New env.......

• riverfrou

  27 Jun 07, 16:33

  Hi there, im a newbie here and just regist.. having a prob....
  
  I graduated from sec sch last yr and currently studying in a new env, and i feel lonely sometimes coz i have yet to find a clique of my own. back den in sec sch, I had this standard clique which was alwys buzzing w activities. We would alwys hang out after sch, during recess and celeb after exams and bdays.It was insane.hahah. I know i shld move on and comparing to the 1st 2 mths in sch , im slowly adjusting to tt.
  
  I gt along perfectly fine w my classmates bt the feelings arent the same with tt clique in sec sch. right up till nw, we do meet and keep in constant contact bt of coz, its nt the same as we go on our sep ways.You might think im a withdrawn person, bt im act totally nt. Im a very pp person, outgoing and am a v talkative person.Bt the sense of security is still nt there.
  
  Some of my frens seem to be fitting in just fine bt i wonder why im nt? It cld be the fact tt i didn attend first 3 mths so there wld naturally be a prob, and i can say it contributes bt looking at hw my other frens who also din go for 1st three mths, it seems a lil diff frm them. Though i still noe some who are in e same sit as me.
  
  My sch is v comp so its nt as easy as sec sch to grab leadership roles where u gt to meet evryonne in sch. I managed to secure one, being part of my floorball exco mem.I wan a vibrant sch life so ive sign up for CIP [also coz i wanna help] where i can meet more pp and also told myself to participate in evryth. Dun think im a nt enthu and participative person. I am! as i love activities. just tt i feel tt the lack of firt 3 mths and a big leadership role has attributed to my prob.
  
  wat shld i do?
• Darkness_hacker99

  27 Jun 07, 16:35

  Hi.
• tut4nkh4m3n

  27 Jun 07, 16:36

  target all those whom you think are easier to approach and talk to them more often for a start. it's not that easy and you'll need courage. but hey, take the first step and it gets easier along the way.
• yihao93

  27 Jun 07, 16:39

  get ppl attention
  cre8 clones !
• AndrewPKYap

  27 Jun 07, 17:47

  Originally posted by ifish:

  Have you been very happy outside but only to come home feeling very lonely?
  Have you ever been feeling so sick and how you wish that someone, just 1 person will have ask you "how're you feeling"?
  Have you ever wish that just somebody will be sitting beside you eating your meals with you?
  Have you ever wish that you can wait for someone just to go to school with you. Just for that 50 min ride on the train.
  Have you ever wish that people will only stop looking for you when they need you?
  Have you ever wish that there is someone who willing to play games with you and play it at your pace.
  Arhh.. I'm feeling so lonely.

  Originally posted by darkhour:

  Have you been very happy outside but only to come home feeling very lonely?
  yes
  Have you ever been feeling so sick and how you wish that someone, just 1 person will have ask you "how're you feeling"?
  yes
  Have you ever wish that just somebody will be sitting beside you eating your meals with you?
  yes
  Have you ever wish that you can wait for someone just to go to school with you. Just for that 50 min ride on the train.
  no, i always travel alone...big deal
  Have you ever wish that people will only stop looking for you when they need you?
  no, i enjoy company
  Have you ever wish that there is someone who willing to play games with you and play it at your pace.
  no, i prefer them to play slower abit
  Arhh.. I'm feeling so lonely.

  Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

  yeah..... yes, i'm
  at work thy see me like so happy, but thy never knw the truth..
  at home thy see me so happy, but i knw thy knw i'm not..
  sometime, i just need someone sit down and chat with me...
  and i'm just waiting for ur sms....
  i'm lonely...

  Originally posted by popikachu:

  I am feeling the same...
  that why i create the chat area for such people to talk so we would feel less lonely...
  but no one at there de...
  always i alone...
  

  Why don't your three get together and spend time together?
  
  edited to add: sorry 4, the four of you...
  
  plus you below...
  
  

  Originally posted by riverfrou:

  Hi there, im a newbie here and just regist.. having a prob....
  
  I graduated from sec sch last yr and currently studying in a new env, and i feel lonely sometimes coz i have yet to find a clique of my own.
  wat shld i do?

• rathcycle

  27 Jun 07, 17:48

  go for sgf outings...
  but not AA de la ...
  found out what devil did
• riverfrou

  28 Jun 07, 23:22

  Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:

  funny!!! nt....???