He's getting married tomolo...
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I had special feelings for my childhood fran since young... He knew about it a few yrs back and beginning of this yr, he asked if I wanna be with him but I said nocoz of many factors which one of them is I'm afraid that things might change.. Not long after that.. He got to noe tis gal and they're going ROM tomolo.. Why so soon?!?!??!
A part of me aches whenever I think about it... Haizz... -
People always dun really cherish things until it is gone....
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You gave up the opportunity. Be brave abt the consequences.Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:I had special feelings for my childhood fran since young... He knew about it a few yrs back and beginning of this yr, he asked if I wanna be with him but I said nocoz of many factors which one of them is I'm afraid that things might change.. Not long after that.. He got to noe tis gal and they're going ROM tomolo.. Why so soon?!?!??!
A part of me aches whenever I think about it... Haizz... -
you said 'no', what u expect him to do? marry later?Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:I had special feelings for my childhood fran since young... He knew about it a few yrs back and beginning of this yr, he asked if I wanna be with him but I said nocoz of many factors which one of them is I'm afraid that things might change.. Not long after that.. He got to noe tis gal and they're going ROM tomolo.. Why so soon?!?!??!
A part of me aches whenever I think about it... Haizz...
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oh well... mayb coz if he is reeli true to astrogirl, he would not have given his heart so fast to another girl and he wouldnt take it as far as the ROM in such a short time. imagine, beginning of tis yr kanna rejected, not long after met the girl, now going ROM, tat's like at most 9 mths!
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READ THIS. One of the many versions of this story.
As I sat there in english class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called 'best friend'. I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before. handed them to her. She said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I dont know why.
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The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep.She looked at me, said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheak. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I dont know why.
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The day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is sick" she said,"hes not gonna go" well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together- just as 'best friends'. So we did.Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step.I stared at her as she she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she doesn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before Icould blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated likean angle up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine-but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as i hugged her. Then she lifted her head from myshoulder and said- 'you're my best friend, thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
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Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married That girl is getting married now. I watched her say 'i do' and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said 'you came!'. She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
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Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.
At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: "I stare at him wishing he was mine; but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me! 'I wish I did too...' I thought to my self, and i cried. -
Sad story....Originally posted by seed:READ THIS. One of the many versions of this story.
As I sat there in english class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called 'best friend'. I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before. handed them to her. She said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I dont know why.
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The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep.She looked at me, said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheak. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I dont know why.
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The day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is sick" she said,"hes not gonna go" well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together- just as 'best friends'. So we did.Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step.I stared at her as she she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she doesn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before Icould blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated likean angle up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine-but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as i hugged her. Then she lifted her head from myshoulder and said- 'you're my best friend, thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
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Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married That girl is getting married now. I watched her say 'i do' and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said 'you came!'. She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
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Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.
At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: "I stare at him wishing he was mine; but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me! 'I wish I did too...' I thought to my self, and i cried.
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touching story
read the meaning behind the story, deeper meaning than the story
what's urs is urs, what's not urs, is not urs..
treasure ur loved ones, and dun be afraid to let ur feelings show...
astro, so what if he's getting married?? -
married aso can divorced
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Pain.........tt's very u/standableOriginally posted by AsTr0GiRL:I had special feelings for my childhood fran since young... He knew about it a few yrs back and beginning of this yr, he asked if I wanna be with him but I said nocoz of many factors which one of them is I'm afraid that things might change.. Not long after that.. He got to noe tis gal and they're going ROM tomolo.. Why so soon?!?!??!
A part of me aches whenever I think about it... Haizz...
Though ROM (i dun mean here tt u shld go n stop everything fr taking place).....
but u can try to salvage the situation by letting him know tt u still have feelings for him but everything seemed abit late......tell him the truth.....he's the decision-maker anyway....
(wat if he decides to ROM juz bcoz of ur rejection, n knowing very well another gal appreciates him, so he wants to settle down once n for all?....the 'lucky' bride-to-be may also be a victime in this whole thing)
However......if u decide to confess ur feelings...be brave to accept tt he may have made a CHOICE for the gal in his Life.....it's the bride-to-be but not u......
If u juz want the whole thing to rest n to put a stop to Both of ur Future.....be be glad tt u were once in his Heart.....u did made a difference in his Life......give him blessing n search for urs as well
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kill the the guy's fiancee !!
or go be third party n break dem up !!
jus joking...
