My Ang Mo bf
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I got to know my Ang Mo bf last year. We have been together for about 1 year. At first, i tot we wont be together for long as he is an Ang Mo. As most of us think that foreign guys who come here to work wont take relationship seriously. They just need a companion when they are here and they will definitely go back to their country to find a serious partner.
I alwaz think in this way that's why i dun take this relationship seriouly.
But seriously speaking, i am one who dun usually take relationship seriouly such as i will wait for my bf to call me, i wont call him and i dun treat him as good as my other friens. I dun care much for him and dun wish to meet him often maybe only like once or twice a week. I treat all my past bfs all da same. They alwaz say i neglect them and dun care abt them. That's why all my past relationship didn last long. 
Anyway, i also dun care much coz i usually get bored after some time. 
I treated my present Ang Mo bf da same way as i treated my past bfs. He has been working here for some years then one day, he told me he's leaving coz his contract has ended. He told me, he wish that i can go back to europe with him. I was shocked ! coz i never thought that he will ask me to leave with him as i treated him in dat way. And i never tot of a having a serious relationship in my life. I just want someone to keep me company and make me happy when i am sad. When i heard it, i was really speechless. As i never tot a guy will say these things to me. Then i asked him, "why do u treat me so good?" he said, "i really love u very much and wish that u can come with me to europe." WOW! i was really really happy then, dunno wat to say. btw, i didn reply him.
From then onwards, i meet him almost everyday but i am still seriously thinking about this relationship. Such as do i really love him that much? Am i really ready for a serious relationship? I realli cant make up my mind. he has not left but i think i will go there and treat it as a holiday first and see what will happen.
What do all of u think of Ang Mo? Is he really serious with me? Would like to hear your opinions about my relationship. -
I got to know my Ang Mo bf last year. We have been together for about 1 year. At first, i tot we wont be together for long as he is an Ang Mo. As most of us think that foreign guys who come here to work wont take relationship seriously. They just need a companion when they are here and they will definitely go back to their country to find a serious partner.
What do all of u think of Ang Mo? Is he really serious with me? Would like to hear your opinions about my relationship. -
Ask yourself this: Are you willing to forego your friends and family here to start a new life elsewhere in a foreign land, to know new friends, to merge into a different family???
Simple question, but do think it over. -
worse is after you left europe with him, shortly after...he dumped you for another gal. *sighz*Originally posted by xavier1979:Ask yourself this: Are you willing to forego your friends and family here to start a new life elsewhere in a foreign land, to know new friends, to merge into a different family???
Simple question, but do think it over.
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maybe not all ang mos like that leh? but u should at least get to know his family background, friends and such. this is long term nu ren. did he ever mention to you his family or introduce u to his friends when you guys are outside?Originally posted by e|mo:worse is after you left europe with him, shortly after...he dumped you for another gal. *sighz* -
I dun mind starting a new life in a foreign land and to make new friends but the main problem is... i realli dun wish to settle down so early coz i think i am stil very young. I will just treat it as a holiday 1st...Originally posted by xavier1979:Ask yourself this: Are you willing to forego your friends and family here to start a new life elsewhere in a foreign land, to know new friends, to merge into a different family???
Simple question, but do think it over. -
Ehhh....hope it is just relation and not more than that man....
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ya not all the guys are like dat.. you got to know his background well. think there's a case where a girl got murdered in foreign country... by his her hubby.Originally posted by tiggersgd:maybe not all ang mos like that leh? but u should at least get to know his family background, friends and such. this is long term nu ren. did he ever mention to you his family or introduce u to his friends when you guys are outside?
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Den no choice lor.. back to my singapore and lead normal life. At least i stil hav sweet memories and get to experience life in Europe..Originally posted by e|mo:worse is after you left europe with him, shortly after...he dumped you for another gal. *sighz* -
glad you can take it easy... but saying is always easier than actions. anyway, wish you all the best... juz follow your heart. and don't regret it... (it's better to regret something you have done rather than you never do)Originally posted by barbie:Den no choice lor.. back to my singapore and lead normal life. At least i stil hav sweet memories and get to experience life in Europe.. 
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Originally posted by barbie:Den no choice lor.. back to my singapore and lead normal life. At least i stil hav sweet memories and get to experience life in Europe..
