Why do I keep dreaming about him?
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Well, I've rejoined the Singles Club just recently. The R/s ended quite amicably, I would say. It was nobody's fault. Just that it didn't work out. The guy and I are better off as friends.
However, being a girl, I still feel heartbroken and sad. The 1 week plus after it ended, nearly every night I will dream about him.
It's kinda like a reminder. I'm not sure what are the dreams trying to tell me.
Lastly, I got over him (logically), but I guess for my heart to heal and feel again, it will take a long while.
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i believe u wasn't the one who initiated it... so inside of u still will miss him... after a while should be ok... u need new things in ur life...Originally posted by Nata|ie:Well, I've rejoined the Singles Club just recently. The R/s ended quite amicably, I would say. It was nobody's fault. Just that it didn't work out. The guy and I are better off as friends.
However, being a girl, I still feel heartbroken and sad. The 1 week plus after it ended, nearly every night I will dream about him.
It's kinda like a reminder. I'm not sure what are the dreams trying to tell me.
Lastly, I got over him (logically), but I guess for my heart to heal and feel again, it will take a long while. -
I guess the hardest part is to put away a part/chapter of your life and move on to bigger things. Initially feel handicapped, got alot of things want to share with him. Nights are lonelier and colder than usual.
Those dreams just make me feel worse.Originally posted by BrUtUs:i believe u wasn't the one who initiated it... so inside of u still will miss him... after a while should be ok... u need new things in ur life... -
write a diary or share these with ur close frens... u jz need new things to fill ur life...Originally posted by Nata|ie:I guess the hardest part is to put away a part/chapter of your life and move on to bigger things. Initially feel handicapped, got alot of things want to share with him. Nights are lonelier and colder than usual.
Those dreams just make me feel worse. -
make yourself with activites... eg. shopping, going high tea with friends etc..
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Originally posted by Nata|ie:Well, I've rejoined the Singles Club just recently. The R/s ended quite amicably, I would say. It was nobody's fault. Just that it didn't work out. The guy and I are better off as friends.
However, being a girl, I still feel heartbroken and sad. The 1 week plus after it ended, nearly every night I will dream about him.
It's kinda like a reminder. I'm not sure what are the dreams trying to tell me.
Lastly, I got over him (logically), but I guess for my heart to heal and feel again, it will take a long while. 
My friend... it's only 1 week plus - of course you will still harbour feelings/thoughts about him.
Even the worst of failures will recover someday; do allow time to heal you.
Cheers -
Well... they say tat dreams reflected what the person want sub-consciously... Probably, u have compressed yr unpleasent feelings with a very strong reason... And thus, when u sleep, yr emotions flow...
haha... solution : U need to whine ... :p -
see if u stil dream of him few mths down the road.
if yes, he has left a tear in ur heart. -
time heal. cos our minds is designed to remember good past, when one very good things failed?Originally posted by Nata|ie:Well, I've rejoined the Singles Club just recently. The R/s ended quite amicably, I would say. It was nobody's fault. Just that it didn't work out. The guy and I are better off as friends.
However, being a girl, I still feel heartbroken and sad. The 1 week plus after it ended, nearly every night I will dream about him.
It's kinda like a reminder. I'm not sure what are the dreams trying to tell me.
Lastly, I got over him (logically), but I guess for my heart to heal and feel again, it will take a long while. -
Haha, that's a good one. I need to whine....LOL
quote]Originally posted by ispyyy:
Well... they say tat dreams reflected what the person want sub-consciously... Probably, u have compressed yr unpleasent feelings with a very strong reason... And thus, when u sleep, yr emotions flow...
haha... solution : U need to whine ... :p
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I guess the scar/tear is already there. Becoz of all my r/s, this is the one that I really put my heart and soul into it. Maybe that's why it hurts so much than my past r/s.
Juz hope that I dun have dreams of him few months down the road. It will be a night mare
Originally posted by Cool-gal:see if u stil dream of him few mths down the road.
if yes, he has left a tear in ur heart. -
I guess that's all I can do now, right
Nothing, but let time heal all these.
Originally posted by Yunhaier: My friend... it's only 1 week plus - of course you will still harbour feelings/thoughts about him.
Even the worst of failures will recover someday; do allow time to heal you.
Cheers -
It's the same...
For a lot of people...
Thing dont goes well, break...
You and me, also the same...
My gf broke with me, for the same reason...
It's just a matter, of understanding...
A few days back, we broke...
Still thinking of her... Even in dreams...
What we could to is, forget...
Yup. Forget.
Dreams... It's a thing where you mind work at night. It's imaginary, it uncontrolable...
Dreams, often relates to what you normally think during the day...