, anyway now that the guy is getting married, u should be firm n congratulate him, u miss ur chance n u should face it. The chinese got this saying "na de qi fang de xia", ask both of them out to give ur blessings n continue to be best friends. The next 1-2 years will be diffcult for you, but u must be brave n not to go into depression, keep urself occupied n time will slowly wash away ur pain.
You still hav a chance of getting him back , as a year's relationship is not very strong, n if he really broke up , you should not go flocking back to him, but instead hold ur ground n see wat happens. If he still realli like you, he will try to hint and date you out, and then that is your chance ! If not give up lor...there is still many men out there, like me..
, although i onli 18 , jus joking..Good luck to u Astrogirl -
One advice. Go to his wedding. Get to know his elder brother. Marry his elder brother.
Jus kidding. -
just be a good friend to him from now onwards. there's always someone out there for u.
dun give Up d forest for A tRee. -
Story from seed is nice. -
he got no elder brother wor..... onli a younger one.... well.. i got tis news abt 2mths ago liao.. i chose not to be together coz i m scared things might end someday... since tis is my choice i stick by it... coz i dun ever wan things between us to end...Originally posted by xavier1979:One advice. Go to his wedding. Get to know his elder brother. Marry his elder brother.
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true, don't treasure until it is gone...that is what spore gers r nowadays...
u just hv to wish him well..since u r the 1 who said no. I guess the guy 1 priority was u..but since u said no than he went for the second best...
life is like that, u make the desision, u make the mistakes & u missed that opportunity..same as career, studys or relationships.
so treasure every friendship...u still can be friends but make sure u don't destroy ppl's marriage...that is a bad thing to do...
there r plenty of fish in the sea... -
yaya true ..Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:married aso can divorced
steady can break,
married can divorced,
pregnant can go 4 abortion,
but ... it still ok ..
even thou rice is cook,
one can always try the fried rice ..
taste better then white rice !! -
Sometimes it is you yourself that you have to convince. Are you ready to leave everything behind in the form of memories and carry on life with a fresh new start? With a fresh new hope of meeting another right guy again?Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:he got no elder brother wor..... onli a younger one.... well.. i got tis news abt 2mths ago liao.. i chose not to be together coz i m scared things might end someday... since tis is my choice i stick by it... coz i dun ever wan things between us to end... -
How come you always encouurage people to divorce?Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:married aso can divorced -
i believe quality over quantity. 9 months is not something we can say, based on the facts given, that the above-mentioned couple isn't ready to get married.Originally posted by amelia1083:oh well... mayb coz if he is reeli true to astrogirl, he would not have given his heart so fast to another girl and he wouldnt take it as far as the ROM in such a short time. imagine, beginning of tis yr kanna rejected, not long after met the girl, now going ROM, tat's like at most 9 mths! -
God have mercy on our depraved souls...Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:married aso can divorced -
i guess it's understandable, and to a certain extent, as someone above mentioned (albiet rather tactlessly) "u made the decision, so live with the consequences"Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:I had special feelings for my childhood fran since young... He knew about it a few yrs back and beginning of this yr, he asked if I wanna be with him but I said nocoz of many factors which one of them is I'm afraid that things might change.. Not long after that.. He got to noe tis gal and they're going ROM tomolo.. Why so soon?!?!??!
A part of me aches whenever I think about it... Haizz...
i dunno if this helps, but i'm glad u made a decision. i believe that making a wrong decision is better than not making one at all. of course when we make out decisions, we do not know if it will be wrong. but even after i've made a decision and find out it's wrong, it's not a regret. u can learn something out of it and all that, and it's better than not making a decision. this goes for everything in life... not just love. faced with a problem, pls take the necessary time to educate urself to make an informed decision.. and then MAKE IT. and u did! -
Yeah 5^Originally posted by Hitakogi:yaya true ..
steady can break,
married can divorced,
pregnant can go 4 abortion,
but ... it still ok ..
even thou rice is cook,
one can always try the fried rice ..
taste better then white rice !! 
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but i wont do that -
Arrh ... maybe becoz she dishearted liao ..Originally posted by D3athwish:How come you always encouurage people to divorce?
rite Xiao Long????
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HIO Ho HoOriginally posted by Hitakogi:Arrh ... maybe becoz she dishearted liao ..
rite Xiao Long????
*jus my guess*