My girlfriend say I dun give her sense of security, how ah?
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My stead feels she that as times pass, the sense of security I gave her is getting lesser and lesser. I dun flirt, I not yandao and when i see girls on the road, i never even blink at them in front of her. Somemore, I am muscular enough to protect her leh. People, pls tell me what must I do ?
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You should be asking your gf that question...?Originally posted by xiao^boiboi:My stead feels she that as times pass, the sense of security I gave her is getting lesser and lesser. I dun flirt, I not yandao and when i see girls on the road, i never even blink at them in front of her. Somemore, I am muscular enough to protect her leh. People, pls tell me what must I do ? -
Sense of security may not come in the form of physique, but may also come in the form of spiritual support.Originally posted by xiao^boiboi:My stead feels she that as times pass, the sense of security I gave her is getting lesser and lesser. I dun flirt, I not yandao and when i see girls on the road, i never even blink at them in front of her. Somemore, I am muscular enough to protect her leh. People, pls tell me what must I do ?
Maybe your thoughts or deeds are getting to make her worry abt you, or she is worried that her significance to you is getting lesser and lesser. -
haha i can help u tame her. Just leave her with me for a night and the next morning it should be ok liao!
paiseh ah kidding!! -
hire some bodyguards
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Maybe becos u r muscular all u think is urself whereas ur gf sees girls on the street looking at u. Maybe u r too egoistic to realise ur gf needs physical and emotional attention. Dun flame me for i'm quite fit for my size n height and well from what i heard from my ex she told me alot of older women like to look at me which i hve no conscious of. Becos i keep looking at mirrors and reflection of myself wherever we go shopping.Originally posted by xiao^boiboi:My stead feels she that as times pass, the sense of security I gave her is getting lesser and lesser. I dun flirt, I not yandao and when i see girls on the road, i never even blink at them in front of her. Somemore, I am muscular enough to protect her leh. People, pls tell me what must I do ?
I think ulitmately u need to assure her and reassure her tht she is the only one standing between u n her. As for me now, well work got the better of me and i sag to a piece of meat. Time to pump ... -
maybe she only want more of your concern and care lehzzz...>>>
y not think towards that way......???? u got ask about her opinion everytime u ask a question or whatever????..>>> -
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-_-`~ What a FOOLOriginally posted by CaReLING:Thanks for your advices of all of u... I will try my best to give her as much care n concern in future.
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muscles is not equal to security, unless u work at WWE ...
simple...woman r feeling orientated..get the hint...
bought any flowers lately, gifts, attention? attention not just seeing show, watch TV together...ler, ger likes to chat chat chat chat...they happy when u tell them everything...
good luck...
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Do you look like
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It is not good to be this way. Newton's Law of Gravity states that what goes up must come down.Originally posted by greengoblin:Do you look like
So what is hanging at the chest will surely come down to the waist one day. -
CaReLING: is Xiaoboiboi???Originally posted by Devil1976:-_-`~ What a FOOL -
Some people just have NOTHING BETTER to do... And even attempts to EDIT his own posting to COVER UP for his BOLIAOness.... -_-`~Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:CaReLING: is Xiaoboiboi??? -
they could be sharing the same comp and forgot to change nicks?Originally posted by Devil1976:Some people just have NOTHING BETTER to do... And even attempts to EDIT his own posting to COVER UP for his BOLIAOness.... -_-`~
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If so...Originally posted by bloom:they could be sharing the same comp and forgot to change nicks?
1. Why bother to cover up?
2. Do you think a person sitting just next to you would need to post in to give you advices...? -_-`~ -
hmm...these 2 questions i think u'll have to ask them?Originally posted by Devil1976:If so...
1. Why bother to cover up?
2. Do you need a person sitting just next to you would need to post in to give you advices...? -_-`~ -
He/she like... Couldn't be bother... -_-`~Originally posted by bloom:hmm...these 2 questions i think u'll have to ask them? -
The problem doesn't lies wif you,basically i find nothing wrong if you,The problem lies wif her, she might be hinting you that she wans you to care for her in little ways, sometimes its not the physical built that gives girls a sense of security.... COmmunication is more important....
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screw her, screw her hard
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say things and do actions to re-assure your love to her lor... its kinda hard if u do it delibrately, just follow your heart, if u really love her, urs actions will automatically re-assure her... =)Originally posted by xiao^boiboi:My stead feels she that as times pass, the sense of security I gave her is getting lesser and lesser. I dun flirt, I not yandao and when i see girls on the road, i never even blink at them in front of her. Somemore, I am muscular enough to protect her leh. People, pls tell me what must I do ? -
Tch tch tch, LuvNSex...
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Hmm.. she's a lucky gerOriginally posted by xiao^boiboi:My stead feels she that as times pass, the sense of security I gave her is getting lesser and lesser. I dun flirt, I not yandao and when i see girls on the road, i never even blink at them in front of her. Somemore, I am muscular enough to protect her leh. People, pls tell me what must I do ? having a bf who is so faithful.. lemme ans to ur qns..
Tell her your situation.. u're oso troubled she doesn't haf faith and trust in u.. tell her tt u nid more trust in a manner tt she feels comfortable wif of cos...
Love is giving in and trusting each other...
She has to learn it.. by the book or the hard way one day..
Or else no relationships's gonna work in her way
Good luck
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First of all, all statements given by ppl are merely suggestion for u to look into..but in the end, the person u should ask is ur gf and not us. Remember communication is what makes a relationship going.Originally posted by xiao^boiboi:My stead feels she that as times pass, the sense of security I gave her is getting lesser and lesser. I dun flirt, I not yandao and when i see girls on the road, i never even blink at them in front of her. Somemore, I am muscular enough to protect her leh. People, pls tell me what must I do ?
So i giv u a suggestion.. most of the time gers feel insecure either mentally or stability of the mind of guys or it may also concern ur work attitudes or future together. -
i also faced with the same qn from my gf..
