ARGUE: Go After Someone As Long As Thy Arent Married, Is OK

• kiss_my (_i_)

  6 Jul 07, 09:54

  Since primary school, IÂ’ve been listening this.
  
  what is your view.
• ChoCoChips

  6 Jul 07, 09:59

  if u think she'll be happier with u, why not?
  i think only la.
• rainee

  6 Jul 07, 10:00

  I thought I have already created another thread which runs along similar line...
  
  For me personally, I do not think it is okie, it is against my principle.
  
  
• kiss_my (_i_)

  6 Jul 07, 10:02

  is it, bu hao yi shi.. i dont like to search
  thn can close this liao
• ^mR.yellow^86

  6 Jul 07, 10:04

  people snatch your girlfriend/boyfriend how you feel? maybe u will curse that fellow.
  
  don't do to others what you don't like others to do to you. If everyone's doing it, man, you are a civilized person with morality and ethic codes.
• crazy monkey

  6 Jul 07, 10:05

  no. its not good. but then there are exceptions ....
• MiX Metal

  6 Jul 07, 10:12

  that depends ..... if she is already planning to marry the guy then I don't think its right otherwise don't think its really that wrong. Provided if her relationship is on the rocky side in the first place and not created by you.
• de_middle

  6 Jul 07, 12:19

  why be 3rd party only to get cursed
• mistyblue

  6 Jul 07, 12:21

  the world is full of grey
• ispyyy

  6 Jul 07, 12:27

  Originally posted by mistyblue:

  the world is full of grey

  Wrong... the world is full of colors
  
• tedted

  6 Jul 07, 12:29

  its ethic i tink..wrong to steal pple's gf/bf..wrong to be 3rd party...
• Darkness_hacker99

  6 Jul 07, 12:30

  Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

  is it, bu hao yi shi.. i dont like to search
  thn can close this liao

  Would you go after someone whom you know is attached?
• Cool-gal

  6 Jul 07, 15:56

  can try if u dun believe in karma & retribution..
  
• BadzMaro

  6 Jul 07, 19:20

  You are not to blame when people cant hold on to their things n lose it.
  
  
• Pitot

  6 Jul 07, 19:28

  this is a man eat man world, if you dont do, others will do to you.
  
  Anyway, if your partner knows where his or her heart is, i dont see anything worth worrying about.
  
  If they leave, it probably wasnt meant to be in the beginning.
• kiss_my (_i_)

  6 Jul 07, 19:57

  Originally posted by Pitot:

  this is a man eat man world, if you dont do, others will do to you.
  
  Anyway, if your partner knows where his or her heart is, i dont see anything worth worrying about.
  
  If they leave, it probably wasnt meant to be in the beginning.

  Originally posted by BadzMaro:

  You are not to blame when people cant hold on to their things n lose it.
  
  

  well, i do agreed.
• rainee

  7 Jul 07, 11:55

  Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

  well, i do agreed.

  I believe you are feeling guilty about what you are doing, and you posted this thread to search for reasons to justify your own action
• kiss_my (_i_)

  7 Jul 07, 13:08

  Originally posted by rainee:

  I believe you are feeling guilty about what you are doing, and you posted this thread to search for reasons to justify your own action

  i feel guilty for wat... she also havent break up with her bf
• darkhour

  7 Jul 07, 13:12

  Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

  i feel guilty for wat... she also havent break up with her bf

  haha so u r guilty of such actions la!guilty as charged....
  
  as for the topic...i think its ok if the girl isnt happy with her current bf loh...id say the main thing is to leave the girl with whoever can provide her a better n happier life
• kiss_my (_i_)

  7 Jul 07, 13:16

  Originally posted by darkhour:

  haha so u r guilty of such actions la!guilty as charged....
  
  as for the topic...i think its ok if the girl isnt happy with her current bf loh...id say the main thing is to leave the girl with whoever can provide her a better n happier life

  again i dont feel guilty at all..
  how to say i also dont knw..
  
  the 1 who will feel guilty is not the 3rd party but the girl/boy who choose to be with the 3rd party..
• WiNtEr'SkiLL

  7 Jul 07, 13:19

  if u have the ability to snatch her away.. means shes not happy enough with her current, y not ?
• CKeer

  7 Jul 07, 13:22

  "What goes around, goes around, goes around, Comes all the way back around~~"
  
  Cheers.
  CK
• kiss_my (_i_)

  7 Jul 07, 13:28

  and 1 more...
  
  y must use chase/snatch/go after leh??
  
  u really go chase snatch blar blar blar meh?
  
  for me, i will tell the girl how is my feeling, thn it's up to her to make the Decision..
  
  so this is nothing wrong at all...
  
  yes u can say tht to my gf, if she leave me, at least NOW i understand what is the problem..
  
  well i learnt frm my.....
• rainee

  7 Jul 07, 14:46

  Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

  i feel guilty for wat... she also havent break up with her bf

  you don't feel guilty then why do you post this thread? So that if others said it is okie to go ahead, then you will go ahead?
  
  Since you are already bent on being the third party in their relationship, why do you still bother to get others' opinions?
• rainee

  7 Jul 07, 14:48

  Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

  and 1 more...
  
  y must use chase/snatch/go after leh??
  
  u really go chase snatch blar blar blar meh?
  
  for me, i will tell the girl how is my feeling, thn it's up to her to make the Decision..
  
  so this is nothing wrong at all...
  
  yes u can say tht to my gf, if she leave me, at least NOW i understand what is the problem..
  
  well i learnt frm my.....

  If you tell her that you love her, shower her with attention, then that is not chasing her meh?