna know why she thinks like that? so simple. u are only spare tyre. backup hard disk. nothing more nothing less.Originally posted by troubledguy:hi all hey thankz for the advice but just like to ask the gals out there why is it tt she thinks this way?i know she is being selfish and all but is it possible to not know where ur heart is?
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it's hard to be truely selfless, but, once u can do it, it isn't hard...Originally posted by jOhO:yes love is selfless... but there's one part where it is selfish. and this part is that i will NEVER share my gal with someone else.
it doesn't matter if u are the "third party" or the bf, if i know that she's being "shared" i will rather not have her. it's easy to say... but fucking hard to do. takes ages but i have done it and so can u.... good luck pal.
btw.. stay away from attached pple (of cos can be frens lar). i know sometimes it's "inevitable" ... but just try.. if u've sunk too deep this time, just remember it for future reference.
sure we are all selfish ppl rite? who wants to share? but usually, situation depends, so haha, can' really discuss wif u much -
i think in my opinion.. she ain't willing to leave her boyfriend for you seriously. think she wants to secure something first right now.. so if anything happens between her and boyfriend, she can always fall back on you.
if you like her that much.. and there's no other girl that can surpass whatever beauty she has made you mesmerised.. then, maybe you could be the fool and wait for her for a change of heart. but mind you..you might get your heart broken someday. -
Bingo. Your answer hits straight to the heart.Originally posted by Dolce Vita:i think in my opinion.. she ain't willing to leave her boyfriend for you seriously. think she wants to secure something first right now.. so if anything happens between her and boyfriend, she can always fall back on you.
if you like her that much.. and there's no other girl that can surpass whatever beauty she has made you mesmerised.. then, maybe you could be the fool and wait for her for a change of heart. but mind you..you might get your heart broken someday. -
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give her bf a call and ask him to share loh.
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the photo looks a bit fake leh...>>>but also chio la not bad
i feel that the girl is wasting your time lehzz.....think about it......dont waste time!!!
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troubledguy,
man,,, how can you backdoor another guy???? You should be ashamed of yourself. Us men have to stick together....
And if she is doing what you say she has been.... it seems like she is a cheating slut.....
get a life ..... try playing final fantasy.... maybe you need some of that joystick action...... -
i cant tell u wat she is thinkin but i can tell u wat and how to think for urself..........there r betta ppl out there and stay away from her..unless u wish urself to b the 3rd partyOriginally posted by troubledguy: hi all
i really need advice on this matter ...new here pls offer views thankz
okie i got to know this gal and began to like her the problem is she is attached and tt she has interest in mi too...
when i asked her she said she did not like mi enuff to leave the bf but did not want mi to leave her too....
this went on for several months , tt is i am hanging in midair without an answer...... we started to quarrel over him mainly....coz i feel tt if her heart is with the bf then she should just tell mi tt
finally when i had the courage to leave her she still was not willing but she said i wsa not the one now....can someone tell mi how she might be thinking? -
johos = mini little version of jOhO???Originally posted by johos:troubledguy,
man,,, how can you backdoor another guy???? You should be ashamed of yourself. Us men have to stick together....
And if she is doing what you say she has been.... it seems like she is a cheating slut.....
get a life ..... try playing final fantasy.... maybe you need some of that joystick action...... -
nar.. he want's to share joystick action with me.. i'm still considering his proposal. his has been shortlisted i must say...Originally posted by xavier1979:johos = mini little version of jOhO??? -
if a girl really likes u, even married, she aso can divorced n be wit u oneOriginally posted by troubledguy: hi all
i really need advice on this matter ...new here pls offer views thankz
okie i got to know this gal and began to like her the problem is she is attached and tt she has interest in mi too...
when i asked her she said she did not like mi enuff to leave the bf but did not want mi to leave her too....
this went on for several months , tt is i am hanging in midair without an answer...... we started to quarrel over him mainly....coz i feel tt if her heart is with the bf then she should just tell mi tt
finally when i had the courage to leave her she still was not willing but she said i wsa not the one now....can someone tell mi how she might be thinking? -
like i said.. God have mercy on our depraved souls...Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:if a girl really likes u, even married, she aso can divorced n be wit u one -
And God, strike down on those divorce lawyers who earn so much from our depraved pockets.Originally posted by jOhO:like i said.. God have mercy on our depraved souls... -
xavier1979:
WTF is a web walker??? Is that something like a spiderman wannabe thing???? -
rofl....Originally posted by xavier1979:And God, strike down on those divorce lawyers who earn so much from our depraved pockets.