How many of u out there broke up & got together again
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true love = no breaking up
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they WERE not ready...so they needed time to settle things before they get back...i agree that getting back tgt MAY post a potential 2nd breakup, but this is mainly coz they did not solve the prob which had caused the 1st breakup in the first place...Originally posted by mach10:Coloured in red ones means the couples are not ready. so if both are not ready for any serious relationship, getting back together only post a potential 2nd break up. got it?
So its really no point thinking about the past, just move on and life will be brighter.
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Since so many people already posted their views on true love, then how about sharing your views about true love.Originally posted by lostlostlost:Jz wan to noe abt true love
Each one of us view true love differently cos we lead different lifes. -
not trueOriginally posted by de_middle:true love = no breaking up
how about those whose partener have died and the other party had to live on to take care of the children? -
i think he meant breaking up when they r aliveOriginally posted by zeny:not true
how about those whose partener have died and the other party had to live on to take care of the children?
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so anymore ppl would like to share ur views??
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This one will make or break it~Originally posted by rainee:Depends on the reason of breaking up -
well,in that case shouldn't they have solved the problem WHILE they're together? instead of breaking up then try to settle the problem not knowing where its leading you to? cummon you must be kidding, solving problem is suppose to happen IN the r/s.... not IN-BETWEEN.Originally posted by darkhour:they WERE not ready...so they needed time to settle things before they get back...i agree that getting back tgt MAY post a potential 2nd breakup, but this is mainly coz they did not solve the prob which had caused the 1st breakup in the first place...
i guess they will never solve the problem and never get back together coz problem arise in different forms and on different occasions. -
so solving the problem will increase the chance of saving the R/S?? -
correctOriginally posted by darkhour:i think he meant breaking up when they r alive -
naturally, being in a R/S means understanding each other. To understand, u need communication.Originally posted by lostlostlost:so solving the problem will increase the chance of saving the R/S??
I always hide my frustrations & problems, the end result = break up
Learn to tell ur other half ur problems, if he/she has true love....things will work out.
I hope not to repeat my mistakes & hope everyone who's in a R/S won't -
Same here I always hide my frustrations & problems, the end result = break upOriginally posted by de_middle:naturally, being in a R/S means understanding each other. To understand, u need communication.
I always hide my frustrations & problems, the end result = break up
Learn to tell ur other half ur problems, if he/she has true love....things will work out.
I hope not to repeat my mistakes & hope everyone who's in a R/S won't
Do i get a chance if i work out this problem out?? -
I'm currently undergoing an "in-between", meaning we broke up but still maintaining contact. Giving each other time and space to clear our heads and to solve the problem.
Break-up doesn't mean no turning back, I believe. A lot of times, break-up occurs when one party cannot take it anymore and did not express his/her dissatisfaction to the partner. Perhaps a break-up can give both parties a "cooling down" period to think abt what's wrong and to work on it.
Of course, if possible, the best way is to communicate while the R/S is still intact. But humans and feelings are complex stuffs and it's really tough to handle. Besides, we can learn alot from breaking-up too. For example, lostlostlost, now u know what's the problem and having learnt from it, you will better understand the need to communicate your frustrations to your partner instead of bottling them up and thereby avoid pushing the R/S to its death. -
How long is the cooldown period??Originally posted by daisie:I'm currently undergoing an "in-between", meaning we broke up but still maintaining contact. Giving each other time and space to clear our heads and to solve the problem.
Break-up doesn't mean no turning back, I believe. A lot of times, break-up occurs when one party cannot take it anymore and did not express his/her dissatisfaction to the partner. Perhaps a break-up can give both parties a "cooling down" period to think abt what's wrong and to work on it.
Of course, if possible, the best way is to communicate while the R/S is still intact. But humans and feelings are complex stuffs and it's really tough to handle. Besides, we can learn alot from breaking-up too. For example, lostlostlost, now u know what's the problem and having learnt from it, you will better understand the need to communicate your frustrations to your partner instead of bottling them up and thereby avoid pushing the R/S to its death.
Cos its killing me
i miss her so darn much -
u really need to talk & let it out of ur chest, my problem was my head keeps playing games with meOriginally posted by lostlostlost:Same here I always hide my frustrations & problems, the end result = break up
Do i get a chance if i work out this problem out??
And i never breathe a word.....in the end, i couldn't take it no more &
So please talk to each other -
So how did ur case go ??Originally posted by de_middle:u really need to talk & let it out of ur chest, my problem was my head keeps playing games with me
And i never breathe a word.....in the end, i couldn't take it no more &
So please talk to each other -
Really depends on what is your problem and what does it entails to resolve that issue.Originally posted by lostlostlost:How long is the cooldown period??
Cos its killing me
i miss her so darn much
Who initiated the break-up? Do you know if she still has feelings for u? Do you think it's possible to get back tog?
Need some background info in order to advise ya. -
gone caseOriginally posted by lostlostlost:So how did ur case go ??
and i wonder probably its better being single.....i'm not good at handling R/S -
de_middle, ok mah.. cos you know the problem and the solution so u're actually getting better at R/SOriginally posted by de_middle:gone case
and i wonder probably its better being single.....i'm not good at handling R/S -
daisie
de_middle
Maybe we should meet up & talk abt it -
Originally posted by lostlostlost:daisie
de_middle
Maybe we should meet up & talk abt it I would urge u to clear the air or any doubts u have 1st. I will be happy for you if you're back on track again
Cheers & cherish the ones you love with all ur heart
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Hey daisie, thks so muchOriginally posted by daisie:de_middle, ok mah.. cos you know the problem and the solution so u're actually getting better at R/S yup hopefully i don't fault again & end up hurting the one i love & in the end realise i also hurt myself
I hope, pray & wish for true love & may it happen to all who are in a R/S now -
Wow, I'm actually guilty of this, but the relationship does feel stronger than before.
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Good luck to uOriginally posted by de_middle:Hey daisie, thks so much yup hopefully i don't fault again & end up hurting the one i love & in the end realise i also hurt myself
I hope, pray & wish for true love & may it happen to all who are in a R/S now
Hope i get the same luck as u ... -
twiceOriginally posted by lostlostlost:Jz wan to noe abt true love