Real cheerful girl you are..? -
Y do u hope dat? Do u think our relationship wont last?Originally posted by greengoblin:Ehhh....hope it is just relation and not more than that man.... -
Originally posted by tiggersgd:maybe not all ang mos like that leh? but u should at least get to know his family background, friends and such. this is long term nu ren. did he ever mention to you his family or introduce u to his friends when you guys are outside? Maybe.. yes, he told me abt his family. He has his own house in Europe, his mom is staying in another house. Ya, i noe iz long term taz why i am not prepared at all and would just like to go there for a holi 1st and c hoz things will happen. Yep, he introduce me to his friends when we are outside.
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Originally posted by e|mo:ya not all the guys are like dat.. you got to know his background well. think there's a case where a girl got murdered in foreign country... by his her hubby.
But i dun tink he will be so bo liao ... da least i attack him back lor n c who die 1st... 
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Originally posted by e|mo:glad you can take it easy... but saying is always easier than actions. anyway, wish you all the best... juz follow your heart. and don't regret it... (it's better to regret something you have done rather than you never do) Thank U! Me also think so. yes, u r rite.. i will definitly go there.. if realli not suitable, den no choice......... at least i tried bfor.
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Originally posted by Devil1976: Real cheerful girl you are..? alright lah.. juz take things easy n njoy life to da fullest... wanna try as much things as possible since i am stil young.
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i tin best is u go over wif him 4 sumtime c if it reli suit u ant lor if it does it worth but if not den u can drop tis idea mah..it better to try den to regret dat u forgo tis chance of trying to c
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hi, can i ask how old are you? i realise that you didnt mention if you would face any parental objection so family objection..
hmm, i dun think that he is out to cheat you, if you really love him and is willing to stay with him for life, then y not settle down rite?
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Hehehe... Gd thinking...Originally posted by barbie: But i dun tink he will be so bo liao ... da least i attack him back lor n c who die 1st... -
Originally posted by joanne:hi, can i ask how old are you? i realise that you didnt mention if you would face any parental objection so family objection..
hmm, i dun think that he is out to cheat you, if you really love him and is willing to stay with him for life, then y not settle down rite? Thanx! I am only 21 years old. I think there shouldn be any problem as i am alwaz very independent and my parents gave me lotz of freedom. If i really make up mind, noboby can change, not even my parents. It's my own life, nobody can control.
He told me that if i didn go Europe, he will come back to look for me. He said, "I can come back to Singapore and stay some time at hotel but if u go Europe, we have a big house."
I wish to be with him but i am stil very young and not sure whether i really love him enough and be able to live with him. Anyway, i never tot of this... just wanna go there and treat it as a holiday.. -
Originally posted by joanne:hi, can i ask how old are you? i realise that you didnt mention if you would face any parental objection so family objection..
hmm, i dun think that he is out to cheat you, if you really love him and is willing to stay with him for life, then y not settle down rite? Thanx! I am only 21 years old. -
Yes, u r rite!!! I will definitely go there cc, look look, stay stay and try try... if realli not suitable den da most come back lor.Originally posted by Si|verGer:i tin best is u go over wif him 4 sumtime c if it reli suit u ant lor if it does it worth but if not den u can drop tis idea mah..it better to try den to regret dat u forgo tis chance of trying to c -
I just feel that you are a little naive and playful. Considerations should be more than simply go there and look see look see. Living together with him, depending on him for a living etc are going to change and advance the nature of the r/s. Are the two of you about to handle that? If not, are you able to simply pack up and leave?
I believe your bf could tell that you are not very serious about him. Most prolly he just want you to go over for a while, keep him company till he gets tired. -
Yes, u are rite...Originally posted by dil:I just feel that you are a little naive and playful. Considerations should be more than simply go there and look see look see. Living together with him, depending on him for a living etc are going to change and advance the nature of the r/s. Are the two of you about to handle that? If not, are you able to simply pack up and leave?
I believe your bf could tell that you are not very serious about him. Most prolly he just want you to go over for a while, keep him company till he gets tired. i am stil naive and playful as i realli cant make up my mind. But i am not exactly depending on him for a living. He wanted me to get some work experience here and intends to ask me to work over there, he will help me. I cant leave with him now as i am still studying and can only go over when i have holidays. He agree and said, i can go over and look for him when i have holidays and stay for as long as i want.
Maybe you r rite..
too bad i am not him, not sure waz hez tinking. -
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