1) Just ignore and stay out of it.Originally posted by cApitaland:Recently 2 good friends of mine, a guy A and a girl B, just broke up. As a friend, what can I do to help them move on/patch up etc.
Here is the story. Start of this year, we graduated from our respective secondary schools and went to MI for our 1st 3 months of education. A and B hit off pretty well and during class outings the class would occasionally tease them as being together. They eventually got together around the end of our 3 months and we separated to our respective JC/Poly.
Around 2 months later, I noticed A was feeling down and asked him what was wrong. Remembering B was close with him, I asked her and she vaguely replied 'sometimes people are sad'.
Few days later I chatted with A on MSN and he told me everything. Apparently, he was 'caught' going out with a girl. His story was they were just friends and barely went out 3 times.
Coincidentally, B MSN'ed me a few days later and she being the girl, no offense har, was more emotional and chatted with me more frequently talking about the good times we had in MI and just poured her woes to me in general.
Considering how long it has been since they broke up, I thought by now they would have moved on but apparently not. Women forgive but never forget I guess. It seems that their relationship is already over and there is no hope for reconciliation.
So what should I do. Note: Im not kaypo hor just a good friend to both of them. And the rest of the class is probably clueless about this incident.
Hey TS, i agree to zeny on this.....may end up A getting angry with uOriginally posted by zeny:1) Just ignore and stay out of it.
2) Doing nothing helps becos you are a bit too close to B
totally agreeOriginally posted by uglyguy:imho...
find out if A still loves B and B still loves A.
if they do, encourage the girl to forgive and the guy to apploguise. flowers works best.
since you're in this position, and u care for both of them (enough to seek help here anyway) its a good chance for you to get them back together.
anyway its you're call, if u feel they 2 shouldn't be together, enourage then to move one. and if u like the girl, heres your chance.![]()
actually my advice is not to be involved.. as in, dun try to come between them to solve the prob. no matter wat, its their relationship. if they want to find someone to talk to, u just listen.... give suggestions, but not solutions.Originally posted by cApitaland:Recently 2 good friends of mine, a guy A and a girl B, just broke up. As a friend, what can I do to help them move on/patch up etc.
Here is the story. Start of this year, we graduated from our respective secondary schools and went to MI for our 1st 3 months of education. A and B hit off pretty well and during class outings the class would occasionally tease them as being together. They eventually got together around the end of our 3 months and we separated to our respective JC/Poly.
Around 2 months later, I noticed A was feeling down and asked him what was wrong. Remembering B was close with him, I asked her and she vaguely replied 'sometimes people are sad'.
Few days later I chatted with A on MSN and he told me everything. Apparently, he was 'caught' going out with a girl. His story was they were just friends and barely went out 3 times.
Coincidentally, B MSN'ed me a few days later and she being the girl, no offense har, was more emotional and chatted with me more frequently talking about the good times we had in MI and just poured her woes to me in general.
Considering how long it has been since they broke up, I thought by now they would have moved on but apparently not. Women forgive but never forget I guess. It seems that their relationship is already over and there is no hope for reconciliation.
So what should I do. Note: Im not kaypo hor just a good friend to both of them. And the rest of the class is probably clueless about this incident.
Originally posted by niu.niu:ignore A... strike B while the iron is hot.
well, as the saying goes, strike when the iron is hot.Originally posted by popikachu:totally agree
Except last sentence...