wat r ur weakness?
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laziness
no guts, which i hate myself the most -
u shld hate urself for ur laziness , not no guts .Originally posted by gigabyte14:laziness
no guts, which i hate myself the most
But anyway , cnt hate ourselves one lah ! Must love ourselves ! Self love !
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I'm too perfect
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OK I list out for you the 1st one... lazinessOriginally posted by eagle:a few, but lazy to list out -
What, to you, is guts?Originally posted by gigabyte14:no guts, which i hate myself the most -
alot of thingsOriginally posted by AndrewPKYap:What, to you, is guts?
like not daring to do/say the things that i want to
one such example is r/s stuff
sumtimes i wan ask for stuffs oso scare ps
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You cannot hope to become a happy person if you cannot accept the fact that you and everyone else is not perfect.Originally posted by gigabyte14:alot of things
like not daring to do/say the things that i want to
one such example is r/s stuff
sumtimes i wan ask for stuffs oso scare ps
"which i hate myself the most"... this is disturbing.
Behind this statement is the assumption that "if only I have more guts... I will..."
So if only I have more guts... I will... have a girlfriend.
Untrue. It takes a lot of "fate" for two people to come together and "guts" plays a very small part. Like if you are fated, the girl would have been you project partner, for instance.
You see a girl you like and you think that you should approach her but you have no guts to do that and so you "hate yourself".
Just because you have the guts and approach her does not mean that anything will come out of it. "Fate" plays too big a part and a simple thing like "guts" plays so small a part that we can say that it is a waste of time to "hate myself the most" due to a lack of guts.
You can keep on asking yourself: So if only I have more guts... I will... (fill in the blanks...) and work it out in your head and see how true/untrue it is.
That is one way and the other way is:
How to get rid of the negative emotions? How not to hate yourself for a lack of guts?
The third way is to focus entirely on "something else"
That is to say, every moment you spend you time focusing on "this something else".
What is this something else? That is up to you! Just that it must be positive.
Summary:
1. Recognize that it is not true "So if only I have more guts... I will... "
2. Learn how to get rid of negative emotions
3. Learn how to focus on positive emotions
For long term happiness and success, you need a fundamental philosophy of life to govern your every moment of existence.
see/click here: Do i have a big ego? -
soft spoken
lazy
temprimental
finding ways to change it....
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Insecure
Over-sensitive
Indecisive
wu neng
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sameOriginally posted by LinYu:inferior complexity and not confident
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But weakness is weakness what u actually can improve on? or just leave it?
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haix sometimes focus aso no useOriginally posted by zodi:i tell u lah, u're too indecisive.
learn to focus!
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who wouldn't wanna improve on it......i would love toOriginally posted by NiaoDan:But weakness is weakness what u actually can improve on? or just leave it? -
I am too forgiving.
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too forgiving also weakness?
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Superiority complex and overconfidence for me.Originally posted by LinYu:inferior complexity and not confident 
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lazy, think too much, frenly but shy, introvert, look like happy-go-lucky but actuali very sensitive, can b very quiet or very noisy, when fail to achieve expected results will feel very down...damn lot hor
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Lazy
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i hate my weakness and its hard to change
its a obstacle for me to chase the girl i love -
same....+ not handsome, + too confident sometimes but sometimes too lack of confidence, + sometimes a little hot-tempered..... sometimes only....Originally posted by darkhour:lazy, think too much, frenly but shy, introvert, look like happy-go-lucky but actuali very sensitive, can b very quiet or very noisy, when fail to achieve expected results will feel very down...damn lot hor
like to act cool -.-", trust other ppl too easily, in another words means too pure or naive....
bad at lying .... -
i heard a quote before.
'my strongest strength is that i have no weakness...' -
just the stuffs i wanna hearOriginally posted by AndrewPKYap:You cannot hope to become a happy person if you cannot accept the fact that you and everyone else is not perfect.
"which i hate myself the most"... this is disturbing.
Behind this statement is the assumption that "if only I have more guts... I will..."
So if only I have more guts... I will... have a girlfriend.
Untrue. It takes a lot of "fate" for two people to come together and "guts" plays a very small part. Like if you are fated, the girl would have been you project partner, for instance.
You see a girl you like and you think that you should approach her but you have no guts to do that and so you "hate yourself".
Just because you have the guts and approach her does not mean that anything will come out of it. "Fate" plays too big a part and a simple thing like "guts" plays so small a part that we can say that it is a waste of time to "hate myself the most" due to a lack of guts.
You can keep on asking yourself: So if only I have more guts... I will... (fill in the blanks...) and work it out in your head and see how true/untrue it is.
That is one way and the other way is:
How to get rid of the negative emotions? How not to hate yourself for a lack of guts?
The third way is to focus entirely on "something else"
That is to say, every moment you spend you time focusing on "this something else".
What is this something else? That is up to you! Just that it must be positive.
Summary:
1. Recognize that it is not true "So if only I have more guts... I will... "
2. Learn how to get rid of negative emotions
3. Learn how to focus on positive emotions
For long term happiness and success, you need a fundamental philosophy of life to govern your every moment of existence.
see/click here: Do i have a big ego?
thanks!
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I'm very defensive abt myself... Should have chose to be a lawyer instead...
Stubborn, refuse to admit wrong.... but will still say sorry, etc..
One who dun admit defeat... I'm strong minded ba...
Absent-minded... serious case.. rem one thing, den walk out, den instantly forgot wat i wan.. Damn jialat..lolx -
In other words you Damn One Kind!Originally posted by Ferret:Stubborn.
Always think I am right.
Argumentative.
Oversensitive.
That said. I have a lotta plus points -
I dont get angry easily but when I do...you better call the riot squad