Pining for lost love........
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sigh.....mine is the classic case of the office romance that turned into something.....she is a bubly lady whose laughters and smiles never fail to make my day......now that she's resgin and gone, my days jus got darker. thot maybe widen circles and frens gradually make me 4get her...but alas.sometimes talk is cheaper. Should i keep in touch wit her as much as i can? or should i jus ease off since i can nevr shake off the feelings i hav for her? She is married.........
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Find another bah.. -
Married liao.
Please move on. -
Find another similar one.
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what? u love her or her have a crush on her?
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nv talk to her before u say?Originally posted by DC+:what? u love her or her have a crush on her? -
deh friends can la, more than that is too dangerous
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In short and on the flip side.... if you are married and your wife invloved wif another man?
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U ought to know what is right.......Originally posted by areusure:sigh.....mine is the classic case of the office romance that turned into something.....she is a bubly lady whose laughters and smiles never fail to make my day......now that she's resgin and gone, my days jus got darker. thot maybe widen circles and frens gradually make me 4get her...but alas.sometimes talk is cheaper. Should i keep in touch wit her as much as i can? or should i jus ease off since i can nevr shake off the feelings i hav for her? She is married......... -
Contact her if you are SINCERE in being friends with her. Get to know her husband as well.
If its any other thing deeper than friendship, might I suggest you really let it go.
Lusting for a love towards a married person never brings happiness. Not only will the married person be deemed unfaithful, but both the married person and the lover will be branded adulterers. -
siao la...
go find another gal la...
unless u wan the gal to divorce with the husband and marry u mah??
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i miss my cool hunk colleague too.
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Man,forget abt having any idea of getting together with her since she is married. Have confident on yrself and look for yr real fate. But if u able to curb yr affection towards her,why not be with her as friend? U must able to differentiate what is right an what is wrong. If u only able to master it then u can break out of that torturing ciricle in r/s and achieve true happiness!Originally posted by areusure:sigh.....mine is the classic case of the office romance that turned into something.....she is a bubly lady whose laughters and smiles never fail to make my day......now that she's resgin and gone, my days jus got darker. thot maybe widen circles and frens gradually make me 4get her...but alas.sometimes talk is cheaper. Should i keep in touch wit her as much as i can? or should i jus ease off since i can nevr shake off the feelings i hav for her? She is married......... -
Married??!!
give it up, dude.. -
Marry?
Better get on with your life.it should be just a crush only -
there are some things we can do and some we don't do. Draw some lines.
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nice i like the way u phrase it out..Originally posted by areusure:sigh.....mine is the classic case of the office romance that turned into something.....she is a bubly lady whose laughters and smiles never fail to make my day......now that she's resgin and gone, my days jus got darker. thot maybe widen circles and frens gradually make me 4get her...but alas.sometimes talk is cheaper. Should i keep in touch wit her as much as i can? or should i jus ease off since i can nevr shake off the feelings i hav for her? She is married.........
well.. since she is married.. so jus buzz off -
Well, obviously, Don't break people up for your own hapiness 'cause if you really do have feelings for her, wouldn't you want her to be happy? If she divorces, she wouldn't be happy, so you do the math :]
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Thank u all so much....yes there is really nothing much i can do...even the "judges" here liker e all of u have given a unanimous opinion. Tho still sad and missing her..but happy at least i did not foolishly pursue the matter and seeing there are so many righteous souls out there...i know what to do now.....
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sorry hor before you think so highly of yourself why not think about do you have the ability to make her change heart or not?Originally posted by areusure:Thank u all so much....yes there is really nothing much i can do...even the "judges" here liker e all of u have given a unanimous opinion. Tho still sad and missing her..but happy at least i did not foolishly pursue the matter and seeing there are so many righteous souls out there...i know what to do now.....
Ever ask yourself if another gal with the same behaviour as your friend, you will go after her rite? Know what you want in life may help you lead a better life. -
Married?
Think with the grey matter between your ears, not the one that flows with piping hot blood once aroused.
Rationale should trimph over emotion, always. -
Be patient with yourself. You will get over her soon.
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move on dude. u dun wish to break up a marriage too. u will find ur better half soon... all the best!!Originally posted by areusure:sigh.....mine is the classic case of the office romance that turned into something.....she is a bubly lady whose laughters and smiles never fail to make my day......now that she's resgin and gone, my days jus got darker. thot maybe widen circles and frens gradually make me 4get her...but alas.sometimes talk is cheaper. Should i keep in touch wit her as much as i can? or should i jus ease off since i can nevr shake off the feelings i hav for her? She is married......... 
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married...................................
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