confuse & need help
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recently i fall for a girl but i also have a girlfriend which is at oversea studying right now. we have been together bout 5 years. at first i tot the feeling for that girl is just temporary, after awhile it will fade. but never know that the feeling is getting stronger & stronger upon time. i consider & reconsider which side should i drop. both seem like really really important to me & i cant let go either 1 of them. i also dunno why i have such a strong feeling for that girl, she not pretty & nothing special. but when ever i see her just got the feeling like want to protect her something like that. is just feel great when being with her. for my girlfriend, she is just like my everything. i love her more than anything else. now me n the girl like calling each other dear but she not my girlfriend or anything. i got asked her if we can be togther b4 but she dun want coz i have a gf. one of the day i was like really drunk & she send me home then she kissed me on the lips wat does that mean? i really confuse now.. dunno wat to do. lost my direction.
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Dun play with fireOriginally posted by snorlex:recently i fall for a girl but i also have a girlfriend which is at oversea studying right now. we have been together bout 5 years. at first i tot the feeling for that girl is just temporary, after awhile it will fade. but never know that the feeling is getting stronger & stronger upon time. i consider & reconsider which side should i drop. both seem like really really important to me & i cant let go either 1 of them. i also dunno why i have such a strong feeling for that girl, she not pretty & nothing special. but when ever i see her just got the feeling like want to protect her something like that. is just feel great when being with her. for my girlfriend, she is just like my everything. i love her more than anything else. now me n the girl like calling each other dear but she not my girlfriend or anything. i got asked her if we can be togther b4 but she dun want coz i have a gf. one of the day i was like really drunk & she send me home then she kissed me on the lips wat does that mean? i really confuse now.. dunno wat to do. lost my direction.
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From you type style, I guess you're still young bah..
Haiz. Why don't you cheerish your current gf rather than messing with other people's life? Got girl friend liao still want another. tsk tsk tsk. I have nothing to say liao.
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u will hate me if i start to scold you
anyway, give me ur gf hp no. let me chase her.. i dont care if she was used. -
How faithful are you to your GF? How deep is your love for her? Can you be sure your feelings for this other gal is as real as it can get?
Don't answer to me all these. Answer it to yourself and in the end you have to account to both of them. -
oh ya, now i calling one of my female friend baobeilaopo, she call me deardear.. but she attached, now u tell me what does this mean?
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Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):u will hate me if i start to scold you
anyway, give me ur gf hp no. let me chase her.. i dont care if she was used. u've recovered -
Originally posted by de_middle: u've recovered
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CHOOSE one
Don't be greedy...if not till the end u get NONE -
you're heading into no mans land. I know its not easy to maintain a long distance relationship both of you don't get to see each other as much as you would like to, but ask yourself this, are u being fair to your current girl friend ?
I believe the reason why the second girl reject you is because she wants you to make a decision between her and your current g/f.
Think things through, if possible have a talk with your g/f, she is jus a phone call away. you have to choose 1, If you can't resist your feeling for this new girl then I suggest you end it with your g/f soon or else more people will suffer from your unableness to do the right thing.
best of luck !
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lol... I also want to link this thread to TS ...Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
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So good... got two girls like u , also so confuse and lose direction ... ><Originally posted by snorlex:i got asked her if we can be togther b4 but she dun want coz i have a gf. one of the day i was like really drunk & she send me home then she kissed me on the lips wat does that mean?
Wat does that mean? So simple... She wants u to remain drunk after she kissed u... So that, the relationship wont be broken if u dont accept her. However, if u accept her, the relationship will go up one more lvl lor
i really confuse now.. dunno wat to do. lost my direction.
Even more simple... Act drunk lah, then act blur lah... ><... U act more blur lah, more goody things will come... (tang tio ah!!! tang tio ah!!!)
Anyway, read the story posted by Darkness_hacker99
It is a really a good 1...
U can choose to delay it... since the third party doesnt force u for an answer
So, dont be so confuse and lose direction lah... ENJOY ENJOY... ALAMAK... NO ONE IS PRESSING U... WHEN TIME COMES, U WILL KNOW THE ANSWER... -
But one more thing... place restriction on yrself hor...