You must be thinking of him alot. So much that he could enter your dream...
Don't be sad...
You aren't alone. -
Nat, you can do it.
Take care babe. -
dun think too much, its jus a dream. wanna break, do it yi gan er jing. dont look back...
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gals are harder to forget someone.. hmmOriginally posted by Nata|ie:Well, I've rejoined the Singles Club just recently. The R/s ended quite amicably, I would say. It was nobody's fault. Just that it didn't work out. The guy and I are better off as friends.
However, being a girl, I still feel heartbroken and sad. The 1 week plus after it ended, nearly every night I will dream about him.
It's kinda like a reminder. I'm not sure what are the dreams trying to tell me.
Lastly, I got over him (logically), but I guess for my heart to heal and feel again, it will take a long while. -
Some bois also..Originally posted by FBI:gals are harder to forget someone.. hmm -
how to join the singles club?
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Dreams are just a form of mental feedback. Don't take them too seriously.Originally posted by Nata|ie:Well, I've rejoined the Singles Club just recently. The R/s ended quite amicably, I would say. It was nobody's fault. Just that it didn't work out. The guy and I are better off as friends.
However, being a girl, I still feel heartbroken and sad. The 1 week plus after it ended, nearly every night I will dream about him.
It's kinda like a reminder. I'm not sure what are the dreams trying to tell me.
Lastly, I got over him (logically), but I guess for my heart to heal and feel again, it will take a long while.
In time you will get over him. Don't fret. -
Life still goes whether you like it or not.Originally posted by Nata|ie:Well, I've rejoined the Singles Club just recently. The R/s ended quite amicably, I would say. It was nobody's fault. Just that it didn't work out. The guy and I are better off as friends.
However, being a girl, I still feel heartbroken and sad. The 1 week plus after it ended, nearly every night I will dream about him.
It's kinda like a reminder. I'm not sure what are the dreams trying to tell me.
Lastly, I got over him (logically), but I guess for my heart to heal and feel again, it will take a long while.
Life is short and never allows you to go back to the past.
Is normal to feel what you feel.
just take care and remember -
Your dreams are telling you that you have miss him badly. A loss. I think you must have like him alot. Dont know why the break up. But, sometimes, things can be fixed, breakup doesnt mean you can solve everything.
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Look and plan forward... Not backward... Cause time only travel in this direction... (for now?)Originally posted by Nata|ie:I guess the hardest part is to put away a part/chapter of your life and move on to bigger things. Initially feel handicapped, got alot of things want to share with him. Nights are lonelier and colder than usual.
Those dreams just make me feel worse. -
My story damn long so to cut it damn short, I think it's meant for us to be friends and nothing more than that.
So.. ya.... I do miss him alot, am trying to occupy my time to do other things.Originally posted by dreamykite:Your dreams are telling you that you have miss him badly. A loss. I think you must have like him alot. Dont know why the break up. But, sometimes, things can be fixed, breakup doesnt mean you can solve everything. -
I guess.. Anyway looking back wun help at all. Looking forward at least it will make me happierOriginally posted by Devil1976:Look and plan forward... Not backward... Cause time only travel in this direction... (for now?)
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For those who watch duck tales cartoon from disney :
Scrooge McDuck is the richest duck in the world and the cartoon tells the adventure of scrooge McDuck getting more money...
Scrooge McDuck vs Broken-Heart
1) Scrooge McDuck's eyes always uncontrollably showed "$" when there is a new found wealth...
Broken-Heart always uncontrollably showed "" when there is a recollection...
2) Scrooge McDuck always dream of more gold to his piggy bank when near to his aim of new found treasure...
Broken-Heart always dream of their ex when just broke off
3) Cartoon watchers will sometimes wonder it is rather stupid for Scrooge McDuck to risk his life for gold. Gold cannot be eaten, drink or wear...
Observers will sometimes wonder it is rather stupid for Broken Heart to risk their time for their ex. ex cannot be eaten, drink or wear...
4) After scrooge McDuck's treasure hunting foiled, he always has his next adventure in next episode.
After broken heart's love lost, they will always have their next episode too...
5) After scrooge McDuck's treasure hunting foiled, he will still be protrayed as a happy duck because he still has his 3 beloved grand nephew in the end... ><
After broken heart's love lost, will broken heart be protrayed as a happy person??? hmmm....
So, what is my point ???
Crap as below...
love for ex and love for money are all love...
love for ex is lost but at least u still can love money... ><
When a person lost his love, his or her views are very narrow... But if u really look beyond like scrooge McDuck, u can be as happy as scrooge McDuck too ><
There are many other things to achieve beside love... ><