dunno what the fish my mum always complaining about
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I just came back on a 3 day trip to KL. Bought local stuff (kopi, ba ku teh, tea, snacks) back for family worth over $100. She just see alr put one corner. I also bought a bar of chocolate about $18 and put in fridge. She also bochap.
Then she purposely come into my room demanding to see the pictures I took for the trip. I said it was not ready yet, as I had not downloaded into PC, but she insist on looking at it through the digital cam. Fine then. Then, she kept asking irriating questions like, why I only took the outside of times sq, why only snap at night, why never take the scrnery, etc etc etc. I took all the shots, just that she had no reach them yet.
Then she look at the gifts i bought for my friends. She saw 5 boxes of chocolates, and immediately ask why I buy for friends but she dun have. (I told her to go compare the price of the chocolate in the fridge compare to the price of the gifts.)
Then she say am I afraid to let her know I going overseas for fear that she will tag along. (I screamed at her reminding her that I had already proposed earlier this year that I'll sponser a family trip of her choice this year end.)
I feel that she's always trying to find fault with whatever I do.
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I'm dam bloody piss off right now.... we screaming at each other
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You know something? She cares for you.
I know you are tired. Take a good rest. Tomorrow share with her the exciting experience with her. Tell her that she's always in your mind during the whole 3 days.
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now we arguing over them bloody camera, whether will the battery leak. The camera was purcahsed by mum at the over price harvey norman. I had told her I'll check the prices first, but she just go and buy 1. I believe i can get the model $50 cheaper.
Now she arguing with me about the battery. The camera had been sitting there since 4 months ago with the battery in it. Now right after i used it she is questioning why i never take out the battery? if leak how? -
dun scream la.
some parents just too prideful to talk to their kids.
relaz, k.. -
Agreed... u should take a good rest... if u have any problem, post tomolo ... ><Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:You know something? She cares for you.
I know you are tired. Take a good rest. Tomorrow share with her the exciting experience with her. Tell her that she's always in your mind during the whole 3 days. -
Don't scream back... just lock your door and refuse to let her come in... and ignore her shouting... if you shout, scream back it will only make it worse.Originally posted by sonic_16:Then she purposely come into my room demanding to see the pictures I took for the trip.
She must learn to behave and treat you courteously... -
when moms nag at u, they care for u
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They can care and not nag... just because they care, it is not an excuse for bad behavior...Originally posted by DC+:when moms nag at u, they care for u
It is time that this type of stupid behavior stops...
People like to take the short cut and instead of learning how to motivate their kid and understanding and helping their children... they simply nag nag nag... this kind of sh!t has to stop and people must not condone it by saying things like... "when moms nag at u, they care for u" -
You how old ah ?
Your mom is jealous you didn't bring her along to this KL trip lah.
Even though you promise her a trip end of the year.
She probably want to go with you to KL.
Your gift if what YOU think she wants.
Before you left for the trip , did you ask her if those are stuff she wants ???
Your mother is adult leh.
Her money, why you want to control how she spend.
Even if she spend on 10K for a gold plated camera. So ? As long as she happy.
You must be one of those kids who thinks your parents are stupid and useless, right ?
Well guess what, they survived bringing you up and putting you through school. -
the lithium battery wont leak la....Originally posted by sonic_16:now we arguing over them bloody camera, whether will the battery leak. The camera was purcahsed by mum at the over price harvey norman. I had told her I'll check the prices first, but she just go and buy 1. I believe i can get the model $50 cheaper.
Now she arguing with me about the battery. The camera had been sitting there since 4 months ago with the battery in it. Now right after i used it she is questioning why i never take out the battery? if leak how?
just that u have a shorten battery life -
Just let it go. Forget it.
Its all poor communication skills on the part of both of you.
Put it down as "That's the way she speaks, thats the way I speak."
And forget it, when the topic changes.
Its like this:
Your mum says something, just some normal thing, but she does not say it in the correct tone, in the correct manner, or select her words with care, just anyhow shoot off her mouth.
You percive it as scolding, and retort back.
She is angry at your insolence and shout back.
End up both of you angry at each other.
And you harbour resentment in your mind for days.
This is the malady of Singaporeans, poor transmission of ones culture, from parents to offsprings. -
u may be talking but u aren't comminicating
its hard for her to express herself and for u to understand cos different age of thinking... -
probably menopause.....my mum went through it and was acting all nuts...after a couple of months, sanity returned....lol..