BU(4) YAO(4) GAO(1) CHU(3) REN(1) MING(4) -
Don't split la,later injure yourself.
One leg take two boat,will unbalance.
Up to you lor. -
geez... you are faster then me...Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
btw i wanted to find the chinese version de... -
you should become gay
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Originally posted by snorlex:recently i fall for a girl but i also have a girlfriend which is at oversea studying right now. we have been together bout 5 years. at first i tot the feeling for that girl is just temporary, after awhile it will fade. but never know that the feeling is getting stronger & stronger upon time. i consider & reconsider which side should i drop. both seem like really really important to me & i cant let go either 1 of them. i also dunno why i have such a strong feeling for that girl, she not pretty & nothing special. but when ever i see her just got the feeling like want to protect her something like that. is just feel great when being with her. for my girlfriend, she is just like my everything. i love her more than anything else. now me n the girl like calling each other dear but she not my girlfriend or anything. i got asked her if we can be togther b4 but she dun want coz i have a gf. one of the day i was like really drunk & she send me home then she kissed me on the lips wat does that mean? i really confuse now.. dunno wat to do. lost my direction.
It's easy to cheat on our partners - much more effortlessly if she is out of country.
What will you do if you know that you could cheat on her and still 'get away' with it? Because from the way your situation has flowed into, that could turn out to be a possibility eventually.
You are indeed playing with fire when you addressed her flagrantly as 'dear'. Flippant words may be cheap, but reiterated message over a period of time strengthens a belief gradually. Now that your worst nightmare has escalates beyond your control, look closer - probably this 'nightmare' might be a real wish after all.
I do understand your astronomical void and emotional restlessness when your Significant Other is not around physically to tender those sensitive needs. But from certain angles, this is exactly what differentiates a great relationship from 'the others'.
An LDR (long distance relationship) is relative difficult. In fact, it is a fallacious promise for any relationship to succeed in LDR, challenging even for the best of love. Sure, some might just barely kept their breath above water, but looking at statistics, your kind of plight is THE most common reason why LDR fails.
Do note that I am not advocating civil and moral lessons on the necessity to be loyal at all cost because it's a matter of choice. You have your own needs and such subconscious absence might prove to be a little too much for you to bear.
Retrograde and remain alone for the time being. You probably need that sort of environment to introspect and decide what you want. It's better to face your feelings right now, then to play passive and wait until everything implodes into some love tragedy.
You mentioned that you lost your direction? Who knows? In the process, you might have lost your heart too.
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The local girl wants you to breakoff with your gf. She wants you.Originally posted by snorlex:recently i fall for a girl but i also have a girlfriend which is at oversea studying right now. we have been together bout 5 years. at first i tot the feeling for that girl is just temporary, after awhile it will fade. but never know that the feeling is getting stronger & stronger upon time. i consider & reconsider which side should i drop. both seem like really really important to me & i cant let go either 1 of them. i also dunno why i have such a strong feeling for that girl, she not pretty & nothing special. but when ever i see her just got the feeling like want to protect her something like that. is just feel great when being with her. for my girlfriend, she is just like my everything. i love her more than anything else. now me n the girl like calling each other dear but she not my girlfriend or anything. i got asked her if we can be togther b4 but she dun want coz i have a gf. one of the day i was like really drunk & she send me home then she kissed me on the lips wat does that mean? i really confuse now.. dunno wat to do. lost my direction.
Warning.....
It's either she really likes you, or she wants to enjoy the thrill of taking you away from someone else.....yes, women has egos too.
There are some girls that tends to go for attached guys. Because the thrill of "winning" is exhilarating. After they get em, they'd dump em.
If your heart tells you to fall in love with the local girl.
Please... breakoff with your gf. Make it a clean one.
It is better that she break off with you BEFORE she finds out you are unfaithful.
It is much more painful to know the breakoff is due to a 3rd party.
The question is, are you ready to let your gf go ?
Will you torment her with your indecision ? -
It means you have itchy back side.Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):oh ya, now i calling one of my female friend baobeilaopo, she call me deardear.. but she attached, now u tell me what does this mean?
Please go and get your own baobeilaopo, OK ?
Do it before someone comes and give you a bloody nose. -
I think you are just lonely. When your gf comes back all will be settled, the time to choose has come.